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Love Begins
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Kiana Khansmith
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YOU ARE THE REASON
NASA
The Stonewall Inn
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shark vs the universe
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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
Noah Kahan
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@galatially
𝒋𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒏𝒐𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆
𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐍𝐈 𝟏𝟖+ 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐍𝐈 𝟏𝟖+ 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐍𝐈 𝟏𝟖+ 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐍𝐈 𝟏𝟖+
𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑚𝑒, 𝑟𝑢𝑙𝑒𝑠, + 𝑔𝑢𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑒𝑠
𝑚𝑎𝑖𝑛 𝑚𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡
recent hits: take me away series, to kiss the skin that crawls from you, gentleman
𝑎𝑠𝑘𝑠 + 𝑟𝑒𝑞𝑢𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑠
𝑓𝑖𝑐 𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑠 𝑚𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡
𝑡𝑎𝑔𝑠
some fucking resources for all ur writing fuckin needs
body language masterlist
a translator that doesn’t eat ass like google translate does
a reverse dictionary for when ur brain freezes
550 words to say instead of fuckin said
638 character traits for when ur brain freezes again
some more body language help
REBLOG TO SAVE A WRITER
Reblog and name which scenes from the Disney Renaissance movies give you goosebumps and/or tears, in the tags
unfortunately there are like 23 billion other things to worry about right now but just for the record: straight people who are trying to "rebrand" pride month as "national nuclear family month" are so fucking evil. positioning gay pride as antithetical to the concept of a family is evil. doing so in a way that is explicitly white nationalism is evil. acting like queer pride is the thing that destroys families is evil.
we are not just backsliding, we are back at the milquetoast assertation "love is love." for the record: when people ask us why we need pride this is literally fucking why. when other queer people ask me if we really need all the rainbow shit, this is why. when we make a fuss about so many shows not having any positive queer rep: this is why.
it has only been 11 years since it was nationally legal for gay people to get married. homophobia is still very much alive and well - and it is often the thing that ruins a family.
"You need to relax"
Best I can do is dissociate
I’m reading a book on biofeedback trainings right now and they talk about this. The words “try” or “need” add pressure to stuff. Sometimes switching from “I need to calm down” or “I’m trying to slow my breathing” to “I’m allowing myself to calm down a little more with each exhale” or “I’m giving myself permission to slow my breathing” can be more helpful. There’s a difference between “try to relax the muscle” and “allow the muscle to soften” that is significant enough that for some people it can totally change the outcome of a relaxation exercise.
For other tips and tricks, instead of asking “why” you can’t change a thought/feeling (why being an offensive question, meaning it forces you to respond defensively - in this case defending the emotion you don’t like) you can ask “is there any leeway or wiggle room with this feeling/thought/belief for something else?” Oftentimes we know multiple things at once, and by allowing for a small amount of ambiguity we can start to accept the situation more fully.
a lil doodle of meeee
(he/him)
putting black boys on ur tl
(sigh you have the reblog pass)
i joke Abt the reblog pass but y'all genuinely gotta stop being scared to engage with black art made by black people and that includes the usage of the word "nigga"
Pedophiles Are So Gross And Horrible And If You Have Raped Or Sexually Abused Someone I Believe You Should Be Dead
Anyone who thinks asking for consent kills the mood has clearly never seen their partner hot and heavy and flustered stammering out the word “please”
alright, i'll be the one to say it. ao3 and tumblr becoming "mainstream" did so much damage to the community and the writers. i have seen loads of videos and posts about:
1. people hating on writers and fics. writing is something we do for free and for fun. if you stumble upon a fanfic that isn't necessarily your cup of tea or you just don't like, scroll. dont read it. literally leave their page. you don't know if this could be the author's first work that they're so excited about, you dont know if the language they're writing in isn't their first language, you dont know that the writer could be a literal teen and loads of other reasons. fanfictions don't HAVE to be perfect. you write what you want to write because we do it for fun and enjoyment and we want to share that to the world. seriously, what is the wrong with that?..
