We are a MM couple here - a little about us. I have never been with someone with a foot fetish, in fact, feet sort of gross me out personally. I’m currently with my boyfriend who absolutely loooves my sweaty feet. We’ve been together for a few years now and I’ve realized some major perks to dating someone with a foot fetish. I never really ~need~ to get a pedicure. After work - My feet are usually killing me by the end of the day, he is my own personal masseuse. I can get food massages literally whenever I want. If I’m done with work or done with a workout or anything that makes my feet stink, I never have to feel self conscious about the smell. My boyfriend actually LOVES the smell of my socks and feet, so when I get home I can kick off my shoes and get comfy. I never knew how superior it would make me feel and how much I'd enjoy having someone under my feet. Since, we have explored other power exchange dynamics and have loved every single second of it. Cuckolding, having him serve not only mine but a buddies feet while we are hanging out. I'd love to connect and chat about it together!.
If i were to meet the Dom i am truly looking for, this is pretty much how it would go:
First thing would be to be able to tell him exactly what i was looking for. He wouldn’t be as interested in what i wanted as in what i didn’t want.
Next, He would make sure i was good, clean, safe, not into drugs, not hustling as would i
He would want a picture and a form of contact beyond my email. Eventually, maybe video.
We would plan to meet but in the meantime, He would start taking over my free time and space by messaging.
He’d establish some rules:
· What time i get up
· When i gets up, send Him a message immediately
· Ask His permission to leave the house (if no reply in 10 minutes, then i could go)
· Ask His permission to eat and what to eat (same 10-minute rule)
· Ask His permission to shower
· Not allowed to ask His permission to masturbate but only can when He decides (eventually, periods of locked chastity)
· Naked whenever i am at home alone
· When dressed casual, white t-shirt, blue jeans or shorts (one pair of each only), no belt, no underwear, no socks, sneakers
· No more standing at the toilet; sitting only
· No more closing bathroom or bedroom door at home
· Never using public urinal; seats only in public restrooms
· Shaved from ears to toes
· Once it felt safe enough both ways, i would set my locater in google maps to His email address and He would always know where i was
Eventually we would meet
· i would always be naked when in His presence
· i would always be on the floor, never standing unless He gave me permission otherwise
· i would not look at Him without permission
· He would slap my face (not hard) if i did wrong to humiliate me
· If i needed to be punished He would smack my ass until red and then make me stand facing a corner for a period of time
· i would have to ask His permission to use toilet, eat, drink anytime we were together, private or public (public would always be discreet)
· i would cook meals, but He would eat first, i would most often eat from a dish on the floor like a dog, and my food would be healthy food that i would normally eat, but mixed in a bowl or dog dish like dog food and always have at least a little of His piss and sometimes His cum mixed in it
· i would sometimes wear a collar. i would be restrained at bedtime and if needed, be given either a jar to piss in if i needed to through the night or be put in an adult diaper if my arms and hands were restrained and couldn’t be used. If given a jar, it would have His piss in it and if i needed to use it, i would have to empty it first by drinking my piss. If i needed to use it more than once i would be drinking my own piss as well.
· When in public, HE would have discreet ways of humiliating me and having me obey. If we were somewhere unfamiliar to both of us, it might be less discrete, but He would never out me or put me in harm’s way physically, legally, or psychologically.
· Sexually, i would worship His feet, eat His ass, lick His balls, suck His dick of course, lick His pits. i would be kept horny and deprived and He would edge me regularly, torture my nipples hard, my balls a little, experiment with electro, definitely piss on me and in my mouth. No scat, but sometimes His ass would be a little dirty and i would have to link it clean.
· If He had friends, girlfriends, boyfriends that He trusted and that knew about me, He would decide if He wanted to safely share me or if He wanted to humiliate, punish, and use me in front of them at any time in any way.
If we continued in our relationship:
· We would negotiate my diet, my workout regiment, my sleep schedule, my at-home work schedule and i would keep Him informed about when i needed to be with friends, family, work, etc. He would never cut into that time but if i ever forgot to tell Him or told Him after we made a plan, there would be a punishment of some kind that would follow.
· He would find a way to cage me at times or store me in some secured space
· If we were to go camping and play outdoors for a couple of days. It would get dirty but never unsafe or gross.
· If i were His slave, i would always serve Him if He needed him to, clean his house, wash His clothes, cook, but if we kept it just sub/Dom, those would be special requests and very rarely.
· i would massage Him, and sit at His feet when we were just chillin’ and Netflix.
· i would always eat all cum from both of us. i would never be deprived from cumming for longer than two weeks.
Sometimes we would just be friends and hang out, but my status would always be understood
i would ALWAYS be respected. i would NEVER be hurt. i would ALWAYS have the option to end it; but that option would be permanent.
He would be between 22-28 and fit. i would want him to be active enough to be a little musky and he would tend not to use scented soaps or deodorant unless he were dressing for work.
i know none of this is especially unique. But his it is what would work for me.
1. If you are dining out with an Alpha (whether he is a work colleague or friend), always pay his bill. If the bill goes beyond your spending capacity, have something small and cheap yourself and let him have the best and most expensive food.
2. When an alpha is queuing behind you at the supermarket check out, let him pass and bow your head.
3. When you see an Alpha in the locker room of a gym with an inconvenient locker (ie in the corner or close to the floor), offer him your locker if it is at a better place.
4. If you don’t serve an Alpha in real life, make sure you contribute financially to one of the Superiors here at tumblr (if you like a list of alphas accepting fag taxes, message me).
5. When an Alpha is queuing behind you in a public bathroom let him pass and bow your head.
6. When you address an Alpha or an Alpha addresses you, always refer to him as Sir, even if he is much younger than you. Bow your head for greetings.
7. Share your stories and thoughts on tumblr. It’s important that the world understands that it is ok to be a beta male that needs guidance and leadership from superiors. There should be a network of betas that allows alphas to easily find a servant if they need one.
8. Never disagree with an Alpha, or contradict him. Alphas don’t take interest in arguing with betas or fags. They do that among themselves.
9. Should you live with an Alpha, make sure you do all the household chores, in a way that it is not too obvious. Make sure that particularly the bathroom is always spotless.
10. Learn skills that enable you to be useful to Alphas (ironing, handicraft, giving massages whatever).
11. When an Alpha drops something on the floor and you are close by, go and pick it up for him, even if it just landed next to his shoes.
12. When you work with an Alpha on a joint project at work, downplay your contribution and praise him in front of the others.
13. Praise the Alphas you know every day, ie in front of other people. Be mindful of their achievements and the hard work they do to run our societies, and make sure everyone knows, a little bit like the apostles praised the deeds of Jesus.
14. When you see two Alphas talking with each other, don’t interrupt them but wait at an adequate and respectful distance until they have finished, even if your matter is urgent.
15. When an Alpha arrives to a restaurant where all seats are taken, get up and offer him yours.
16. When you don’t have much money to tribute to Alphas to make their lives easier, review your spending. There is always some way to reduce your spending to be able to make at least a humble contribution.
17. Encourage your friends to serve Alphas. Most men nowadays are ashamed to admit that they want to serve. Tell them it’s ok to be deferent and respectful to Alphas.
As you know from my previous post I didn’t do what my boyfriend asked of me and whore out with two strangers the night before last (see pre post).I could tell when we woke up he was still mad at at me for embarrassing him because I had flaked on the two gentlemen he had promised my slut holes to. So I tried to please him by ironing all his work clothes shinning his shoes fixing him breakfast and fetching the newspaper he didn’t say much. We got dressed and ran a few errands around town. When we arrived back at home He sat down with the macbook to get some work done, he told me I needed to make up for last night and ordered me to his feet to take care of them. I got down and removed the right shoe first the stink of feet and sweat filled my nose, I massaged his foot for about 20 mins while he worked and then was told to go to the other foot , I did and pulled off the left shoe and again the aroma filled my nose, another 20 mins of rubbing this foot. He then took his eyes off the computer and asked me if they were sweaty ,I said yes. He told me in that case clean the sweat from them. I did licking the soles in-between his toes. After he was satisfied he told me to get up and get him a cigarette and the belt. After his smoke he got up with belt in hand and told me to bend over pants down, I did. He told me I disappointed him the previous night and needed to be punished. He took the belt in his hand and slammed it across my bare ass it was painful but I did not complain I knew I deserved this. Nine swats later my ass was stinging in red he sat back down and told me to suck his cock. I sucked his cock he thrusted deeper until I choked all while pay no attention to me just back on the computer like the true alpha he is. He then ordered me to lick his sweaty hole clean , I buried my face and tonged his hole for what seemed like forever. He then grabbed his cock and started stroking it i could tell he was going to shoot. But before he did he looked at me and told me he would not cum down my throat I didn’t deserve that, He said he would cum on himself and I would lick it up and clean him. With that he shot a huge load all the way up to his neck. I did as instructed while licking his cum up he told me I could cum after he was clean as I licked up the last dropped he told me to blow and I did I blew my cum all over, before the last rope shot out of my dick he sat up grabbed my hair pulled me into him and said “Good job whore but do not embarrass me again” I said okay and he told me he loved me and kissed me on the cheek……
I started writing this blog off the suggestion of a fellow alpha. In thinking back this was really the birth of the gay boy bible. I wrote this post to help define some terms and i want to reblog it here, because this is a more appropriate home for it. Before we get to the definitions let’s talk about identity.
When it comes to identity, recognize that bdsm has an unbelievable spectrum of people within it and identity is often more complicated than a single title. Maybe all of them are part of you but some are more pronounced than others. You don’t need to adopt any of them, but at least you’ll have the language to talk about different approaches to BDSM.
