I just think itâs very impressive how in my official 30 years of life I have never EVER witnessed an instance of âsexuality is fluid uwuâ discourse that didnât focus on how lesbians can and will like men.
At most Iâve witnessed instances of âitâs okay if you like [trans person of the gender youâve always been attracted to], everyoneâs a little bi uwuâ, but Iâve definitely never once EVER seen this whole shit focusing on gay men liking women.
The few cases in which if you squint hard enough you miiiiiiight be able to find cases in which itâs arguing for someone other than lesbians experiencing attractions outside of their self-realized sexual identity, itâs done to cishets and itâs almost NEVER in the tone of âYou might be bisexual after all!â, itâs always in the tone of âSo what if you do experience a little bit of gay attraction? Everyoneâs a little bi which is to say no oneâs really bi unless itâs to bring lesbians to what we perceive as closer to heterosexuality so donât worry, youâre still basically straight!â
And I especially have never seen these arguments defending the Purity Of Sexual Fluidity for the case of someone whoâs been identifying as bi for a long time but then stops feeling m/w attraction and starts to only feel same gender attraction.
Nope. Itâs all to maintain the pressure on lesbians of Youâll like Men Sooner Or Later (Or ElseâŚ) or to keep bi people closeted as straight with plausible deniability for their âoopsie doopsieâ same gender attractions.
