I Have hope for humanity even in the dark

Im not here to be spiteful. Im not here for drama. Im here because something needs to be said and im not afraid to say it anymore. break down my doors if you'd like but im not afraid. Even if they take me down. Like a pheonix... i will rise again, and again from the ashes of the fire.

[hottakeswithjazzie]

You need dysphoria to be trans.

Gender dysphoria definition I’m using: “Gender dysphoria is a term that describes a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity.” -NHS UK

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/#:~:text=Gender%20dysphoria%20is%20a%20term,harmful%20impact%20on%20daily%20life.

How I’m interpreting this is you feel very uncomfortable when you’re not seen as the opposite gender/are misgendered.

For instance, a woman feels uncomfortable with her tits because they make her feel like she’s a woman, and not a man.

(That wasn’t meaning to misgender them, just trying to use an example)

If you don’t have dysphoria, then you don’t feel like the opposite sex, which kind of defeats the whole point of being trans.

As always, I’m open to debate this.

[fromtheashescamehope]

I Completely Agree. You do need dysphoria to be trans, and i'm sorry to say i'm living proof of that. I'm a social de-transitioner, thankfully i never took that step of making myself unable to have kids... i don't know what i would have done if i had my realization after i had a surgery i didn't want, and only THOUGHT i needed to be loved. The problem i have with woke transness is that its not transness. Its... almost a togetherness brainwashing ceremony. For those who identify as nonbinary because you were curious (i've been there) and eventually you found that the friends that encouraged you to do that made you feel loved, and accepted... it encourages you that this version of you is good.. that the old version of you wasn't good enough. You are loved... you are loved and you can be loved in whatever form you were created. With legitimate dysphoria.. its like a disease similar to depression, and an eating disorder combined, only it's about your gender, and not how much you eat. Doing surgery to alleviate the pain, and legitimate panic or hurt that comes from biologically being a woman/man i can understand if you KNOW and WANT what you are doing, knowing what consequences could lie. Children are excluded from this... HEAR ME MINNESOTA?! You legalizing child sex change is just- DISGUSTING, and The 41st governor should be ashamed of himself! But- off that topic, YES, Dysphoria can be something you're born with, or more than likely something that comes from trauma as far as we know, IE Blaire White.

[fromtheashescamehope]

What's the definition of a cult... and are you apart of one?

A cult typically allows no outside beliefs and prides itself on a sense of justice, whether the justice is justified or not. Everyone thinks the same, looks the same, acts the same... Or else you get scrutinized, re-educated, or completely dispelled from the group. They offer you love.. they offer you devotion, and praise, and hope. The only difference between a cult, and religion, or togetherness, despite the fact that they could go hand in hand... is a cult at its roots doesn't care about you when you're no longer useful, or no longer spread the message. And depending on that cult, it could rip you of your job, your home, your very life. it can take away your friends, your family.. and leave you all alone.... because you know what? thats what the cult wants so you have no where else to go, or turn. They target the children under a false pretense of love... and for what? devotion. allegiance. If you allow a child to consent to getting a tattoo... If you allow your child consent to getting their leg or arm cut off under sedation, and make it sound like a good thing? You'd call that child abuse, physical abuse for sure... and if the doctors go through with it? even worse. ... so why do you want children to be able to change their sex? one of the most FRAGILE places on our bodies? It has happened... people have come out and have said they had sex surgeries as kids... and bills are trying to be passed to allow that to be okay. Why is this okay?

[fromtheashescamehope]

Why can't you call yourself a trans man or trans woman? There is a difference between a woman, and trans woman, and vice versa.

Whats wrong with being trans? Why do you get offended by being called a trans woman, or trans man when that's how you identify? when that's what you transitioned into? There is nothing wrong with accepting the fact you had to transition... or what you transitioned from. You aren't an ordinary woman, or ordinary man... You're trans.... and that's okay. a woman is someone who was born as the female sex a man is someone who was born as the male sex A woman cannot be a woman without specifying what it is in definition. How can you identify as something when it has no definition other than you identify as it? Why is it socially illegal to have a definition for a woman or man? You can still identify as whatever you want... but why do you have to kill the definition of a man and woman in the process? why not make new definitions for whatever it is you identify as instead of changing it? Make 3rd or 4th catagories... hell, even a fifth if you want. but acknowledge where you came from whether you healthily or unhealthy grew away from it or not... what a woman is... and what a man is.