A faggot, omega, or boy could all identify as a title other than the ones i use to describe them. But that’s a great conversational point. You can in conversation use your preferred title, and use that as a launching board to talk about yourself and your kinky interests. In this way you can have a title that’s unique to you, but still lead someone to get to know you in the first few minutes of conversation.
Dominants, as a final word on the subject before getting into definitions. Recognize that behavior and titles are not linked. Not every submissive you meet is a boy. Not every submissive you meet is a faggot. Take a moment to get to know them a little and ask about their preferred title and use it. One of the number one ways people have accidentally pissed off @bredbeta was to refer to him as a faggot. He is a boy and despises the term faggot.
- Beta/Boy: A Beta’s primary motivation is respect. A beta will often say to himself “is this person worthy of my submission?” He takes a great deal of pride in his submission. He prefers that he feel respected and protected by his Alpha/Dom/Sir. That respect is central to who he is. Betas draw confidence from the one they serve and are often personally bettered by serving one they deem fit to serve. Their submission is strength to them because they feel like a better stronger person by giving up control to someone worthy of it. Beta’s often seek out Alphas who exhibit strengths where they have weaknesses or who embody ideals they wish they had.
Beta: “I submit because i am strong, not because i am weak.”
- Omega: An omega’s motivating factor is to be treated as “below” others. An omega wants to be at the bottom of any established pecking order. He desires to be made to feel that he is rarely (if ever) considered. Whether that consideration be his feelings, his well being, or his needs. His NEED is simply to be used and then ignored. He enjoys being used in absolutely any way he can. Note: it is abuse to completely disregard another person’s needs and well being even when they ask for it. Don’t do that. Be a responsible dominant. Establish limits for yourself. Stay within them.
Omega: “I submit because i am weak and you are stronger/superior.”
- Faggot: A Faggot is motivated by dick (and many times cum). They revel in the sensations of being a slut. At the end of the day a faggot is most happy when he has taken all (or given) the dick and/or jizz that he possibly could. If that goal is accomplished, faggots don’t seem to usually mind putting up with insults or disrespect so long as they are allowed to meet their goal.
Faggot: “I’m a bitch huh? This bitch took 30 dicks today. No one fucks better than me.”
make me wait til theyre done eating before i can start
ignore safewords and boundaries
make me wear a chastity belt while theyre at work
chain me to the bed at night
make me take responsibility for their mistakes
make me anal only
ruin my food by either pissing or cumming on it
give me a black eye
control what i eat and wear
have me make a tack bra and wear it often
only let me use the bathroom outside, no matter what weather
force objects into my cunt
keep me gagged when theyre home
take my contacts and glasses away
force me to green out multiple times
wash my mouth out with soap for saying "no" to anything
pull me around by my hair
dutch oven me
make me wash their truck naked
force me to keep my tits out when they drive no matter what
not let me eat ANYTHING for 4 days, then taking me to a resturant where i dont like anything. if i dont eat, they kick me repeatedly for being ungrateful, then starve me for 4 more days
punch me in the stomach while they sit on my face
tie a plastic bag over my head
keep me locked in a crate while they game
make me kneel on the floor witha tray to hold their stuff
stuff my mouth with their dirty work socks
cut me if i misbehave really badly
spit in my face and not let me wipe it off
shove their fingers in my mouth any time i yawn
bite my nipples v hard
put hot sauce on my clit and inside my nose
make me ask for permission to use the bathroom
shove monster cans in my cunt or ass
force me to take too much lsd and rape and beat me repeatedly
show their friends my tits
make me bark on command in front of people
use me as toilet paper
tie me to the bedframe and force me to stand there as decoraton
stand on me with ther full weight
tie a 20ft rope to their ballhitch and my tits and force me to walk behind the truck
burry me up to my neck after making me dig the hole
superglue the lock on my collar shut
tie me so i cant move and put icey hot on my clit
insult me any chance they get
slap me if i ever ask them to stop doing something
Found this list on tumblr and removed some and added some suggestion for an alpha on how to abuse a slave.
Sit back and make him suck your dick, nice and slow.
Train him to deepthroat your cock.
Fuck his face, balls-deep, like it’s a pussy.
Cock slap him.
Make him lick your sweaty balls.
Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car).
Spit on him.
Make him clean your sweaty ass after you work out.
Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
Piss on him.
Piss down his throat.
Piss in his ass.
Make him drink your piss from a glass.
Piss on a pair of underwear, or a jock strap, then wring it out over his face.
Finger his hole.
Fuck his ass.
Spank him.
Paddle him or whip him.
Fuck him with a dildo.
Tie him up and use his holes.
Smack or slap his face.
Call him names.
Tag team him with a buddy.
Gangbang him with a group of friends or strangers.
Whore him out to friends or strangers.
Make him sniff and lick your piss- and/or cum-stained underwear.
Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when you’re fucking him.
Cum on his face.
Cum on his face and make him wear the load out in public.
Cum on his ass.
Cum directly down his throat.
Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog.
Organize a bukkake and cover his face with multiple cum loads.
Make him eat your cum off your buddy’s cock.
Cum on the floor or a table and make him lick it up.
Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass.
Cum on food and make him eat it.
Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo.
Flick or twist his nipples.
Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body.
Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store).
Piss on his underwear then make him wear them home.
Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet.
Don’t let him cum.
Make him ask your permission to jerk off or cum.
Make him eat his own cum.
Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch.
Make him watch while you fuck another faggot.
Position him beneath you while you’re fucking another faggot and make him lick your cock as it goes in and out of the faggot’s hole.
Make him eat your ass while you’re fucking another faggot.
Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him.
Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot.
Make him eat your load out of another faggot’s ass.
Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock.
Blindfold him when you use him.
Fist his hole.
Cum in his ass.
Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch.
Make him and another faggot fuck themselves on a double-ended dildo while you watch.
Make him lick your feet.
Use him as a footrest.
Make him give you a massage or footrub.
Take him to a bar; when his beer’s empty, refill the glass or bottle with your piss and make him drink it in public.
Make him pee at the urinal (e.g., at the movies, at the gym, at the bar) with his pants around his ankles so everyone knows he’s a faggot.
Shave his body.
Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
Save your piss in a bucket, and make him bathe with it.
Keep him in chastity.
Decide what he wears.
Make him wear a collar and leash.
Keep him in a cage.
Make him do domestic chores for you (e.g., laundry, cleaning, shopping).
Make him sniff poppers, then use him.
Make him wear a ball gag.
Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog.
Make him eat his meals out of a dog dish.
Make him service anonymous cock at a gloryhole.
Engage him in forced workouts.
Make him beg for your cock.
Feed him your pre-cum.
Make him call you “Master” or “Sir.”
Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole.
Make him lick you head to toe
Make him drink a bottle of your piss left somewhere in a public place and order him to tape it!
Go in to a club’s bathroomat the same time and order him to leave his half full glass of his cocktail in the toilet before you and add to the cocktail your piss, leave him the glass somewhere and order him to drink it in front of you.
Go to a public bathroom together and while standing in front of urinals make him put your head down to your urinal and drink your piss.
Make a video you raping him, cuming in his ass and forcing him to drink your piss and post it on tumblr claiming ownership of him.
Make him wear a puppy tail and take him for a walk outside.
Make him wear women’s lingery and fuck him like a whore.
Mummify him and fuck him in his mouth and ass.
Tie him up with chains or rope and let him sleep on the floor next to your bed.
Choke him while you fuck him in missionary position.
Pull his hair while you fuck him in doggy position.
Make him wear a collar showing your ownership in public.
Make him come to your work place and service you in anyway you need.
Make him wear a cock cage.
Make him wear ball weights.
Make him give you his social profile passwords to monitor his communication.
Make him raport sexual contacts with other guys.
Make him write an online diary of all sexual contacts and sub duties.
1. Every time you speak to it in public, speak very slowly with simple words but speak normally to everyone else.
2. Never use its name, use body parts, or pet names (tits, gash, cunt, little girl, dumbass, and/or stupid)
3. Grab its tits, ass, or pussy instead of saying hello.
4. After whipping, strapping, or caning its ass and/or tits, make sure to expose its marks when it's out in public.
5. Make it speak in the 3rd person. This is best when it doesn't use I, me, mine, or it's correct name.
6. Order food for it at a restaurant, and feed it small bites when the meal arrives.
7. Make it wear big, non-matching clip-on earrings.
8. Casually speak to others on its behalf as if it wasn't there.
9. Make it carry your garbage in its holes until you come to a trash can. The mouth is recommended for this job.
10. While you wait outside a shop, send it in with a note that it must hand to one of the employees about what it should buy for you.
11. When it speaks, make it follow rules (like each word has to start with the next letter of the alphabet) so it speaks really slowly and generally doesn't make any sense.
12. Whistle at it.
13. Administer swift, corrective swats on its butt or the palms of its hands.
14. Point out the times it has made mistakes in the past to others, including its friends.
15. Have it ask permission to go to the bathroom. This is especially effective when you and it are hanging out with a group of friends.
16. Drop things on purpose so it can pick them up for you.
17. While walking make it stop, spread its legs, and put its hands behind its back then make it stay in that position till you give it permission to walk again.
18. No matter what it says to you, reply "Sounds good little girl".
19. Make it wear revealing clothing that shows too much of its body.
20. Smear its makeup before going out in public.
21. Handcuff it to a pole outside of stores while you shop.
22. Apply itching powder to its twat before going out so it has to scratch itself in front of everyone and don't allow it to touch itself.
23. Make it cover random parts of its exposed body during tanning so its tan lines are weird and unnatural.
24. Interrupt it to compliment its intimate parts of its body (if it's chatting with its girlfriend, just interject "Wow, your tits look great today").