2. x reader consumers getting WAY too entitled. the number of tiktoks i've seen that say "i run a strict program when it comes to reading fanfics." girl you aint running shit. this is FAN FICTION you're reading. F A N F I C T I O N. there is no denying that most fanfiction writes are beyond talented but just because you read one fanfic that exceeds your expectations doesn't give you the right to talk down on others that don't. people have their own personal writing style, their way of doing things and you talking shit on that isn't right.
at the end of the day, we are all humans, reading and writing is what we do and what we're meant to do. and for you to talk shit about a person WRITING is so insane. we are humans. not some robots that you can tell what to do so you can consume it.
i've seen so so many authors take down their fanfics and losing all motivation to write because of a hate comment. DONT LIKE DONT READ‼️
and to every author reading this, this community values your work and your contribution. we love u and, please, never let anyone's negative words have an effect on you.
im curious about a specific generational divide
regardless of you being queer or not, did your parents ever gave you the "if you turn out to be gay it would be fine" talk, before you ever had the chance to say anything on your own about that?
gen z, yes
gen z, no
millenial, yes
millenial, no
gen x, yes
gen X, no
baby boomer, yes
baby boomer, no
because it happened to me and im wondering if this was a product of the ongoing cultural change around gay issues. before i ever had the chance to say to my parents "i am this" my mom was already sitting me aside to tell me "if there is anything you want to tell me, i want you to know ill accept you no matter what"
Thanks to @darkficsyouneveraskedfor for the tag!
🎵 Last song I listened to: Dream With Me by Nothing More
📺 Last series: Does it count if it's ongoing? If so, The Duttons
🎬 Last movie: My Cousin Vinny on TV and it just isn't the same without the swearing
🏅 Best thing about the last month: April seems like so long ago! Um... Yeah. I don't know. I probably got a face mask from Lush. 😂
📚 Currently reading: Fanfics, but a friend wants me to read You Killed Me First by John Marrs
🎮 Currently playing: This tag game
👾 Currently working on: Hopefully a drabble soon
🌶️ Sweet/spicy/savoury?: Sweet usually, but I'm craving something a little spicy
🎨 Favorite colour: Blue 💙
🤩 Current obsession: When is it not fictional husbands?
☕️ Tea or coffee? Sugar free energy drinks
🌐 Last internet search: Lush Scrubee
NPT: @easybbgrl @yenzys-lucky-charm @tavners @stanmarvelous @bucky-bucky-bucky-bucky @steelandvibranium @laur-kinsellaodonnell @tumblin-theworldaway @singulartoast @buckysdecaflove and anyone seeing this who wants to play! ❤️
tagging in lol
🎵 Last song I listened to: KLOWN dance by Ray Vaughan ft. Jay Rock
📺 Last series: Frieren: Beyond Journey's End
🎬 Last movie: The Devil Wears Prada 2
🏅 Best thing about the last month: I got new bakeware!
📚 Currently reading: The Lion Women of Tehran by Marjan Kamali
🎮 Currently playing: Disney Solitaire
👾 Currently working on: The last few chapters of To Kiss The Skin That Crawls From You
🌶️ Sweet/spicy/savoury?: Spicy/Savoury
🎨 Favorite colour: Pink 💞
🤩 Current obsession: Clips of Zuko and Sokka from the new Avatar movie
☕️ Tea or coffee? Both, just depends on the day
🌐 Last internet search: Lemon loaf recipe
You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.
ok I just wanna say if you see a kink on tumblr or wherever that really turns u on and then you try it irl and it doesn’t make u feel the way you hoped it would THATS OK!! You can let that kink live in fantasy!! There are a lot of things that turn my brain on that I don’t enjoy during actual sex!! Isn’t human sexuality interesting!!
Certified Sex ED Post !
You don't even have to try them out IRL. You're allowed to find things hot in fantasy that you'd never do IRL.
just a quick reminder that if you are not indigenous I don’t want to hear you fucking talk about Two Spirit people nor should you be automatically looping them into American politics on being trans. not all 2Spirit people identify as trans, and being 2Spirit is not being inherently trans. being 2S is tied to nativeness- if you are not an indigenous person, then you are not Two Spirit. ergo, your conversations around dysphoria, passing, medical transition, etc. need to be mindful of this. respectfully, I never want to hear an American trans person challenging or questioning my identity. we are different creatures.
being 2S is not being non-binary. it’s not being trans.
it’s being Two Spirit.
It is both Pride and Black Music Month, so it’s only right to start the month off with the Godmother and founder of Rock ‘N’ Roll: Sister Rosetta Tharpe. Born March 20th, 1915 in Cotton Plant , AR, Tharpe was a gospel and secular artist. One of the first to actually do both genres too. She was also a queer woman having a few relationships with women during her lifetime. It is due to her fusion of gospel, delta blues, New Orleanian Jazz, and R&B that we have rock n roll at all. Her chord progressions are so important and imbedded into the genre that without it rock n roll simply wouldn’t exist.
salt and pepper adam rodriguez!!! that is all!!!!!!
