👑 Dear Advocates:
⚡ Powerful communication cannot exist without first having powerful mindsets. Healthy relationships become powerful relationships when powerful mindsets are where both individuals dwell inwardly. Powerful mindsets are mindsets that refuse thoughts not rooted in love, and replace those thoughts with thoughts of wild, unrestricted trust.
💭 A person who exercises control over their thoughts will also show control over their emotions; that is because our thoughts are what create our emotions, and when we control our thoughts, our emotions are able to flourish in a healthy manner rather than smother and bog us down with toxicity.
💭Choosing wild, unrestricted trust doesn't mean that we won't get hurt, or assure us that the other person is trustworthy - what it does do is provide you with the kind of character and backbone that can carry the weight of love, which is so often self-sacrificing, as well as provide the other person with enough ammunition and support to gain momentum and inspiration for betterment.
💖A person who is trusted wholeheartedly is a person who has the opportunity, not just the potential, to truly succeed in healing. A person who has the ability to provide wild, unrestricted trust to someone else despite previous pains is a person who is being perfected by the character of love.
👩❤️💋👨Healthy relationships devour toxic mindsets. Mindsets that repeat negativity, abusive beliefs, and selfish intentions never darken the doorstep of a powerful relationship, and are certainly never entertained long enough to take root.
😵 A mindset is simply a repeated thought pattern. Any repeated thought pattern has the potential of becoming a mindset that either creates life or death in your emotions and behaviors.
🤢Toxic mindsets focus on problems, strife, anxiety, worries, fears, troubles, anger, hatred, regrets, disappointments, and generally many things you no longer have any control over.
👑 Healthy mindsets focus on solutions, peace, wholeness, understanding, wisdom, growth, forgiveness, empathy, learning, improvements, and generally many things that are within your realm of control that are depending on you to shape and direct.
⚡Powerful mindsets are created when powerful thoughts are repeatedly visited; these mindsets become beliefs, create empowering emotions, and produce powerful actions in your behaviors.
⚡Powerful thoughts sound a little something like this:
⚡"I give grace because I need grace."⚡"I believe the best of that person, because I want that person to believe the best of me."⚡"I forgive that person and release blessings over that person because I refuse to carry the weight of bitterness, and because I need forgiveness too."⚡"I love people through their pain, even if it creates for me no gain."⚡"I am a person of excellence, even if no one else reciprocates my efforts."⚡"My integrity is what matters, not comfort or ill-gotten gain."
⚡Powerful thoughts empower your inner being to believe the truth, to see light where others see darkness, and to see beyond the illusion of perfection into the true picture of wholeness, which is humility, the very foundation of love itself.
👩❤️💋👨Powerful relationships are born when powerful mindsets are lived through. Healthy relationships cannot exist without training your mind to understand that thoughts not rooted in the characteristics of love are toxic, and accomplishing growth and healing from toxicity involves cleaning out your mind, thinking powerful thoughts on purpose, and controlling your emotions rather than allowing them to control your decisions.
💖 Love is a purposed choice, not an emotion. Love is a purposed action, not merely a thought. Therefore, powerful relationships are built on the foundation of powerful mindsets, where the verb of love abides.
-Gavi, your Advocate for Healthy Relationships