25. Have it explain a time it made a mistake in the past to a stranger, for example a waiter.
26. Make it carry around a large sex toy in public.
27. Spit in its food and drink in public.
28. Casually comment on how other women are more attractive than it.
29. Ask it politely to do something for you and then constantly criticize anything it does. "No, no, no. Not like that".
30. Every time it expresses an opinion, reply "That's silly!" or "That's stupid"..
31. Cut eye holes into a paper bag and make it wear it out in public with you.
32. Randomly grope and slap its ass.
33. If it doesn't know something or remembers it wrong, reply "It's okay, you're just a girl."
34. Restrict its use of furniture (make it stand, kneel, or sit on the floor)..
35. Have it make only "animal" sounds (no words) in public (oinking, barking, etc.).
She looks so fucking stupid. Imagine getting aroused and wet off this. Worshipping someone and getting abused by their feet. New lows every single day.
It’s okay if you don’t understand why your husband would crave cuckold humiliation. Sexual desires, especially those that fall outside the boundaries of what’s considered “normal,” are exceptionally difficult to understand. You don’t need to understand it though. You just need to accept and embrace it. Trust me when I say that your cuck hubby will be deeply grateful that you’ve done so.
A few things to keep in mind before I dig in to the various ways you can humiliate your cuckold:
These aren’t one size fits all – It’s best to discuss cuckold humiliation as a couple. Don’t surprise him. He’ll likely be on board with some of the ideas and find others abhorrent. It’s also possible that you’ll both warm up to the more extreme ideas as you gain experience with humiliation.
You don’t have to be cuckolding him – It’s possible to enjoy some of these ideas without actually sleeping with other guys. Some work as is and others can be adjusted.
Aftercare is important – Please refer to the last section to read about aftercare and its importance in ensuring that humiliating your husband doesn’t damage him or your marriage.
Also, if you have any ideas or experiences that I’ve missed, please leave a comment and I’ll add them.
Mild Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Go Lingerie Shopping for Your Lover
It’s such a simple thing, but bringing your husband along while you buy lingerie for another man is a perfect way to humiliate him. It’s a thrilling experience for a cuckold to watch his wife try on the sexiest underwear imaginable knowing that she’s doing it to arouse someone else.
Be sure to work in plenty of verbal play along the way. Ask him “Do you think this will turn him on?” while you hold up a sexy red lace bodysuit. Confidently say “I think he’d love fucking me in this,” when you step out of the dressing room. If a dose of public humiliation works for both of you, say it loud enough for a sales girl or another customer to hear. Your cuckold’s face will burn with humiliation and his cock will throb with desire.
Flirt Openly While Your Husband Watches
This is easiest to do at a bar or lounge. Have your husband find a seat across the room and eagerly flirt with other guys while he watches. It’s even better if there’s music, as you can dance with the guys you like best. If things get a little bit intimate – touching and kissing, etc – then that’s even better. Your cuckold will sit in the corner and watch as you enjoy the attention of other men.
If you dance with a guy or have a make out session, text your husband afterwards and let him know that you could feel the guy’s big cock pressing into you. Tell him you couldn’t help but think about having it inside you and how it would feel so good to finally have a big cock fill your pussy. He’ll love that.
Tell Your Husband His Cock Isn’t Big Enough
For most women, size matters to a degree. Generally, a bigger cock feels better than a small cock. For the purposes of this exercise, you want to play that up. If you want to humiliate your husband, tell him that his cock simply isn’t big enough to make you cum like you desire. Tell him that he just doesn’t measure up. A few suggestions:
“Your cock just isn’t big enough, baby.”
“I need a bigger man.”
“I cum harder on a big cock than I do on your little cuckold dick.”
You know your husband best, so feel free to keep the degradation to a level you know he can handle. It’s always best to start on the mild side and work your way up. You don’t want to break the man, after all.
Tease and Denial with Verbal Humiliation
Hopefully you’ve embraced your power as the wife of a cuckold husband and taken some form of control over his orgasms. With any luck, tease and denial has already become part of your sex life. It’s thrilling to get your cuck all worked up and desperate for release before denying him the pleasure he craves. There’s even a bit of humiliation in that moment when he submits to you and puts his cock back into his pants without cumming.
You can make tease and denial play even more humiliating by adding in a verbal component. Ask him “Do you deserve to cum?” and inform him that he absolutely doesn’t, because his cock is worthless and can’t make you cum. If you’re denying him access to your pussy, bring it up. “Does your little cock miss my pussy, cuckold?” is a wonderfully effective way to remind him that he’s not allowed to fuck you because your lover does a much better job.
When you’ve made it clear he won’t be cumming, throw in a healthy dose of verbal humiliation. Try “You’re not going to cum today because this pathetic cock hasn’t made me cum in years.” Or “You don’t deserve an orgasm, cuckold. Only a cock that can make a woman cum deserves an orgasm, and your dick certainly isn’t capable of getting me off.”
Fuck in the Backseat of the Car as Your Cuckold Drives
Have your cuckold drive you around town as you fool around in the backseat. It’s better if he doesn’t know what’s going to happen. Give him a destination that’s far enough away to offer ample time for sex. Wear a skirt to make it easier and then get down to business. Start with kissing and feel free to get a little louder than usual about it. Your cuckold will be stiff with desire soon enough.
Go down on your lover in the backseat. Make it a louder blowjob than usual to ensure that your husband knows exactly what’s going on back there. Then, climb on top of that big cock and sink your pussy down on it. Take your lover for a ride until you both (hopefully) climax. Thank him for a particularly good fuck, all while your husband is driving the car. Given how turned on your cuckold will be, it’s wise to be mindful of his driving. If it seems like he’s not concentrating on the road, remind him of his responsibility to keep you safe while you’re enjoying your lover’s cock in the backseat.
Deny Your Cuckold the Pleasure of Watching
This only works if your husband is accustomed to being able to watch you have sex with your lover. If that’s the case, it can be helpful to mix it up every now and then by denying him the pleasure of it. It’s particularly effective to do it right as he’s walking into the bedroom to take his usual place. Simply stop him in the doorway and inform him that he won’t be watching tonight. Then shut the door before he has a chance to argue.
If you’d like to make it a little more painful, you can emphasize the fact that you want to be alone with your lover because you crave something a little more romantic. If you typically fuck, you’re going to make love with just the two of you in the room. You’ll know best if such a thing would be a humiliating delight for your cuckold.
Make Your Husband Sleep in the Guest Room While Your Lover is in the Master Bedroom
If you don’t have a second bedroom, the living room couch will work just fine. The idea is that your lover, the sexually superior man, is kicking your husband out of his place in the master bedroom, at least for one night.
It works best if you don’t tell your husband until after you’ve fucked your lover in the marital bed. In your post-orgasmic bliss, tell your cuckold that your lover will be spending the night. Inform your husband that he is to spend the night in the guest bedroom, alone. If you want to make it a little more humiliating, have noisy sex in the middle of the night to remind your hubby of his place. You can do so again in the morning, too.
Wear Your Bridal Lingerie for Your Lover
If you still have the lingerie you wore on your wedding night and/or your honeymoon, wear it for your lover. Inform your husband that you’ll be doing so. It’s a simple, subtle thing, but it can be humiliating to associate the lingerie you wore on the first night of your marriage with another man’s cock entering you.
This works especially well if it’s the classic all white bridal lingerie and if you only wore it on your wedding night. You can also replace your bridal lingerie with someone else precious and personal to your marriage. You could wear your husband’s favorite dress on a date with your lover, his favorite shirt, etc. You could wear the jewelry he gave you for a big anniversary. All of it can be an effective way of humiliating your cuckold.
Take Control of Your Cuckold’s Orgasms
As a cuckold’s wife, you have more power than you know. Exercise that power by demanding control over his orgasms. He’s not allowed to cum unless you give him permission to do so. Merely submitting to your command can be humiliating, as most men wouldn’t readily admit their wives have complete control over their orgasms.
If you’re a little bit imaginative, you can have a great deal of humiliating fun with your cuckold once you control his orgasms. Make him do something embarrassing before he’s allowed to climax. Make him clean the house naked, or suck your sweaty toes, or worship your ass. If he’s turned on enough, he’ll do damn near anything for the pleasure of an orgasm.
Dress Up Slutty for Your Lover
The vast majority of guys like it when a woman dresses slutty for them. They don’t necessarily want you to dress like a hooker, but getting dolled up like you’re going to a club for a night of dancing and grinding will drive any guy wild.
You’ve probably long since stopped dressing like that for your husband (if you ever did), so do it for your lover. Do it for the man that inspires wetness between your legs and fucks you to incredible orgasms. Your cuckold will feel the familiar burn of humiliation as you get tarted up to arouse another man.
Even better, take your husband shopping to buy slutty clothes for your lover. Make him pick out tight dresses and short skirts and then try them on for him. Ask him if he thinks your lover would be turned on as you model the clothes for him? Make it clear that he won’t be fucking you in them and that you only dress up like that for real men that know how to fuck you.
Subtly Remind Your Husband How Good Your Lover Is
Constant but subtle reminders of how much you enjoy sex with your lover are a simple, beautiful way to humiliate your husband. You’ll need to find a man that really knows how to fuck you, but once you’ve partnered with a guy that rocks your world, all you really need to do is communicate that to your cuckold.
It’s most effective if you do it when your husband isn’t expecting it. He should hear how good your lover is when he’s licking you afterwards or when your lover is inside you (if he’s allowed to watch), but he should also hear it when you’re at the movies, driving to a restaurant, or enjoying a Friday night with pizza and a movie. Whispering into his ear about your lover’s bigger cock or how hard another man made you cum is a perfect way to lightly humiliate your cuckold husband while also arousing him beyond his wildest dreams.
