🧚🏻‍♀️ @g1rlbl0gg - Tumblr Blog

I think my healing really began escalating once I stopped identifying so strongly with my suffering, once I stopped treating misery like it was an intrinsic aspect of myself and my personhood.

dorae-moon-deactivated20221203

how to take care of yourself ♡

let yourself sleep enough

eat your favourite food

eat healthy foods

take a break from working

read a book

watch something you like

write something, anything

do some painting/drawing/colouring

take a hot bath or shower

manicure/pedicure

spa day!!

clean your living area

go through your clothes and throw out the things you don't need/don't fit you anymore

listen to your favourite songs

have some alone time

go for a walk in nature

exercise regularly

call up a friend to talk

journal your thoughts

cook/bake something for yourself

go out shopping and treat yourself

meditation

go out to see your friends or your s/o

do something you enjoy

ashstfu

being the hottest person at the library isn't always easy, but somebody's gotta do it

ur-daily-inspiration

This is for my mutuals

soft-lovely

pastel mugs

and-so-on

it’s like people don’t even want to be silly nowadays

ultrastimpaks

a list of things that make me swoon:

a hand, instinctively looking for mine

smiles blossoming just by eye contact

cheek kisses

compliments when there had no need to have one

understanding words

“are you okay” texts because they felt i didn’t type the way i usually do

funny things being sent to me

cute things being sent to me

holding me when i look a bit too tired

“sleep on my shoulder, i’ll wake you up when we arrive”

“have a nice day at work/school”

a hand, instinctively looking for mine

bipdf

hey (with the intention of slow dancing in the kitchen together)

alienpupy

dandelions are magic. literally tiny suns in the grass that turn into the moon and then the stars when you blow on them. fucking insane.

handweavers

there is no better feeling than to be wholly trusted and loved by a little animal

rueyam-deactivated20220824

calling yourself ugly makes no sense because you don't really see yourself. you don't see yourself lying in bed curled up and silent with your chest heaving and falling. you don't see yourself reading a book with flapping and shining eyes. you don't see yourself looking at someone with love and caring in your heart. there is no mirror to stand in your way when you laugh and smile and happiness pours out of you. you would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments; where you really are yourself.