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sami | main at @cepheusgalaxy | he/it/they | 🇧🇷 | pfp is my art (alladin from magi)

[galaxycepheus]

-> i'm sami! you can also call me letho

-> it/he/they, please ^^

-> main: @cepheusgalaxy

-> i like anime, drawing, writing (these last two on main) and learning japanese!

-> this is my reblogs/"spam" sideblog

-> i'm from brazil :)

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i tag #undescribed and #sex ment and try to tag other cws and stuff like eyestrain too but if i miss any feel free to tell me <3

[superscourge]

BTW if u wanna support a trans artist this month i do have a ko-fi!!

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[analog-autistic]

we've definitely posted about this before but if i see one more person act like the only forms of childhood trauma that exist are abuse from family or sexual assault i will actually start crying and it will be so so so loud everyone will hear it from every corner of the earth

THE SCHOOL SYSTEM !!! PEER ABUSE !!!!! ISOLATION !!!!!!!! RACISM !!! SEXISM !!!!!! MEDICAL ABUSE !!!!!! NONCONSENSUAL SURGERY !!!! POVERTY !!!! SO MUCH MORE !!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

edit: i made this in a high school enduced rage and didnt expect it to blow up like this ?

anyway i love trans people i love intersex people i love people with personality disorsers i love aspec people okkk

notifications r going off now

[wheelie-sick]

my car is completely dead. the warranty is refusing to cover a dime of the new engine it needs and it's completely undrivable without one. (the piston rings in the engine are damaged which is causing oil to leak into the engine. it's destroying the spark plugs routinely and causing engine backfires. every time I drive it I am at high risk of the engine seizing. I am not looking for advice)

I have a down payment on a new car but I'm looking at $12,000-13,000 in loans to get a car that will fit my wheelchair (and has a back up camera) (I am not looking for advice on car shopping)

I need a car to get to work, school, medical appointments, and run errands. many of the places I need to go are not accessible by bus and even if they were doing things like hauling a load of groceries on a bus in a wheelchair is difficult (not looking for advice). I have been without a car for 3 months waiting on a decision from the warranty and people are getting really fatigued from giving me rides all the time. I don't think I can convince people to give me rides forever, it has become increasingly difficult to get them even when asking in large mutual aid chats. I do not have the money to uber all the time even if they weren't awful about wheelchairs.

I could really use some help covering some of the costs for a new car

v3nm0: commiecorvid

[wheelie-sick]

honestly even if I just get enough money to help cover some of my groceries it would be a huge help. it will allow me to focus on contributing to that down payment on the car to hopefully cut back on the size of the loan I'll need

[wheelie-sick]

my dad is saying he "can't" (won't) cosign on a loan that I will be paying for. my mom is going to try to help but she is working on less than a teacher's salary and trying to take care of her 3 kids (something my dad, who makes more than her, refuses to do)

[creatingblackcharacters]

I wanted to send you art of Giovanni!! Have an awesome day, night, month year LIFE!! 🫵🏽 you’re cool.

THATS TOO CUTE! His full name is Giorno Giovanna, but I knew what you meant 🥹 that really is him omg I think I might make this my screensaver. Thank you!!

Also, he said "REEEowwwww" 👍🏾

[antlershade]

helping with the food budget for a household of five adults, all trans, many disabled. just lost my job and probably not getting severance, will be lucky if i can get unemployment. hello?? is any one out there?? help??

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[werewolf-transgenderism]

irritating as fuck when people get mad at Black people existing in premodern historical fiction/fantasy media. like first of all, you're racist. and second of all, you are acting as though Black people didn't exist in premodern Europe which is simply false. especially when we're talking about the Mediterranean, like what the fuck do you people think is along the southern half of the Mediterranean Ocean?? everyone's on boats, there are GOING to be interactions with Black people in Northern Africa, and there are GOING to be Black people in Mediterranean Europe. stop being stupid. your imagined homogeneous white European past is not historical reality, get over it you massive losers

[werewolf-transgenderism]

irritating as fuck when people get mad at Black people existing in premodern historical fiction/fantasy media. like first of all, you're racist. and second of all, you are acting as though Black people didn't exist in premodern Europe which is simply false. especially when we're talking about the Mediterranean, like what the fuck do you people think is along the southern half of the Mediterranean Ocean?? everyone's on boats, there are GOING to be interactions with Black people in Northern Africa, and there are GOING to be Black people in Mediterranean Europe. stop being stupid. your imagined homogeneous white European past is not historical reality, get over it you massive losers

[morsobaby]

Remember to make space for the heteros this month too - yes, really.

Lesbians who became straight men

Gay men who became straight women

All straight drag artists (note that not all of them are cis!)

