"many social and conversational expectations are not explicitly stated, so people who do not find them intuitive may benefit from having them laid out in simple terms, as this will help them better understand interactions they have had and are having" is one thing
"I'm autistic and I learned to compensate/mask my perceived social deficits in this specific way, and some of y'all don't do this, and it makes me annoyed and kinda pissed because *I* worked hard to learn it which now means it's hyper-noticable to me in others" is another
i think its important to know which one you are coming from when writing a how-to post about stuff that's considered 'manners'

