Tell Your Cuckold How Badly You Want to Be with Your Lover
This will be exceptionally easy if you’ve actually found a guy that fucks you like you deserve. You’ll be thinking about him constantly. You’ll be reliving the last time you had sex with him. To humiliate your cuckold you just need to share those thoughts.
If you get horny, make your cuckold go down on you and tell him you wish your lover was there. “I need his cock inside me so badly, baby,” is the perfect thing to say as your cuckold’s tongue is tending to your clit. The humiliation comes in part from the fact that your husband has a hard cock between his legs and in that moment you have no interest in having it inside you. You don’t even have to say it; he’ll know it by your insistence that he go down on you instead of fucking you.
If your cuckold is particularly attentive he’ll notice when your mind has drifted off and you’re daydreaming about your lover. If he asks, tell him. “I was thinking about Tyler’s big cock, honey. I think about it all the time. I want it inside me so badly.” Those words will be enough to send a wave of beautiful humiliation through your cuckold.
Make Him Admit That You Deserve to Fuck Someone Else
This is most effective when you do it repeatedly. It works especially well if you insist that your husband admit that you deserve to fuck someone else right before he’s about to stick his cock inside you.
Your goal should be to refocus your husband’s attention on your pleasure. He should have to admit, over and over again, that you need someone else to fuck you so that you can achieve the orgasms you desire and deserve. You can make it a ritual that’s tied to his sexual pleasure. Before he’s allowed to orgasm, he must first admit that he’s not capable of pleasing you and that you deserve to fuck someone else.
Make Him Beg to be Cuckolded
If you’re reading this, it’s almost guaranteed that your husband wants to be a cuckold. He might feel guilt, shame, and jealousy, but he can’t deny that the notion of you sleeping with other men turns him on. That gives you power, and you should use it to humiliate him.
If he wants you to cuckold him, make him beg for it. Make him fall to his knees, look up at his beautiful wife, and plead with you to sleep with another man. It doesn’t matter how badly he wants it and how much being a cuckold turns him on, when he’s down there asking you to fuck someone else because he’s not good enough, he’ll feel a deep sense of humiliation.
Spank Your Cuckold
While spanking isn’t necessarily related to cuckolding, you can easily tie them together. Assuming he’s inadequate in bed, give him a spanking after he fails yet again to give you an orgasm. Take him over your knee and as you’re swatting his ass, remind him that it’s happening because he couldn’t please his wife, because he couldn’t accomplish the most basic of sexual feats.
Make Your Cuckold Pay for Your Dates with Your Lover
This act of humiliation is small, simple, and rather effective. It will play with your cuckold’s mind on a primal level. The knowledge that he’s paying for you to go on a date with another man will thrill him.
There are so many ways to do it, too. You could have him hand your lover enough cash to cover the date before you leave. You could have him hand over his credit card and watch as your lover puts it in his wallet.
If you want to be especially humiliating, you could have your cuckold husband take a different table at the restaurant where you and your lover are dining. When the waitress brings the check, simply say, “My husband will take the check,” and point to where your cuckold is sitting. The public humiliation will be so beautiful for him.
Go Shopping with Your Lover and Have Your Cuckold Act as Your Valet
A little bit of public humiliation for your cuckold can be exceptionally arousing and going on a shopping trip with your lover is a great way to accomplish that.
Have your cuckold drive you to your destination. Have him carry your bags. Have him pay for everything. You can determine the level of public humiliation you’d like to dole out. For instance, if you really want to humiliate him, make it perfectly clear that you’re deep in lust with your lover as you’re checking out. Then, when the salesperson gives you the total, inform her that your husband will be paying. In that moment, your cuckold will know that the pretty girl behind the register knows some very intimate details of your sex life.
You can go shopping for anything, but it will be more humiliating if you’re shopping for sexy items for you to wear for your lover. Clothing tends to work better for the purposes of this particular humiliation idea because it’s expected that you’re going to come out of the dressing room and model it for your man. In this case, your cuckold will have to witness you modeling it for your lover. Of course, doing a little lingerie shopping is always fun too.
Moderate Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Make Him Wear Panties
One day, when your cuckold is in the shower, pick a pair of panties for him to wear and leave them on the bed (or somewhere else he’ll see them) along with a simple note. “I’d like to see you in these,” or something similar. This works particularly well with a chastity device.
If you want to deepen the humiliation, you can explain exactly why you want him wearing panties. You can be as harsh as you think he can take. “Since you don’t have a real man’s cock, yours should be in a pair of pretty pink lace panties, don’t you think?” He’ll burn with humiliation and be overcome with lust.
Go Panty Shopping for Your Husband
Once he’s wearing panties, you can increase the humiliation by taking him on a shopping trip to buy a pair of his own. Victoria’s Secret is the easiest place. If he’s okay with public humiliation, make sure to comment about how good a sexy pair of panties would look on him. The sales girls will almost always go along with it too, so you can ask them to help you pick out a pair of panties for your husband.
Put His Cock in Chastity
For a man to lose control over his cock and his orgasms can be deeply humiliating. Buy a chastity device, lock his cock inside it, and keep the key on a chain around your neck. He’ll be constantly reminded that you have control over his orgasms, that you’re in charge, and that he needs to be a good boy if he wants release.
If you’d like to increase the humiliation, you can constantly remind him why he’s locked up in the first place. “Your cock is too small to pleasure me, so I’ve locked it up,” is a good place to start. “If your cock can’t please me, then why should you be able to please yourself?” is another good one.
Please check out my article on chastity teasing to add a little extra flavor to your chastity device play.
Do Things with Your Lover You Won’t Do with Hubby
Believe it or not, this tends to happen organically. When you’re with a man that rocks your world in ways you haven’t experienced in years, you tend to want to go the extra mile to please him.
There are lots of options for this. If you never give your husband blowjobs, then go wild with your lover. A shocking number of hotwives have their first anal experience with a lover. Whatever you do, the important thing is to make it clear to your husband that you’re doing it. It’s especially effective if it’s something your cuckold has always wanted. If he’s bugged you about anal sex for years, make sure you emphasize that you’re giving your lover your ass because he’s better in bed.
Share Pregnancy Fantasies with Him
Another man getting you pregnant is the ultimate cuckold humiliation, and while I don’t endorse actually going all the way and letting someone else knock you up (unless your husband can’t get you pregnant, in which case you could talk about it), there’s no harm in sharing pregnancy fantasies with him.
You might find that this arouses both of you, but even if it’s just a delightful humiliation for him, it’s worth doing. It’s most effective if you’re both naked and fooling around. Take hold of his cock and stroke him gently as you kiss his neck and whisper into his ear. Feel free to be as bold as you want.
“I went off the pill, honey, and you won’t be cumming in me anymore. I want to make sure he gets me pregnant.”
“I’m going to have another man’s baby.”
“Soon, my belly is going to be swollen with his seed, honey. He’s going to get me pregnant. He’s going to knock up your wife.”
Make Your Husband Watch without Being Able to Masturbate
If your husband is like most cuckolds, he desperately wants to watch you get fucked and he really wants to jerk off while another man’s cock is filling you. Deny him that pleasure. Let him watch, but forbid him from masturbating. If he can’t be trusted, then lock his cock in a chastity device.
Even better, tie him to a chair with a really good view of the sex. His hands will be bound and he’ll be insanely aroused but completely unable to do anything about it. To make it extra painful, get him hard after you tie him up and then leave him to join your lover in bed and have mind-blowing sex while your cuck watches.
Let Your Husband Listen on the Phone While You Fuck Your Lover
Go to a hotel room or your lover’s place and call your husband. Put the phone on speaker and mute him so he can listen without you hearing anything from his end. Then, enjoy an evening of pleasure with another man’s cock inside you.
You can choose to act as if your cuckold isn’t there, or you can play it up a little. The latter is the more humiliating choice. Moan a little louder. Go down on your lover a little more vigorously. If it works for you, add in verbal play like “Your cock is so much bigger than my husband’s” or “Your cock feels so much better than my husband’s.” A little something like “I missed this cock baby. I need it inside me so badly,” is a good way to remind your cuckold why you’re with another man and he’s at home.
Make Your Husband Thank Your Lover for Fucking You
It can be remarkably humiliating for a cuckold husband to thank another man for fucking his wife. This is especially true if he’s made to explain exactly why he’s so grateful that another man has taken his place in the bedroom.
In most cuckold relationships, the wife is with another man because her husband can’t quite give her everything she needs sexually. If that’s the case in your relationship, then your cuckold will experience deep humiliation when he thanks your lover for giving you what he’s been unable to provide. This one is a little dangerous though, so be sure your husband can handle it before you require it of him.
Make Your Husband Beg Your Lover to Fuck You
Your cuckold husband will be enormously turned on whenever you’re with your lover. If he’s allowed to watch you fool around and enjoy sensual foreplay, this will be doubly true. You can use that to humiliate him. In that moment right before your lover’s cock penetrates you, make your husband beg him to fuck you.
When he gets turned on like that, the one thing in the world your husband wants is to see you have sex with another man. Make him give voice to that. Make him beg another man to fuck you. Make him do it exactly as you want. Make him repeat himself over and over. Make him say that he wants another man to fuck his wife because he’s inadequate when it comes to sex.
Make Your Husband Do Errands for Your Lover
Invite your lover over to fuck you, but instead of letting your husband watch, make him leave the house to do errands for your lover. If he needs his car washed, your cuckold can do it while the two of you are having sex. If he needs his dry cleaning picked up, that’s perfect. The more menial the task, the more humiliating it will be.
To add a little extra humiliation, invite your cuckold into the bedroom after you and your lover have fucked. He should walk through the door to see the two of you naked and cuddled together. In that moment, when you would typically reward him with an orgasm or the chance to lick your pussy, send him out on another errand and let him know that while he’s gone, you’ll be fucking your lover again.
