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đș whisper
đș she/he
đș intersex trisfemmasc
đș 18+ topics clearly marked, if i miss one lmk
đș radq, exclus, tma/tme users not welcome
đș pro doing whatever the hell as long as youre not hurting anyone
đș queer liberation can't exist without intersex liberation
âYou only call yourself this identity for brownie points/to get away with bad behaviorâ has now been thawed out from the transmed freezer. Now in various intersexist flavours.
"At least trans men can get pregnant if they want to!"
Okay, but you know that the majority of us don't want to have that ability in the first place, right?
You know that for most of us, being pregnant would be a dysphoric hell brought to life, right?
You know that we have to partially detransition the entire time we're pregnant, right?
You know that transmisics use that fact against us and get us pregnant against our will to forcibly detransition us, right?
It's like telling a trans woman "Oh, at least you don't ever have to worry about pregnancy scares for yourself!"
Like sure, a few are grateful for it. But that's not the majority, and the reminder in and of itself can be incredibly dysphoric.
Ever notice how you don't hear "at least trans women can impregnate if they wanted to"?
This comment in response to me asking what the post she commented on even had to do with "TME"s:
Literal TERF rhetoric and on top of that, denying my transfemininity and weaponizing my nonbinary identity against me.
this is exorsexism
when i say trfs have fox news grandpa levels of obsession with hating trans men i mean it.
Same people who harass intersex transfems for literally NO REASON.
Going to close anon asks out of caution, requests are officially closed otherwise and any more sent from today will be deleted for the foreseeable future. Venting under the cut, check top of pinned for context. General TW for like child abuse and shit.
Wow. Lucky me to hear about. A callout document in the works? Really? You fucking pathetic pieces of selfish human garbage who couldn't give less of a fuck about a child being actively abused because "but [X] is a nice person!!!". Someone words something poorly, and I responded to a bait ask with, again, poor wording and not fully understanding shit, some of which that I've publicly taken back and truly am sorry about that. But nooooo Neither of us can apologize and fucking move on with our lives until you get your power trip? These are the "predators" you decide to hunt instead, oh I dunno, being concerned about the FUCKING GOREPOSTERS CURRENTLY IN QUEER TAGS FULL OF MINORS? Feed the fucking homeless instead of putting your energy towards this shit that helps nobody except stroking your own egos.
I hope everyone who's been involved with the witchhunting gets exactly what they deserve. As a trafficking survivor you're fucking disgusting and I hate "predator hunters" with my whole heart. You aren't hunting shit. You're vindictive assholes who get victims like me fucking killed because you're desperate to be seen as the "glorious saviors of children" you AREN'T. But I suppose that's what *some* of you ghouls want, judging by the suicide baits hitting my askbox. I am so goddamn tired of this webshite sometimes. Reading comprehension classes NOWâŒïžâŒïž
No, Patrick, circumcision is not the same thing as intersex genital mutilation. You are spewing thinly-veiled blood libel.
ONE!!!! pretzel
and still, she resists the pretzel's call...
If this person wasnât so disgustingly exorsexist and a blatant transmedicalist Iâd feel bad for them for clearly hating themselves so much. Itâs sad when people feel the need to project their own dysphoria onto others like this and shame them for having differing experiences but also never an excuse for regurgitating 2014 transtrender discourse and villainizing an entire demographic of marginalized people. Itâs very âanti-pride homosexualâ and theyâre so close to realizing thatâs what they are in that reblog but then goes âno, clearly itâs every other trans man on the planetâs faultâ like damn. Thatâs just sad but also not something youâre entitled to put on anyone else. Work on that with a therapist and stop posting on tumblr itâs 2026.
I find the way that some white queers think about others and interact with others- even unknowingly- quite frankly disturbing. No matter who you are, being aware you have privilege in some way (because you probably do!) or just being aware of how others and yourself go about the world similarly/differently is IMPORTANT.
I see this most often in discussions about transandrophobia, where someone will bring up how trans MOC are, in fact, in more danger than a white trans man in comparison. They seem to feel attacked and lash out instead of supporting or deconstructing why they feel that way.
Another way this seems to manifest is when white queers claim that Black culture was made from the LGBTQIA+ community. And while the Black and Queer communities have historically intertwined, this claim of saying that the Black community wasn't the origin of many parts of culture is pure erasure that they don't seem to understand. (Example: Clock it, Queen, most of AAVE actually)
It also comes in people assuming that their lived experience is equivalent to everyone's. The odd victim complex they have in where if something doesn't affect them it doesn't exist is.. worrying, to say the least.
Note: I did not say all white queers. I said SOME. I repeat, I said SOME. So don't drag me into anything. Also, feel free to add with any other points or experiences.
Uh oh! You ran a minority off their blog/the internet! Let's look into what this says about you!
Okay but they did something really *really* bad!! -> what as it?