People with complex identities who thusly encompass multiple orientations (like genderfluid and multigender people who, yes, are sometimes straight, or even simultaneously with other labels)

Hetero aro and ace people. Especially. Seriously.

People with fluid orientations

Gnc people who find joy in their straightness

Many queer people are also straight. Queerness is note solely reliant on gayness. These people too, are a part of pride. Remember that.

[All discourse attempts will be swiftly blocked. Exclusionists fuck off]

[bee-dazzle]

On paper, me and one of my partners 'could scan as a straight couple'.

Now, in reality:

Hahahahaha

Absolutely the fuck not

Like. One of the last times we went out together in the evening, as we were walking from the sushi bar to our friend's burlesque/drag show we pretty much immediately attracted the attention of some unattended Youths who elected to follow us for half a street plaintively calling

"Hey mister!"

"Hey mister, I'm homophobic!"

in the hopes of getting us to acknowledge them.

I went through enough nonsense r.e. bi, ace, and trans people not feeling welcome in queer spaces both online and irl in the 2010s and I have no patience for it in any of its incarnations.

[morsobaby]

This is actually also another good example bc couples that may appear outwardly as "Straight" should also be welcomed into pride bc you should not make assumptions about people's orientations or identities.

[bee-dazzle]

100%!

Also like. Unless you actually know somebody, you have no idea what their relationship is to the person (or people!) they are attending a pride event with.

Due to amatonormativity and heteronormativity, I am sometimes assumed to be dating my best friend. Due to cisnormativity and the way they like to present, xe tends to be read as 'woman'.

So when we attend pride or general queer community events together there is a chance of us reading as a straight couple (as they mentioned to me this morning, cis gay men, and people who assume that being queer = looking 'alternative' often don't pick up that they are Part Of The Community).

Granted, if somebody squared up to us and said that we shouldn't be at Pride because of 'being a straight couple' I think we would both laugh ourselves sick, but it's just such a stink attitude to take, and a sad use of time and energy that could be spent enjoying community instead.

[weepingpussywillowtree-deactiva]

sometimes I think about how far we still have to go with consent

my worst relatives try to sneak meat or meat products into my food despite the fact that I'm a vegetarian

my ex's brother gave his mother an edible without her knowledge and when she got freaked out and paranoid they laughed, and people I've told that go "yeah that's shitty but it's just weed"

when I go to the doctor and ask them to describe what they are going to do before touching me they get frustrated

when I ask a friends of a friend who is a small influencer to keep me out of frame in videos they film for social media in public they look at me like I've pissed in their cereal

idk man, we've got a long way to go.

[gayskrillex]

No one wants to admit this but you don’t actually have to eat eggs and dairy for breakfast. Farmers just did that because they’d milk the cows and collect eggs in the morning. You can literally make a sandwich or a bowl of pasta or really anything you want for breakfast. There isn’t some medical reason you have to eat cereal and milk or fried eggs in the morning—our idea of “breakfast food” is an entirely artificial construct. Do what makes you happy.

[squagel]

Literally just eat something (or have a smoothie if you don't want solid food). Skipping breakfast entirely is worse for your body than having the "wrong" food.

[get-more-transfem]

to all transfems and trans women: you deserve a break! go take a nap! eat your favorite comfort food! go play that new game you wanted to play or start up the new hobby you were looking at! you deserve all the downtime and rest you need! your happiness matters too :)

[cryptonature]

I was lying in the leaf litter today when some moss spoke to me. "Excuse me, do you know the species of this fallen log beneath me?" asked the moss. "Hmm. No. Sorry, I'm a little fuzzy on logs," I said. "What a coincidence," said the moss. "I'm a little fuzzy on logs too."

[samirasystole]

people being able to categorise discussions around fandom bigotry as 'fandom drama' and 'making fandom less fun' is always so interesting because fandom is not a safe space for people in marginalised communities. and if them fighting to make it safer for themselves and speaking up is 'ruining your fun' then you can go fuck yourself actually

[wiisagi-maiingan]

Hello my fellow aromantic and arospec Natives, I love you (platonically) 💚💚💚

[wiisagi-maiingan]

You are a not a shame to your culture or your tribe if you don't want to get married or have children. You are not betraying or disappointing your ancestors by not passing on your culture to your own children. You don't have to force yourself into a relationship out of duty, you can have a meaningful and important connection to your culture and even share and pass it on in other ways (like as a teacher) without sacrificing your own happiness and well-being.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Love is love but the absence of it doesn’t make you any less human either

[aromantic-journal]

Maybe the aroace character DOESN'T NEED to be a gay couple's third wheel