Go on a Romantic Vacation with Your Lover
A romantic vacation would typically be reserved for you and your husband, which is precisely why going on one with your lover will be humiliating for your cuckold. I wouldn’t recommend this unless you really like your lover and can spend time with him doing something other than having sex.
Start with a weekend away. Pick a hotel that’s known for romance (a boutique hotel is always a good choice) and pack lots of lingerie and sexy clothes, making it clear to your cuckold that you’re going to spending a lot of time fucking someone else while you’re away. You can even have hubby help you pack.
While you’re there, treat it like any other vacation. Enjoy the romance and the great sex. Enjoy a new experience with a man you’re hopefully enamored with, at least sexually. If you want to increase the humiliation, be in constant contact with your cuckold. Send him texts about the great sex you just had or call him and let him listen while you fuck. You can even send him pictures of the fun you’re having.
Swallow Your Lover’s Cum, Not Your Husband’s
Guys love it when you swallow their cum. You can make that work for you as a naughty way to humiliate your husband. It can be as simple as swallowing your lover’s cum while your husband watches. If you happen to swallow your husband’s cum, you can inform him that you’ll no longer be doing so and that only your lover gets the pleasure of cumming in your mouth.
Perhaps you find the whole thing disgusting (you wouldn’t be alone). If that’s the case, you can still do it every once in a while just to arouse your lover and humiliate your husband. If you’ve never swallowed your cuckold’s cum, just imagine what he’ll feel when you let another man cum in your mouth so you can swallow it.
Spend Valentine’s Day with Your Lover
Valentine’s Day is for couples and you’d normally spend it with your husband. For a dose of cuckold humiliation, consider spending it with your lover. There’s a lot of room to have fun with this scenario.
Before V-Day, go lingerie shopping with your husband and pick out something you’re going to wear for your lover. Inform your husband that the man that makes you cum is the one that deserves to spend the year’s most romantic holiday with you. You can invite your lover to your house and make your cuckold serve you both (refill your champagne glasses, bring you chocolate, etc).
You could also go on a romantic dinner date with your lover and check in to a hotel for the evening, leaving your cuckold to stay home and imagine what you’re doing. Upending what is traditionally a holiday for couples and turning it into a holiday for you and your lover is rife with humiliating possibilities for your cuck.
Make Your Cuckold Find a Lover for You
It’s easier than ever to go online and find a man to fuck, which means your cuckold can do it for you. The entire experience will be blissfully humiliating. You can tell him what you’re looking for or let him make the choice. Either way, he’ll have to spend hours, maybe days, considering what kind of man would be suitable to fuck his wife and to make her cum far better than he’s ever been able to.
When he talks to the guys, have him make it clear that he’s looking for someone to fuck his wife because he’s inadequate in bed. It will make every interaction with your potential lovers humiliating. You’ll have to make sure he’s not picking a crazy person, but by the time the search is over you’ll have a new man to fuck and your cuckold will be suitably humiliated.
Make Your Cuckold Admit That He Has an Inadequate Cock
Take your husband to the bedroom and have him strip. Get naked with him (or wear lingerie) and turn him on. Have him lie on his back while you kiss him, grind on him, and generally drive him wild with desire.
When he’s reached a place of wild desire, press your body next to his and take his cock in your hand. Gently run your fingers around the head and feel him shudder with pleasure next to you. The goal here is to get your husband to a place where he readily admits that his cock simply isn’t good enough to satisfy you (even if that’s not entirely true).
You’re free to take whatever approach works best for you. A soft, slow, sensual approach is what I’d recommend, though. Nibble his ear lobe while you slowly stroke his cock and whisper, “Don’t you think I deserve something bigger and better than your cock?” You can tell him about a former lover that had the size you crave. It might take a while for him to come around, but soon he’ll eagerly admit that his dick just isn’t good enough for you.
Do a Cock Comparison
This only works if there’s a significant size difference between your cuckold and your lover (which is not always the case). If that size difference exists, this is an exceptionally effective form of humiliation.
Get your lover hard through your preferred means (kissing, handjob, oral sex, etc). Make your cuckold watch and masturbate, though he must not cum. Once they’re both erect, have them stand close enough that the comparison is obvious.
It works best if you let both cocks rest in the palm of your hands. If you can stand being on your knees between the two of them, that will be most effective. That way, your cuckold will be forced to look down at you and your lover’s cock as you both show and tell him exactly why he has no business fucking you.
The verbal component is important here. You need to tell him exactly why his cock doesn’t get to fuck you. Don’t just show it. Talk about it. Ask your cuckold questions, too, and make him answer. “Do you understand why your cock doesn’t belong inside me, cuckold?” is a good example.
It’s also worth doing this from your knees because you can make your cuckold watch as you offer your lover oral pleasure. Take him into your mouth and run your tongue over the head of his cock. Ask your cuckold if he’s jealous. Tell him that only a man with a nice big cock deserves the pleasure of your mouth.
Make Your Cuckold Watch from Outside the House
The idea is fairly simple and straightforward: You send your husband out of the house while you enjoy your lover’s big cock and you give him permission to watch through the window.
This idea works on multiple levels. First, you’re denying him the pleasure of watching in person, which he no doubt enjoys. Second, you’re making him hide outside the house like a pervy voyeur and he will no doubt have to hope he doesn’t get caught, especially if he’s going to masturbate as he watches (which you should encourage him to do).
If you want to make this naughty idea even more fun, plan to do it with a man that doesn’t know you cuckold your husband. It’s even better if it’s a friend of his. Send your cuckold out in a way where his friend would expect him to be gone for quite a while. Then, use your seductive charms to convince that friend to fuck you, all while your cuckold watches from outside the house like the pervy voyeur he is.
Make Your Cuckold Massage You and Your Lover
Your cuckold almost certainly enjoys giving you massages (and if he doesn’t, you really should train him to do so; it’s wonderful). He probably wouldn’t enjoy giving your bull a massage, though. He’d probably find it quite humiliating, in fact.
Try a simple scenario to start out. Have your cuckold sit on the floor as you and your lover enjoy a movie. Make the cuckold massage your feet. He can start with yours, but he’ll have to rub your lover’s feet too.
If you want to make it a little more humiliating, start to make out with your lover as your cuckold is massaging you. Make it seem like his foot rub has enticed you into showing your sexual desire for the other man in your life.
If you want to graduate to different kinds of massage, go ahead. Turn your cuckold into your personal masseuse if you want. He could give you both back rubs and then watch as you fuck.
Advanced Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Have Him Place Your Lover’s Cock Inside You
When you and your lover are ready to fuck, have your cuckold guide his cock inside you. Get into position, and then order the cuck to take hold of your lover’s dick and place it at the entrance to your pussy. Adding in a “good boy” when he’s completed his task can be very effective. You can have him do it multiple times over the course of a fuck session, too. With every position switch your cuckold can be called over to place your lover’s cock inside you.
Make Him Wear a Condom While Your Lover Gets to Cum Inside You
Your husband is likely accustomed to releasing his cum inside you. Let’s end that. This one is hard to do if you’re not with a lover long term, but if you get to the point where you’re letting another man cum inside you, take that pleasure away from your husband.
It’s hottest to do it right before you’re going to have sex with your cuckold (assuming you still do so). He’s between your legs, his cock is hard and dripping with precum, and just as he’s about to slide into you, pull out a condom and insist that he put it on. Inform him that from now on your lover will be the only man that gets to cum inside you.
Want to make it a little more humiliating? Try these bits of dirty talk:
“Only a man that gives me orgasms gets to cum inside me.”
“Only a real man’s cock gets to cum inside me.”
“It’s his pussy now, honey. Only he gets to cum inside me.”
“I don’t want your cum inside me anymore. I only want his.”
Deny Him Access to Your Pussy
Your pussy is a great source of pleasure for your husband, so why not deny him access to it? The very act of forbidding him from fucking you is delightful (especially if you’re getting all the sex you need from someone else), but you can make it so much more humiliating.
If you want to humiliate your cuckold, make it absolutely clear why he’s being denied. Ask him “Why would I let you fuck me when you can’t make me cum?” You could also try, “You don’t deserve to fuck me, cuckold. Your cock isn’t worthy of my pussy. I need a better, bigger man.” Make it clear that he’s not allowed to fuck you because he doesn’t satisfy you and you’ll put him in his place.
Tell a Friend about Your Husband’s Inadequate Cock
We’re treading on dangerous ground here, so I certainly don’t recommend it to everyone, but it’s unquestionably humiliating to tell a close friend about your husband’s small cock or his lack of skill in bed. Obviously your cuckold needs to know you’ve shared this information, but you need to be sure he can handle it and not be completely destroyed by your sharing.
If he can handle that kind of humiliation, consider doing it while he’s in the room. Have him sit and listen as you tell your friend how your husband can’t please you in bed or doesn’t have a big enough cock to fill you like you desire. You can do the same thing with a lover, to be honest, and while it won’t be quite as humiliating, it can be a good place to start.
Have Pregnancy Risk Sex, or Fake It
I honestly can’t recommend having genuine pregnancy risk sex (that’s unprotected sex with your lover when you’re not using some form of birth control). To me, the potential consequences far outweigh the pleasure. However, there’s nothing wrong with pretending that you’re doing it. Tell your husband that you’ve gone off the pill (or pulled out the ring) and that you want your lover to get you pregnant.
The other risk here is that it’s hard to know how your husband is going to react. That’s why you should know ahead of time if your cuckold finds pregnancy play arousing while being humiliating, or if it would just make him furious. You don’t want to cross a boundary.