[fromtheashescamehope]

What is a De-transitioner?

A De-transitioner is not someone who disagrees with trans ideology... they are not questioning your line of judgement by asking: "What have i done?" or saying, "I don't like what i done to my body... why didn't it change how I feel about my body?" They do not demonize trans people like we demonize them... if you are trans and truly happy? that is something that should matter to you and your loved ones... not recognize those who didn't have a good experience as an attack on you. A De-transitioner is somebody who regrets their sexual, or social transition.. whether it be from problems to use the bathroom, incessant cleaning of their surgical procedure for the rest of their lives, or somebody who was close to going under the knife for 'beauty' and backs out and loses everybody who used to love them now because they're 'self hating trans' .. who almost took out their breasts, or mutilated their genitalia based on wanting love, and hating themselves VS dysphoria and hating their gender. Why do you blame them? Hate them? Why do you blame and hate them when nobody recommends them to re-evaluate Beforehand? It is the doctors' fault. The Therapists'. and most ironic of all.. the movement. EVEN in non-transition contexts, we as humans have to evaluate Decisions BEFORE we make them, or we could cause detrimental damage to relationships, financial situations, or homelife situations... the worst part is bills are trying to legalize children to make those decisions adults regret. What will it be like when you wake up? Think about that before you do anything... and if you've thought it through and have no history of mental illness aside from dysphoria, go ahead. do what you want, you are an adult... Why is it considered transphobic even when a trans person themself wants people to consider what they are doing to their bodies? To their minds? and you know what? Most 'trans' suicide rates COME out of the once loving community turning against them once they ask, "what have i done?" and without love, and support think they are even more worthless than going in. Those rates are not trans people... do not count them as trans when the reason they did it was because the transition, or surgery didn't fix anything for them... It didn't help... and you know what? we as a society need to realize what we're doing when we refuse to listen and hold on to selfishness, and prideful thinking. You can be gay and trans or what have you without pride. the emotion of Pride is hate in disguise if its what you use in every situation. If everything is about you, If you are a prideful person and will die on the hill... you will die alone on that hill, or in hateful union with people who would rather care only about themselves than for themselves and others.

-Phoenix

[fromtheashescamehope]

Keep Standing.

Keep standing strong... do not let fear break you, for fear is only a wall blocking freedom. Freedom of speech, freedom of hate, of suffering. a world free of human trafficking, of inflation, of job opportunities for those just wanting to start life, of history that won't be rewritten. We live in dark times...

Pale luna smiles wide upon the gruesome display, a murder of one with no care, a hospitalization of two with no remorse. Do not be afraid to speak of them in these trying times, and only fight when your very life is threatened... You are a demon to these people, and you need to accept that to move on... and sadly the reality is you will always be a demon that does not get the right to heaven. They speak of privilege yet cry out in the pale light like wolves and tarnish the field of lamb for its wool when the Shepard is no longer allowed to care for their lamb. Keep standing, and if you turn your back, and they shoot... They never truly saw you as man.

-Phoenix

[ashymationzowu]

well fuck

[fromtheashescamehope]

What kind of human beings have we become? ... why did you draw this? why are we celebrating this? everyone should be ashamed of themselves. I don't agree with him... fuck no. But you are disgusting for drawing this. What humanity do you have in you Just cause you don't like someone? He killed nobody. Unpopular opinion? Trump isn't hitler. Does trump deserve to die? For what evil do you assume he's done for you to make something so heartless? No... i understand. you jump on the trolley because you want the attention and love. The sad thing is... you don't need to kill yourself to do it. You don't need to sacrifice your humanity for love... love should come naturally.

Think of the person who died when the shots wrang out... you're saying sun and moon killed a father who risked his life to protect his daughters. Trump was not the only one who was affected and you need to realize that.

[ashymationzowu]

this is my official response

[fromtheashescamehope]

Dear child... all i'll say on the matter is.... You missed my point, and i don't want to take it any further upon your own comfortability. Fictives are sadly not the actual thing, and yes.. i know of them quite personally in the past, having been one myself... the point wasn't sun and moon wouldn't be proud of you.. the point was you did something inhumane, started by you or not, you still did, and you will have to live with it. However, no. The point was Trump was a human being, a human being with no blood on his hands accept his own... and you wish him dead without a care in the world. Not only this... but you're upset the fires missed, and hit not one, but three targets that were not him. Did those two people deserve to be put in a hospital? you don't personally know them. Did that one father deserve to die? To be taken away from his wife, and his kids forever past whatever wall that separates us from this beautiful life?

