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bashircore

this is one of the worlds most sounds

anarcho-gamerist

Omg ive been looking for the original vid

hulahoopofsalt

Any Blog without this picture will be deleted in the following 24 hours.

teenagerposts

can’t jinx it

coolxatu

volvereparcas

Hot take though

my wife worked on an oil rig in Wyoming out of high school because there aren’t a lot of jobs that pay that well for someone without access to college. She was a driller and then a supervisor after the crew supervisor was killed during their shift. She saw multiple people die and loose limbs and she got pretty bad ptsd from watching a friend get decapitated by a chain that went loose and catching his head in her hands.

Shifts are often 20+ hours at a time with an 8-10 hour break between shifts for at least two weeks at a time and then a week off. Rigs are normally understaffed which make it worse and a lot of people on rigs turn to drug use just to be able to stay awake during their shifts. But it’s a job that pays a lot in rural and low income communities for people who don’t have a lot of options. A lot of people go in knowing they’ll maybe die but at least their families won’t have to work afterwards because of life insurance policies from the companies they work for.

I know this post was probably just meant as a joke post the whole thing with Joe Biden and fracking but like sometimes it shows that people who post these things don’t know a ton about what they’re talking about. It remains one of the most lethal jobs worldwide. Switching from oil/natural gas to sustainable energy sources will take time to transition and right now we have millions working in drilling with odds stacked against them. Republicans don’t care about oil workers’ lives because they can be used to make a profit and the left hates them because of a career they didn’t have a lot of choice in choosing.

The oil field is like the military where largely low income and marginalized individuals get preyed upon by an organization that doesn’t care if they live or die. Fracking and drilling being bad for the planet and needing an end and oil workers being worthy of concern because their lives are treated as disposable are two ideas that can coexist.

squeeful

class solidarity must extend to ALL workers, not just workers of sectors you approve of.

antique-scarecrow

“The oil field is like the military, where largely low income and marginalized individuals get preyed upon by an organization that doesn’t care if they live or die”

thesassycat

You can only reblog this today.

askjennaflorida

I missed my chance last year. Not gonna let it happen again

errorpeachy

Black Lives STILL Matter.

blackexcellence

✨Your Friendly Friday Reminder ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✨

eroticcannibal

STOP CENSORING SUBTITLES/TRANSCRIPTS/CLOSED CAPTIONS

LET DEAF AND NEURODIVERGENT PEOPLE READ “FUCK”

eroticcannibal

I know this sounds jokey and funney but I am serious and it is ableist and infantilising and inaccessible so stop

andthwip-deactivated20220219

Jimmy Woo, FBI agent and certified magician.

latter-ace-saint

How to talk to children

This is based on decades of experience as an uncle and as an older brother.

Never forget that children are just as much people as adults are.

Kids 10 years or younger (and sometimes older than that) don’t get sarcasm or irony, so don’t use them.

If a child has difficulty pronouncing a word, don’t copy their misprounciation when speaking to them. They can hear the word just fine. It could sound to them like you’re making fun of them.

(Yes, this means no babytalk)

Don’t be dismissive.

Listen to what they’re saying.

To get on the same eye-level, don’t bend over or squat: it seems condescending. Kneeling or sitting are better.

It should go without saying that you should respect children’s body autonomy. Don’t force affection on them.

Respect children’s emotional autonomy as well. Let them be angry. Let them be sad. Don’t force them to be happy.

Let children like things. Don’t run down the things they like just because you find them cringy.

Don’t think that you know better.

To children, adults are giants. Be a big friendly giant.

Don’t stifle children’s curiosity.

Don’t stifle children’s enthusiasm.

To quote Sondheim, “Be careful the words you say, children will listen.”

Don’t look down on children.

jadedaceofspades-deactivated202

When I worked at the before and after school program, I had all elementary school ages and this list is perfectly defined how to talk to kids.

One thing I want to add is: let kids just play. Let them use their imagination. If they’re running too fast but they think they’re sonic the hedgehog, just tell them “be a slower sonic so you don’t fall down.”

mouser26

If you have to have contact regardless of if they want to or not (ie holding hands /carrying them in a parking lot) explain why you are keeping contact and when it will stop “I know you don’t want to hold my hand but cars can not see you, I can’t let you go till we get to [destination].”

Note…you will probibly screw this up, but that doesn’t mean you should stop trying.

lovelylemonbees

Also just because they’re old enough to play by themselves doesn’t mean they should have to every single minute of the day. You can play with your child. Regardless of what some parents think, children cannot and should not play by themselves quietly for hours on end.

This stunts emotional growth along with creative and imaginative growth. Being tired after going to work or after being busy all day is not an excuse to shove your child off and tell them “ not now” . When you really can’t play, sit down and explain calmly why. But nine times out of 10 you can play and you just won’t.

It’s not your child’s fault that you had them. Don’t punish them because you’re unwilling.

friendlyneighbourhoodpapergay

Yet another reminder that faking is a conscious choice that you make.

It is not something you can do accidentally, regards of what you're talking about.

You can't accidentally fake depression, or anxiety, or bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, or any other mental illness.

You can't accidentally fake Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, personality disorders.

You can't accidentally fake ADHD, autism, Tourette's Syndrome, auditory processing disorder, aphasia or any other neurodivergence

You can't accidentally fake being trans or ace-spec or aro-spec or any other LGBTQIA+ identity.

You can't accidentally fake chronic illnesses like CFS, fibromyalgia or any chronic illness.

You also can't accidentally fake being good/intelligent at something. You didn't fool your peers into reaching your position.

You can't accidentally fake trauma, PTSD/cPTSD, DID/OSDD/DDNOS or any other trauma-based disorder.

Tldr:

Faking is a conscious choice.

You cannot do it by accident.

If you are worried that you are faking, that in itself is proof that you are not.

chaotic-bastard-demon

OHTHANKGOD

unashamedly-enthusiastic

Oh gawd every time you think it's over it gers BETTER

🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻

muchymozzarella

To the redditors who memed on the stock market by driving up the stocks of GameStop, pretty much destroying a predatory hedge fund and showing that the stock market is fake / a bunch of rich people doing shitty gambling with companies

I hope you’re all having a great day

feminism135

spookingxinxsilence

academiquewilde-deactivated2021

Black lives still matter under Joe Biden.

Donate. Support. Continue your activism. Don’t stop.

nevaehtyler

26-year-old Jamarion Robinson’s grandmother Beverly Nixon said her grandson was bipolar and schizophrenic. Still got shot 76 (!!!) times. Would a white person get the same treatment?

The witness said he saw more than a dozen patrol cars at the complex where US Marshals killed Robinson on August 5, 2016. Why were there no behavioral specialist? Surely one of them would know how to interact with a bipolar schizophrenic better than the police.

I’m absolutely disgusted.

Here’s Jamarion’s mother’s GoFundMe in case anyone is willing to help.

#JusticeForJamarion #BlackLivesMatter