Try a Cuckold 69
If you’re not familiar, a cuckold 69 is when your husband is on the bottom, you’re on top of him, and your lover is fucking you from behind. Your cuckold gets an extreme close up view of another man sliding into your pussy. He gets to witness your lover’s size and your wetness for him. Plus, you can make him lick your clit, lick your lover’s shaft, or suck on his balls if you so choose.
You can play with your husband’s cock if you’d like, but you’re also welcome to leave it alone entirely. It’s a little more frustrating and humiliating for him to be so close to your mouth and hands and to be denied those pleasures. Feel free to concentrate on your pleasure in that moment (and if your husband is licking your clit as you get fucked, it should be quite pleasurable).
Make Your Husband Eat His Cum
Many men are aroused by the idea of eating their cum, but only before they’ve had an orgasm. Once they climax, every bit of that desire goes away. You can humiliate your cuckold continually by making him eat his cum every time he has an orgasm.
You don’t need a reason other than he’s a cuckold and you’re his wife and it’s what you want. He might fight you, but eventually he’ll relent. He wants you to fuck other men. He wants you to tease him about it. He wants you to reward him with the chance to lick your pussy. Just make it clear that if he doesn’t consume his cum after every orgasm, he gets none of those things. He’ll be your little cum slut before you know it.
Make Your Husband Your Waiter/Servant/Slave for an Evening
Invite your lover over for the evening. Have your husband greet him at the door, take his coat, and offer him a drink. Have dinner together and make your cuckold act as your waiter. Make him see to your every need for the evening, like he’s your servant.
It will be most thrilling and humiliating if you extend his service to your sexual play. Have him undress you as your lover watches. Have him prepare your pussy with his tongue. If you’ve delved into bisexual play, have him fluff your lover to get him hard for you. Treat him like a borderline slave and you’ll deepen his humiliation.
Give Your Cuckold Cock-Flavored Kisses
Invite your husband to join you on your knees in front of your lover. Make him watch as you give a sensual, sexy blowjob. Show him how much you love sucking your lover’s big cock. Then, pull your mouth off the thick erection and share a long, deep tongue kiss with your cuckold. Ask him “How does his cock taste, cucky?”
This is especially good for couples that have yet to delve into bisexual play (or those that will never cross that boundary). To watch you eagerly devour another man’s cock is humiliating enough, so pulling him to share kisses right after you’ve pulled your mouth off that dick doubles down on those delightful feelings. Do it over and over, and make sure that there’s plenty of dirty talk to go along with it.
Have a Friend Spank Him
Spanking can be so much more humiliating for your cuckold if you involve a friend. You can be up front about it too. Tell your husband that you’ve invited your friend over because you need someone else to understand just how inadequate he is. Then, have him strip to show her his small cock before he bends over her knees and takes a spanking.
You need to make sure your friend is fully on board and understands that what you’re doing isn’t to be discussed outside of your house. There’s no need to completely destroy your husband by inviting a friend that will blab to everyone she knows about your marriage. If you have that trust, and she happens to be kinky, then ask her over to give your cuckold husband’s ass a hard spanking.
Make Your Cuckold Masturbate in a Condom Filled with Your Lover’s Cum
First you get the pleasure of having sex with your lover. Feel free to take your time and make it especially arousing for your cuckold. If he can be trusted to masturbate without cumming, let him do it. This will work better if he’s really turned on by the time you offer him the condom.
After your lover has ejaculated in the condom, carefully pull it off of him and offer it to your husband. Make sure you haven’t informed him of your plans. It will be more humiliating if it’s a surprise.
Inform him that if he wants to orgasm he’ll have to put on the used condom and bathe his cock in your lover’s cum while he masturbates. Chances are good he’ll do it without hesitation.
Begin a Regular Cum Feeding Practice
For the purposes of this idea, cum feeding is the act of you literally feeding your cuckold a load of semen from your pussy. It specifically involves you sitting on his face and letting the sperm seep out of your body and into his mouth.
It’s obviously very similar to him cleaning a creampie, but this act feels more dominant. This is him submissively lying on his back while you straddle his face and feed him from your pussy. It will have a different mental impact on him, and you want that.
You don’t even have to have a lover to do this. You can feed your cuckold his own loads if you haven’t begun sleeping with anyone yet. Verbal play during the cum feeding can be very helpful. Ask him if it tastes good. Tell him that he’s a good boy for eating semen out of your body. Tell him how much you love feeding him a yummy load.
Bring Your Cuckold on Vacation with You and Your Lover
It’s always fun to go on a vacation with your lover, but it’s so much more humiliating for your cuckold if you bring him along. Just think of the possibilities.
You could get a room with two beds and spend the entire vacation in your lover’s bed. You could make your cuckold listen as you have sex while he’s forbidden from masturbating or joining in any way. You could have him join in and make him suck cock, clean your pussy, etc.
You absolutely should have your cuckold serve the both of you. Make him bring your bags to your room. Make him cover all the bills. Make him rub sunscreen on the both of you. It’s vacation, and anything goes. Feel free to treat him like little more than a servant. The humiliation of it will thrill him.
Seduce Your Husband’s Boss
There’s some obvious danger with this one that you should consider, especially in modern workplaces. You don’t want to get your husband fired, after all. Still, it can be wonderfully humiliating for him if you seduce his boss, and there are multiple ways to do it.
You could seduce his boss without sharing the knowledge that you’re a hotwife and your husband is a cuckold. You could make him think that he’s fucking a cheating wife. You could tell him that he’s incredible, that he’s so much better than your husband. Then you share it all with your cuckold and he spends the rest of his work days knowing that his boss is well aware of his sexual shortcomings.
You could also seduce his boss and share the reality of your marriage with him. You could tell him that your cuckold husband’s small cock doesn’t satisfy you, that you want a powerful, strong, sexy man to fuck you. You could fuck your husband’s boss over and over and tell him that he doesn’t need to be shy about reminding your cuckold that he’s been fucking his wife.
Recreate Your Wedding Night, Only with Your Lover Fucking You
Chances are good that you and your husband got into cuckolding long after you were married. Chances are also good that he’s had a fantasy about a cuckold wedding night at some point in his life. Why not make that fantasy a reality as a chance to humiliate him?
If possible, rent a room at the hotel where you spent your wedding night. If it still fits, put on your wedding dress and the lingerie you wore. Re-enact the part where you and your husband entered the hotel room (perhaps he carried you across the threshold). From that point forward, change everything.
Have your lover waiting in the room. Put your cuckold in his place immediately. Inform him that the first person to fuck your married pussy is going to be your lover because your husband’s cock is too small to satisfy you (or any reason you prefer).
From there you can use your imagination. You could make your cuckold sleep on the floor while your lover sleeps in the bed with you. You could make him orally service both of you. You could fuck him with a strapon. The possibilities are endless and they’re all humiliating for your cuckold.
Have Your Cuckold Fuck a Blow Up Doll
This is most effective if your cuckold is particularly desperate for an orgasm, so try for multiple weeks of denial before you introduce the blow up doll. He still won’t want to do it, of course, but if you tell him it’s the only way he’s allowed to orgasm, he’ll embrace his humiliation and slide his disappointing little cock into the rubber pussy of the blow up doll.
To enhance everyone’s pleasure, don’t tell your cuckold he’ll be fucking a blow up doll that evening. Just tell him that he’s going to have the pleasure of an orgasm. Get him all worked up with touching and kissing. Get him to that place of lusty madness – much easier if he hasn’t cum in a long time – and then bring the blow up doll out of the closet, lay it in the bed, and instruct your cuckold to fuck it. As always, the delivery matters, so here are a few examples of what you might say to make his humiliation a little deeper, and a little more exciting:
“That’s the only pussy you’re getting for a long time, cuckold, so you can fuck that rubber slut or you can fuck no one.”
“You’re certainly not fucking me anytime soon, so I’d take what you can get, cuck.”
“That’s right, cucky. A blow up doll is the only kind of woman that will ever have any interest in having your cock inside her.”
You don’t have to have your bull watch, but the experience will be more humiliating for your cuckold if he does. If you want to make it extra humiliating, you and your bull could fuck on one side of the bed while your cuckold fucks the blow up doll on the other side. As he gets closer to his orgasm, pay closer attention to him. Laugh at how pathetic he looks as he’s about to cum inside a blow up doll and I guarantee you’ll deepen the pleasure of his orgasm.
Extreme Cuckold Humiliation Ideas
Have Him Fluff Your Lover
Want to push your cuckold’s boundaries? Have him suck your lover’s cock to get him nice and hard for your pussy. Have your lover stand and order your cuckold to fall to his knees in front of the superior man. Order him to suck cock, to get that big beautiful dick hard for you.
You can deepen his humiliation with verbal encouragement/taunting:
“You’re such a good cocksucker, cuckold.”
“Do you like being a cocksucker?”
“What a nasty cock slut you are.”
If your lover is comfortable with it, having him join the verbal play can be deeply humiliating for your cuckold. Hearing another man call him a good cocksucker or a slut will put him in his place as a cuckold.
Have Him Suck Your Lover’s Balls
There are a couple of fun ways to do this. While you’re going down on your lover, invite your husband to join you and have him suck on those big balls. It might be a little difficult to find enough room for the both of you, but it’s worth it. If you can’t both fit in there, pull your mouth off and have your cuck suck his nuts for a bit.
To increase the humiliation, have him suck your lover’s balls while you’re getting fucked. This is easiest if your lover is sitting in a chair or on the couch and you’re on top. Have him slide his ass forward until his balls are right at the edge and then invite your cuckold to get in there and take those nuts into his mouth.
Have Him Rim Your Lover’s Ass
Your lover needs to be extra clean back there (he should shower right before sex, to be honest) but it’s deliciously humiliating to make your cuckold rim his asshole while you’re getting fucked. This is easiest to accomplish during doggystyle with your lover standing while you’re in the bed.
