loverboi

Gabe 30s 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ sideblog put your fucking age in your bio or pinned 18+ blog 21+ to follow. if you're new to tumblr refresh and check the pinned. I follow from notagainpleasenotagain

[gabethaoverthinker]

Gabe - 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ - 💉

@a-vamp-femme is my femme, and my wife. Love you, baby.

30s - biracial black/white transmasc - he/him - butch lesbian - serial romantic

Cshap - $GaybeyBaybey

Vnmuh - @GaybeyBaybey

I have a music sideblog now! @bl6ckshuck where I review music, reblog memes, and just generally gush about it all. Send me music recs! I'm into all kinds.

Before following:

Those with no age in their bios/on their blog will be blocked immediately.

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People under 21 who try to follow will be blocked immediately.

No Terfs, No Radfems, No Minors.

Trans lesbians/sapphic folks more than welcome.

Anon is: ON

[troutreznor]

https://blinkies.cafe

[infestuous]

this post really attracted the lamest people in the fucking world

[lebnaniyyaa]

on or off?

[lesbinluv]

car sex car sex car sex car sex car sex!!!!!! 💭💭💭

[catboybiologist]

Tapping the sign.

[dykemessiah-deactivated20230125]

condola rashad as joan of arc i am free on sunday at 5 im just letting you know that i would be available on sunday at 5 if someone asked me to dinner on sunday at 5

[shirtsthatgohard]

[fionn-o-nassus]

Not gonna lie this makes me a bit irritated. Here's the real version of this photo:

Instead of a cutesie reference to film censorship it was an explicit statement of defiance of Maryland's criminalization gay sex, which was not repealed until 2002. This wasn't a guy saying "Oh they can't put what I do in the movies according to a completely voluntary industry code" he was saying "The State of Maryland wants to put me in jail for being gay and having gay sex."

It wasn't a guy being cheeky about sex in an ambiguous, cute way. It was a man stating, in no uncertain terms, that a whole state of the United States considered him a criminal for being homosexual.

[giveherswords]

There is no sex act that is inherently dominant or submissive. Just as there is no body part that assigns a sexual role by default. What we confuse—constantly—is mechanics for meaning.

Penetration isn’t power. Receiving isn’t surrender. What we’re reacting to is the social script of the penetrator: this body takes, that body is taken. This is most visible in how the female body is read. Femininity is culturally positioned as receptive, penetrable, acted upon—less a mode of agency than a surface something happens to.

As a femme dom, my domination often involves penetration—but it isn’t located there. It lives in the dynamic: authority, framing, guidance, the shaping of desire. There is no situation in which I become submissive simply because I’m being fucked. I’m not yielding control. I’m exercising it.

Queer people tend to get this. We have history in language: dom/sub for dynamic, top/bottom for preference. We’re less invested in pretending presentation predicts desire. That separation matters.

In many cis/het femdom spaces, the fantasy is doing something specific: it’s negotiating power that already exists outside the scene. For some cis male subs, the erotic charge is bound up in taboo or transgression; for some cis women, dominance carries the thrill of stepping into authority that isn’t culturally assumed.

Lesbian dynamics don’t always start from the same baseline. Two women may still carry differences—race, class, history, trauma, anatomy—but we aren’t entering the scene with dominance already assigned by gender alone. We begin with a closer approximation of shared social power. The pleasure isn’t in stealing authority; it’s in choosing, together, to redistribute it.

Is the body ever free of social scripting? Maybe not entirely. But it can be freer—when we separate mechanics from meaning, anatomy from intention, and inherited power from chosen dynamic.

That choice is the whole point.

[transfem-berdly-deltarune]

everybody say i love you black trans women

[sofiiscapitall]

and for the lady perhaps a makeout session on a butches lap

[jori-land]

[demilypyro]

having free control over our endrocrine systems and the ability to change our genitals is currently inextricably tied to trans rights, and for good reason, but frankly i don't think it even needs to be. it should just be a matter of bodily autonomy, and that should be universal. if a cis dude wants tits and a pussy i think that would be fine. if cis women want a dick or nothing at all that should be allowed i think. people shouldn't need to be transgender to be allowed to change their bodies. free the nipple, enlarge the nipple, remove the nipple. whatever the fuck you want. i dont know if there's a term for this belief but i hold it very strongly. everybody biohack yourselves NOW

[houndmother]

society if “nonsexual nudity” extended to trans women

[houndmother]

society if this button actually did anything

[fufatronic]

while i do like the idea of the “big strong butch” trope that goes around here i can’t help but think about all the butches (and femmes) that don’t feel connected to the characteristics that are attributed to them on here.

being a strong butch shouldn’t always be physical. a strong butch can also be someone who carries themselves with pride even when they’re told to be less, to put themselves in a corner. a strong butch can be someone who deals with a disability or chronic pain but that still shows up for their community. it can be the closeted butches who push through and face their fears every single day.

i think we should all start to appreciate the people in our community for their emotional and mental strength too and not focus only on what they can offer you in terms of physical affection.

this is all to say, i love you all types of lesbian, you’re loved and appreciated just as you are.

[greedysadistdad]

Respectfully, I want to love you in front of people who didn't. I want them to see how much you glow when you're treated right.

[adoredaqua]

i do believe in a traditional family (a butch/stud husband, a femme wife, and a couple of cats)

[gazeldhazel]

when you put your penis inside her and then move back and forth 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[realagent47]

it’s impossible