You don't know a person before you've met them, and sadly one of those wonderful people.. a father who shielded his daughter, and wife from the bullets that rang out sadly didn't make it... a wife lost a husband, and a girl lost her father. If he only wanted to hurt trump... answer me this: why did he. keep. shooting? and not just in one direction? Fires rang out that all came from the sniper, minus the one at the end that ended his very life, silencing the shots.

Was it just an assassination attempt? ... no. it turned into a mass shooting targeted not only at trump, but those who dared to support him. I will leave you alone now, and may you find peace. For others viewing from the outside in, don't lose hope, okay? I know you're scared, but keep standing. -Phoenix

[ariaste]

Yes yes, I too am very sad and annoyed that Trump is not dead, I got all breathlessly excited and queued up "Ding Dong The Witch Is Dead" to be ready for a great announcement, and then I didn't even get to play it. It's a huge bummer.

However, step two of this huge bummer is NOT "Oh no and now his fandom will be EVEN MORE ANNOYING, we have basically already lost :((((" That is the devil speaking. Step two is to say "Ah heck, his fandom is going to be even more annoying, better FUCKING VOTE AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE I KNOW ALSO VOTES" Stop your worthless defeatism, stop your stupid pessimism, stop trying to GIVE UP AND SURRENDER just cause one weird thing happened.

GO VOTE, IDIOTS

[fromtheashescamehope]

The fact that you are annoyed he's not dead speaks volumes on your morality, and humanity. I am not a trump supporter... but i also recognize he isn't Hitler. He isnt, and never will be. He never made conversion camps. he never killed thousands upon thousands of people... he has not betrayed us. He has however set forth many laws in which benefitted the lgbtqia+ and counting.... I would not have a conversation with the man over tea, and biscuits, we may not agree on everything, but he. is. a. human being. a person who happened to see everything that can happen in office. a person who... 'knows too much'/ Demonizing him will do what? start wars, turn people against each other despite us all wanting the same thing.... Peace. The ability to live among each other with love and acceptance. We are in a digital battleground right now, and children, teens, young adults, are losing their abilities to have their own opinions, being taken by storm either out of fear or by joining the hoard. You gotta be afraid of offending somebody... even though you just want to respect and love them as they are, as who they will be. is THIS the world that you want people? a world where people celebrate the death of another person just to be right? Why has the fight been lost on so many people because someone is afraid or reclusive to being wrong. Can we not see beyond Republican and Democrat? Race? Religion? I've been here before... i know your pain, i know your fight. as harsh as this could sound, 'winning' doesn't matter, because is it really winning when in the end you still feel as empty as you did before? Would you rather be 'right' or be free? Would you rather be 'politically correct' or live in harmony? Together despite difference, peace for all human beings. People of tumblr, i understand your anger, and hatred... but this is not the answer. Its never the answer and slowly but surely we are losing our empathy, letting rage consume us... was the lgbt not built on love? Now its only built on hate, and sufferage, and hurt. Its built on a sick sense of justice to fill the void that is our lives. Is anyone not in the deathnote fandom? Are we not acting like light in this situation, or are we? We are the people.... and we have to be the ones to decide our humanity... not let the crowd decide for us. Not let the loudest of our inner demons puncture and wound the little voice in our head screaming to us in guilt and shame.

-Pheonix

[ashymationzowu]

well fuck

[fromtheashescamehope]

What kind of human beings have we become? ... why did you draw this? why are we celebrating this? everyone should be ashamed of themselves. I don't agree with him... fuck no. But you are disgusting for drawing this. What humanity do you have in you Just cause you don't like someone? He killed nobody. Unpopular opinion? Trump isn't hitler. Does trump deserve to die? For what evil do you assume he's done for you to make something so heartless? No... i understand. you jump on the trolley because you want the attention and love. The sad thing is... you don't need to kill yourself to do it. You don't need to sacrifice your humanity for love... love should come naturally.

Think of the person who died when the shots wrang out... you're saying sun and moon killed a father who risked his life to protect his daughters. Trump was not the only one who was affected and you need to realize that.