Have your cuckold get on his knees behind your lover. He should have a beautiful view of your pussy being filled. Let him watch for a little while, and then order your cuckold to eat out your lover’s asshole. As an added benefit, your lover will get to enjoy a rimjob while he’s inside you.
Strapon Fuck Your Husband
Strapon sex (sometimes referred to as pegging) isn’t necessarily humiliating. Lots of couples indulge in pegging without any element of humiliation. That’s why I’m calling this a strapon fucking. Let’s think of this as something a little different. You’re savaging his asshole. You’re making him your bitch. You’re taking away a little part of his manhood as you pound him with your strapon cock.
Extra humiliation: Either buy a dildo that’s a close facsimile to your lover’s or buy a make-your-own-dildo kit and make an exact copy of his cock and then fuck your cuckold with it. While you’re doing so, rain verbal humiliation down on him. “Do you like his cock in your ass, cuckold?” Getting fucked by your lover’s dick while you’re wielding it should be sufficiently humiliating for any cuckold.
Make Him Clean a Creampie
Once you’ve started having unprotected sex with your lover, it’s worth making your husband clean up another man’s cum. Presumably he’s cumming inside you – why deny yourself that pleasure? – and that alone can be wonderfully humiliating for your cuckold. Take it to the next level and make him clean that creampie.
After your lover has cum inside you, invite your cuckold between your legs. Let him admire another man’s cum as it leaks out of you, and then order him to clean it up. “Clean me, cuckold. Clean his cum out of me.” Verbal play can significantly increase the humiliation and pleasure your cuck feels. “This is your place, cuckold. Eating another man’s cum out of your wife’s pussy is your place. Now be a good boy and clean me.”
Make a Girlfriend Babysit Your Cuckold as You Fuck Your Lover
This is a delightful form of humiliation that requires you having a friend that’s totally on board. You invite that friend over to babysit your husband while you’re out fucking your lover. It works best if you have a reason. The simplest is that you don’t trust him not to masturbate and your friend is there to ensure he’s a good boy all night long.
If you want to deepen the humiliation, tell your friend to engage with your cuckold. “How does it feel to know that your wife is getting fucked by a bigger, better cock right now, cuckold?” is an effective question that will put him into a place of deep cuckold humiliation, especially if he’s forced to answer. Have your friend make it clear you’ve told her all about how good your lover is in bed and how much better he is than your cuckold husband.
Have Your Cuckold Take a Facial from Your Lover
You’ll have to consult with your lover beforehand, but if he’s willing to give your husband a facial it will be deliciously humiliating. As long as you know your cuckold will go along with almost anything, it’s best to keep it a surprise. Play along as if you’re going to stick to the normal routine (whatever that might be), and then as your lover is getting close to his climax, order your husband to his knees.
It should be as simple as saying, “He’s going to cum on your face.” If he’s a good hubby, he’ll wait to be covered in another man’s spunk. He’ll be anxious, aroused, excited, and humiliated before anything happens. When thick ropes of cum are sprayed across his face, he’ll unquestionably feel the humiliation. If you’re feeling naughty, call him a cum slut or tell him he looks good with another man’s cum on his face.
Make Hubby Drink Your Lover’s Cum from a Glass
Whenever your husband consumes your lover’s cum it’s humiliating, but there are so many delicious ways to do it that it’s worth trying them all. In this case, you’ll pour your lover’s cum out of a condom and into a drink and make your husband drink it while you both watch.
After your lover has cum, have your cuckold prepare the drink. A clear liquid works best – Vodka or Gin would be perfect – as he’ll be able to see the semen in the glass before he drinks it. Hand your husband the condom and watch as he pours it into the drink. Then encourage him to drink it down. “Does his cum taste good, cucky?” is a nice way to humiliate him as he’s consuming another man’s seed.
Make Your Cuckold Clean Your Lover’s Cum of Your Engagement Ring
As your lover is about to cum, have him pull out and shoot his cum on your wedding band and engagement ring. Hold your hand on your stomach so he won’t make a massive mess with his cumshot. Once he’s finished, have your cuckold come right over and clean up the cum.
The act of licking another man’s semen off the ring he gave you to propose marriage is a beautiful form of humiliation. It will linger long after he’s done it and you can bring it up over and over again.
Find a Bisexual Guy to Fuck Your Husband
For a straight man, the act of being anally penetrated by another guy is deeply humiliating. That’s why you’re going to convince your cuckold to bend over for another man and take it up the ass.
This isn’t something you want to force him into. You need to convince him that he wants it, or at least convince him to submit to it for your pleasure. That should be easy enough to do, honestly. Most straight husbands will freak out at the notion that getting fucked makes them gay, but if he’s doing it for you, it has no impact on his sexuality.
Orgasm denial with lots of teasing is the best way to warm him up to the idea. While you’re slowly stroking his cock, tell him the idea of watching him get fucked turns you on. Tell him how badly you want him to take another man’s dick in his ass. Tell him how badly you want him to submit to cock for you.
This works best if you really are turned on by it. It can be that bisexual play turns you on, that your husband’s submission turns you on, or that you genuinely enjoy humiliating him. When he finally gets fucked, you should be involved. Play with his cock as he’s taking it anally, or let him lick your pussy and give you pleasure. It all works.
Make Your Cuckold Clean an Anal Creampie
You need to be extra clean before you do this, but once you are there’s little risk of harm coming to your cuckold when he eats another man’s cum out of your asshole. It’s that extra bit of filthiness that introduces a higher level of humiliation to this behavior.
This works even better if your lover is the only one permitted to have anal sex with you. Have your cuckold watch and remind him of that fact while you’re being taken anally. Then, urge your lover to cum inside you so your cucky can clean it up (also, play with your clit while you’re having anal sex as it will make it even better).
Have your cuckold approach you from behind while you’re on your hands and knees. There likely won’t be much cum to clean up at that point, but there should be plenty of left over moisture from the sex. Have him lick it up. If the creampie is leaking out, have him clean that too. Chances are good you’ll have to sit on his face to effectively lick your lover’s cum from your asshole. That’s even better.
Strapon Fuck Your Cuckold as He Blows Your Lover
Have your cuckold get on his hands and knees and take your lover’s cock into his mouth. Tell him, “That’s it baby, suck his cock. Be a good little cocksucker for me,” while you lube his asshole to be penetrated by your strapon.
Gently push inside him as he continues to suck cock. Make sure you’re using a dildo that will fit inside him with ease. Once you’re inside your cuckold, find a rhythm with your lover and spit roast him properly. You fuck his ass and your lover fucks his mouth.
Want to up the ante? Treat him to verbal humiliation. “You’re such a slut, taking cock from both ends,” is a good place to start. You can have your lover get it on the action too, asking your cuckold if his cock tastes good, etc.
Have a Friend Strapon Fuck Him
We’ve talked about how taking a strapon ass fucking can humiliate your cuckold husband, but you can go deeper. Invite a friend over to do it. Humiliate him in front of another woman, and one that’s anally pounding him.
This should include lots of verbal play, so make sure your friend understands how you want to do it. You should have a sense of how much your husband can take and how harsh you want to be with him.
Because your friend will be fucking him (doggystyle, preferably) you can be more intimate with your husband. Look him in the eyes. Kiss him. Ask him, “Does her cock feel good in your ass, cuckold?” Make him answer. Tell her to spank his ass while she’s fucking him. If she’s comfortable with it, have her get verbal too. She could say things like, “Take my cock, cuck. Take my dick up your ass you little slut.” It will all be intensely humiliating.
Have Your Cuckold Wear Your Cum Filled Panties
This one works best if you’re having unprotected sex with your lover. Whether your cuckold is watching or not, enjoy the incredible sex you typically have with your lover. After he cums inside you, quickly put on your panties. It’s best to choose a pair that will do a fairly good job of holding the cum in them as it leaks out of you. If it can also be a pair that your cuckold would find extra humiliating to wear, even better (maybe pink satin with frilly bows).
Wait long enough for most of your lover’s cum to leak out of your pussy and into your panties. Once it has, pull the panties off and hand them to your cuckold. Make him wear them.
The humiliation of wearing your panties will be significantly increased by having to do so while they’re full of your lover’s cum. Make him spend hours with another man’s semen soaking into his balls and resting against his small cock.
As always, a little verbal humiliation can go a long way here:
“How does it feel to have a superior man’s cum in your panties, cuck?”
“Do you like the way his warm cum feels against your worthless cock, honey?”
If you’re feeling extra naughty, make your cuckold reach into your panties and play with his cock like it’s a clit. Make him use your lover’s cum as lube as he rubs the head of his dick. Make him stop before he cums.
Make Your Cuckold Completely Satisfy Your Lover
We’re in full bisexual territory here, because you’re going to make your cuckold do all the work of making your lover cum. He’s going to suck cock and he’s going to get fucked. He’s going to be you for an evening. Emphasize that point, too. He’s taking your place in pleasuring your lover. He’s doing it because you can’t.
If you want, you can tell him that you’re on your period and you just don’t want to have sex. You can also just make him do it. Even hearing you demand that he satisfy your bull will be humiliating. Having to actually do it will deepen that feeling.
Help him out by coaching him through it. Tell him how good he looks with your lover’s cock in his mouth. Tell him that he’s being such a good boy by submitting to your desires and giving a gorgeous blowjob. Play with his asshole as he’s giving head and tell him that soon he’s going to get fucked by a real man.
Have your cuckold husband get on his hands and knees. Make him beg for your lover’s cock. Tell him you want to see him get fucked. Tell him you want him to fall in love with your lover’s big dick just like you have.
Have your lover fuck your cuckold until he cums. For an extra dose of humiliation, have your lover wear a condom, and when he’s done peel it off and feed the load to your cuckold. Then, make him thank your lover for fucking him.
