[gahdamnpunk]

Louder for the people in the back 🗣🗣

[hustlerose]

freud: EVERY dude wants to fuck his mom and and EVERY girl wants to fuck her dad and also wants to be a man secretly 

men: WOW!!!!!!!!!

[powerfulwizard]

“In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood incest victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest. Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology. According to this theory any young girl actually desires sexual contact with her father, because she wants to compete with her mother to be the most special person in his life. Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of incestuous abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for when they were children and that the women had come to believe were real. This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.”

— Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

[lesbianchemicalplant]

Why Does He Do That? [EPUB] and [PDF]

[delphinidin4]

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YOU KIDDING ME

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

Very true.

[astrobro]

The cool thing about not being straight is that I can pick and choose what aspect of (modern, western) masculinity to encorporate into my life and identity, while also being able to make fun of and reject the toxic ones. That gives so much flexibility for character growth and interpersonal relationships like…imagine being given a gender role and sticking to it your whole life? I have to laugh!

[astrobro]

Are tops that don’t eat ass valid?

[1994gay]

[gahdamnpunk]

Not surprised the guy who writes the same book over and over is not a fan of diversity 🙄

[alexander]

Some grindr bitch: Masc, white, fit guys only

Me: mAySc, wyHiTe, FeiT gIyS OnLY

[catchymemes]

[gaynehollander]

someone: hey, how are you

me [shrouded in my sense of self-entitled drama]:

[ingridbergman-deactivated202001]

Michelle Gomez as Mary Wardwell in Chilling Adventures of Sabrina (2018-)

[qzkills]

HOW FAR

[pokeholics]

[soulofthebloodofthewolf-deactiv]

honestly missionaries are evil. the idea of traveling the world to tell people Who Didnt Fucking Ask that their beliefs are wrong in the hopes that theyll adopt your beliefs seems sinister

[swanqueenisendgameyo]

An Inuit hunter asked the local missionary priest: “If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?” “No,” said the priest, “not if you did not know.” “Then why,” asked the Inuit earnestly, “did you tell me?” ~Annie Dillard, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek

[lovelysuggestion]

each time I tell you those three words I mean them more and more

[starlightandtears]

Black Lives Matter

[running-batty]

It’s that time of year to say no to the Salvation Army.

Never forget they let a Trans woman die instead of helping her.

Never forget they have tossed entire families on the street for having an LGBT child.

Never forget they tell non Christian families that unless they convert they will not help them.

Never forget that the Salvation Army is bigoted and hateful, many of the bell ringers routinely heckle and harass LGBT couples.

[ftwobr2000]

Annual reblog.

[cosmomage]

In case you’re worried about being rude by ignoring the bell ringers. 

[dottiep]

[magiccbean-deactivated20201121]

Mood