āTheyāre not smarter or faster theyāre buying up othersā lifetimes to do their choresā
āTheyāre not smarter or faster theyāre buying up othersā lifetimes to do their choresā
āTheyāre not smarter or faster theyāre buying up othersā lifetimes to do their choresā
[images: series of tweets from @realavocadofact. tweets read,Ā ātheyāre not elite theyāre richā,Ā ātheyāre not better theyāre better suppliedā,Ā ātheyāre not smarter or faster theyāre buying up othersā lifetimes to do their choresā,Ā āthere is nothing wrong with you; youāre doing your best in a game rigged against you, probably not enough people and fruit tell you thatā]
I see this reaction a lot, and I gotta say, it always makes me a little sad. Whenever the conversation of exploitation of labor comes up, inevitably someone finds themselves struggling with the guilt of āIt is so important to me not to contribute to exploitation but I cannot do this thing myself and need someone else to do it for me, so how do I even approach that?ā
Exploitation isnāt in the hiring of a service worker. Exploitation is in the respect you show them for their ability to perform the service you need from them.
I have been on a cleaning service staff before, and also been someone who hired a cleaning service, and I can tell you for sure that a lot of cleaning crews (especially worker owned ones) absolutely LOVE their clients and are genuinely happy to be able to make their lives better. The clients they donāt like? Those are the ones who disrespect the workers.
When I was involved with a cleaning service, we had everything from little old ladies living alone to McMasions with five cars as clients, and I can assure you that whenever there was someone who clearly hired us because they were overwhelmed or unable to keep their space clean, those were the households where you put a little more elbow grease in and did a deep clean even when it wasnāt paid for, because you could see how much these people were trying and struggling, and they were always so kind and generous and often embarrassed when talking to you about the job.
I only hired a service a couple if times in my life, but whenever I did, I worked with the same people as often as I could, tipped as well as I could afford, and tried to be the kind of client I would want to have, and thatās how I often ended up with my baseboards cleaned too, or my fridge scrubbed and organized or a restorative clean done in a high use room even when that wasnāt what I had scheduled or paid for.
Iāve heard the same thing from all manner of service workers over the years. Many of us like our jobs! We enjoy the work. Itās the customers that can do a number on you.
I think a lot of people are afraid that by needing a service they are inherently exploiting or harming the people who perform that service, and they really arenāt. But it does benefit a capitalist system for us to all be burnt out and overwhelmed because weāre too afraid to hire the help we need. Be upfront and honest with service workers about what you need and why you need it, and treat them with dognity and kindness while they perform your service, and I promise you they will always be happy to answer your call.
HIRING A PROFESSIONAL TO CLEAN YOUR HOUSE ISNāT MORE EXPLOITATIVE THAN GOING TO A DENTIST OR ORDERING A PIZZA
We all fucking depend on each other, itās about respect and treating one another as fellow humans instead of seeing them as below us