Send Your Cuckold to Your Lover’s House to Suck Him Off
Take your cuckold’s cocksucking to the next level by sending him to your lover’s house to suck him off without your supervision or encouragement. This works even better if you’re doing it because you’re out of town.
The next time you go on a business trip, confer with your lover beforehand and arrange for him to welcome your cuckold to his home. Then inform your cuckold that he needs to step in for you and see to your lover’s sexual needs by sucking him off in your stead.
This is a wonderful form of bisexual cuckold humiliation. It may take a little convincing, but you’ll get him there eventually. Make sure you emphasize that your cuckold is doing it for you. Let him know that it would make you exceptionally happy if he were to suck your lover’s cock and swallow his load when you’re not able to. If he does it once, you can make him do it again and again.
Feed Him a Load of Your Lover’s Cum from a Condom
Consuming another man’s cum is wonderfully humiliating for a cuckold. It works on a deep, primal level and is a great way of putting him in his place.
You can deepen his humiliation by coming up with a variety of ways to get him to consume your lover’s cum. A simple, exceptionally hot way of doing it is to have your lover cum in a condom and then feed your cuckold that cum.
You can make it more humiliating by making a little production out of it. Dip the tip of the condom in his mouth. Make him suck your juices off of it. Make him beg for the pleasure of eating your lover’s cum.
Then, put the open end in his mouth and lift the cum-filled tip. Make sure the cum slides down the condom slowly. You want your cuckold to have to live with the anticipation for a little while. Finally, make him hold the cum in his mouth before he swallows. Make him show it to you. Then give him the instruction to consume your lover’s load.
Make Your Cuckold Consume Your Lover’s Cum in Public
You will need to be subtle about this, but it can be deeply humiliating to make your cuckold consume your lover’s cum in public. He’ll be torn between a deep desire to submit to your naughty request and a desire to hide the fact that he’s a cum eating cuckold. It will be so sexy.
The easiest way to do it is to mix your lover’s cum into a drink. Bars and lounges are usually dark so you’ll likely be able to pour it from a condom and into the drink without anyone noticing. Then your cuckold is free to enjoy delicious sips of a cum-flavored drink as you all hang out together. Plus, you can offer a little extra humiliation via the manner in which you extract the cum. Make him watch you fuck your lover in the car to collect the cum. Slip into the bathroom as he waits at the bar, knowing full well that his wife is fucking another man.
If you’re in the mood to be a little bolder, you could have your lover cum inside you, let it leak out into your panties, and then make your cuckold lick them clean in public. It’s best not to do something that could get you arrested, but feel free to be as imaginative as you want with this one.
Have Your Cuckold Give You Both Post-Workout Rimjobs
Your cuckold almost certainly loves licking asshole. It’s a little humiliating on its own and it makes him feel delightfully submissive. If you want to humiliate him a little more, amp things up by making your cuckold give you and your lover a rimjob right after you finish a workout.
The idea is that your asses will be sweaty and perhaps a little ripe. Make your cuckold clean up all that sweat, and make sure you emphasize that’s why he’s doing it. He’s using his tongue to clean you both up. Eating a sweaty, salty, potentially smelly ass is humiliating, but the fact that you’re just using him is humiliating too.
You can deepen that portion of the humiliation by engaging in a casual conversation with your lover as your cuckold cleans both your asses with his tongue. You can act like he’s not even there. You can also try and make it lusty if you want. If you happen to be aroused by receiving a rimjob, then let your cuckold get you both going and fuck after he’s done.
Aftercare
Aftercare is of the utmost importance to any relationship delving into kinky, BDSM-related play. The same is true of your cuckold relationship. While your husband might find humiliation exceptionally arousing, it can also be emotionally damaging. Aftercare is meant to soothe any emotional pain he might have suffered and return your relationship to a normal state.
This article does a great job of detailing aftercare in BDSM relationships. Cuckold humiliation, as detailed in my article, doesn’t always fall into a “scene.” After all, if you’re making an offhanded comment about your husband’s small cock while you’re at dinner or mentioning how much you’d like to sleep with a guy you just flirted with, you’re not doing so within the confines of scene, at least in the traditional sense.
That means you have to engage in aftercare a little differently, but most of the time it will be pretty simple. Tell your husband you love him. Show him physical affection. Compliment the things he does well. Ultimately, the humiliation damages his ego (while turning him on like nothing else). You need to counterbalance that in other areas. If you’re not prepared to do so, you shouldn’t engage in cuckold humiliation play.
She looks so fucking stupid. Imagine getting aroused and wet off this. Worshipping someone and getting abused by their feet. New lows every single day.
(Modified from a very well thought out post by @m4mdiscipline. Most of the credit is his. My modifications were to remove whatever i disagreed with, add in some thoughts of my own, improve formatting and readability, and correct mistakes)
1. Get into his head
Learn his fantasies and what turns him on. Use this information to your advantage.
Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.
Make him show his loyalty to you regularly. Reward him when he does, even if it’s just with praise.
Aside from family, close friends, and work, give him minimal privacy. Don’t hide this process from him. Make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”
2. Punish him for infractions, no exceptions!
Don’t let him get away with anything! When you let your sub get away with something, you are telling him that you don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.
You can spank, paddle, or whip him.
Humiliate him past what is easy for him.
Corner meditation time
Food restrictions
Write a short essay explaining why his behavior was wrong, or a report on some reading you assigned.
Ground him/take away privileges.
Make him do something he hates.
Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.
Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending your control over him as a punishment. That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.
3. Routinely discipline him. This is different than punishment.
Spank him at least once a week, just because you can. Not too hard, not too soft. For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.
Humiliate him often.
Five to ten minutes of corner time can do wonders, to promote meditation.
Routine discipline will save you time and energy in the long run. You will have to punish him less as a result.
Taking care of you is an essential of his discipline. Have him do your laundry, cleaning, etc.
4. On some level, even if it’s small, keep your sub horny for you.
Talk sexy to him.
Sexualize nonsexual things or activities you are interested in. He will see whatever it is you’ve sexualized as such and be more interested and eager to engage.
Have your sub do some or all of your body grooming. This can be your bath, shower, nails, shaving, trimming, etc.
Tell him when and what you’re going to do to him in the near future.
Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
Make him give you orgasms. This is different from sex. This is a service.
Let him rest on you to smell you as you watch TV or read.
Give him underwear/items of yours to smell as he sleeps.
5. Control your own feelings of guilt.
When it comes to your control over your sub, be firm!
Some toughness will be needed from time to time to help break your sub down.
Your sub may not want everything you give him or do to him, but he needs it.
Letting your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because you feel guilty adequately addressing it is weak.
Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them. Sometimes real men need to show the fag that he is inferior. This can’t always be done by talking. And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.
Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs. You are filling his needs.
Remember, you both need to be happy. But happiness comes from different places for different people. Where there is good communication, and your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then you are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.
A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop you from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does, be there for him.
6. Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.
Have him wear a butt-plug, perhaps Wi-Fi enabled, or with a hollow rattling core, or with a dangling bell.
Have him be naked or nearly so, around you and or your friends.
Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.
If he has trouble keeping his hands off his penis without permission, make him wear a chastity device.
Teach him commands or hand signals such as “drop to your knees,” “kiss my crotch,” etc. In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.
Make him masturbate for you.
Slap him in the face.
Spit on him.
Treat him as an inferior in public, such as by carrying bags, opening doors, etc.
Make him eat his own cum sometimes.
Talk down to him in front of others.
7. Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please you. Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.
If you want to change his body to your liking, do so. Control his workouts, diet etc. Make sure to be realistic with this one.
Make sure he is available during some of your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve you during those times.
Put him on a sleeping schedule. Lots of fags are unable to adequately manage their sleep times. The better rested he is, the better he will serve you.
Go through his closet or dresser and set aside any clothing you don’t like him to be wearing.
Sign him up to learn new tasks or perfect tasks/skills that will help you, such as massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.
Change his grooming habits to your liking.
8. Help your sub be grateful for everything he has. Make sure you are at the top of that list. One great way to do this is to deny him things. Yep, it’s time to say “No.” Subs need boundaries and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.
You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.
Make him show his gratitude to you often. Faggots will show this to you in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to you.
Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain, take it from him.
You can take things/items from him that you know he does not need but likes. A caution here: Make sure he can afford for you to take them, and that they are not of sentimental value. Let him know from time to time that you enjoy something that you took from him.
Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what you make him do.
9. None of these actions will work without real trust.
If your sub is your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes you and your power.
If your sub is not your partner, make sure you are real friends. Let him know you appreciate how his inferiority completes you. The more you two know about and do with each other, the more thoroughly you can control him.
Part of trust on the sub’s part is knowing you will follow through when you say you are going to do something to him or for him or are going to make him do something. Follow through always.
When a sub fully trusts you, he can submit to you his mind and privacy. Letting you go in and rearrange/manage his life.
Subs need constant reassurance. Let him know that no matter what, he is yours. If a serious sub feels disposable, he will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.
If your life is getting too hard for a bit or you need help with something, trust that your sub will be able to take over for you and act in your best interest until you are back in shape. Giving a sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that you are not actively controlling him 100% of the time. If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for you, he is not a right match for you.
Talk to your sub often. Ask him how he is feeling. Let him honestly know how you are feeling on anything and everything.
By taking things away from him, you are in a sense rewarding him when you give them back. Also, nothing he has is his forever. You need to retake things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right. Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog. Your sub needs to be docile enough that you can take his food away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and will patiently wait until the food is returned.
Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with friends or family. Make him realize that the only reason you allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member. Make sure he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness he brings them. Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones while under your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed - and encouraged - to keep and even strengthen the bonds he has with them.
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