They were being (insert bigotry here)!! -> 1. were they actually? re-read once or twice then check back here 2. did you ask them to clarify anything or describe their viewpoints in greater detail? 3. did you give them a chance to learn why what they said could be bigoted and harmful? if so, did they seem receptive to the idea? 4. did you think to either dm them or just simply block them before making a public post about how supposedly bigoted and harmful they are?
If the answer to any of these is "no", then congrats! You're the problem!
They were fetishizing/glorifying/promoting non-consent!! (rape, pedophilia, zoophilia, incest, etc.) -> 1. were they actually? re-read once or twice then check back here. 2. did you ask them to clarify anything or describe their viewpoints in greater detail? 3. Were they promoting actual, tangible harm or something that would definitively and unavoidably lead to harm or in-person action? Or was it a fictional scenario as a means to cope with trauma rather than fetishize or promote non-consent and harm? 4. Did you ask them to take the post down, edit it, or otherwise mitigate any harm it could be promoting or glorifying prior to making a public outcry about how supposedly sexually deviant and dangerous this person is?
If the answer to any of these is "no", then congrats! You're the problem!
They were supporting (known internet bad-take person)!! -> 1. were they actually? re-read once or twice then check back here. 2. Did you let them know that the person whom they supported has reactionary, bigoted, or otherwise harmful takes? 3. Were they supporting the bad takes that this person promotes or did they like/reblog/reference/etc. a post by that person which was unrelated to the harm that they perpetuate? 4. Has this person **personally** stated that they are in support of this harmful person and the harmful things they have done?
If the answer to any of these is "no", then congrats! You're the problem!
They posted untagged/uncensored nsfw/kink content!! -> 1. Did they actually? Check the tags and your censoring settings and be very sure. 2. Did you ask them to tag it/tag it properly? Did you censor the tag if they used something general like "18+", "nsfw/nsft", or any personal nsfw tag on their account? 3. If they refuse to tag kink content for reasons such as terfs targetting those tags or tumblr staff purging accounts who post that sort of thing with those tags, did you check to see that their account says somewhere that it is 18+, an nsft account, that they post nsft, or that it is an mdni account? If so, did you consider literally just blocking the account instead of making it a public issue?
If the answer to any of these is "no", then congrats! You're the bigot!
They (any other bad thing that you for some reason think warrants a whole callout post and campaign to remove them from tumblr/that blog)!! -> 1. did they actually? re-read the post and check here again. 2. Were they causing any tangible harm with it or did you just dislike it? 3. Have you considered just blocking and moving on like any other regular person would??? Especially regarding a group which is already so demonized and treated as subhuman by so many people???
If the answer to any of these is "no", then congrats! You're the problem!
Please learn to communicate with people and understand their intentions!!! Ask questions, ask for clarification, re-read, privately warn others, ask for help regarding the situation, and try to be patient, kind, and respectful!! You don't need to turn everything into a callout post!!
Humans can say things that are upsetting, distressing, confusing, enraging, etc. But most of the time, people don't mean to do this!! Especially neurodivergent people who struggle with comprehension and articulation!! Be gracious and try not to assume the worst of everyone!!
I have made mistakes. I have fucked up a *lot* throughout my life. If I could undo the damage I have caused to every single person that I have hurt, believe me, I would. I would sit down and talk to try and understand what I did wrong, how I hurt them, and how I can do better in the future, especially if they didn't hurt me first. I am a transfem who genuinely struggles heavily with reading comprehension and verbal articulation!! I am partially selectively mute irl from autism and also struggle to make and maintain friendships, so I have a hard time socializing and don't always understand what always is and isn't appropriate to say. Not to excuse any bigotry I spout or perpetuate, but I grew up in a sheltered and very religious conservative community, so had very little knowledge of diversity stuff, especially regarding religious and racial/ethnic minorities! I am always trying to improve as a person and expand my knowledge of these things and be better in a community and with diversity. I appreciate people being patient and asking questions, because I tend to get very defensive and stubborn as likely something associated with neurodivergence when people come out angry, violent, accusatory, etc. and I don't reply in the best or most effective ways.
Do I think the people who decided to harass me for weeks on end deserve my kindness? Fuck no. Would I be open to patient, constructive conversations of what I did wrong and how I can improve without being constantly attacked, judged, or infantilized? Absolutely!
I always wanna be a better and more understanding person, but when people immediately jump to assuming the worst about me and the people I associate with, I tend to shut down.
The next time you see a person who is part of a minority group doing something you dislike, either ask for clarification on the take or just block and move on!! Do not make a struggling person's life harder than it needs to be!!
Intersex features are used to call us predatory, weak, violent, ugly, broken, sexually broken or perverse. Pedojacketing is done constantly on intersex people in media portrayals and associating predators with micropenises or variations of puberty
Fucking. Think. Before. You. Post. Your post about some of the biggest pedophiles in the world having âtiny dicksâ or calling intersex people fucked up in the head for having kinks is violently intersexist.
People need to understand that the "99% of rapists are males" is bc most places do not see someone with penis being forced to penetrate as rape. Countless countries define rape as a penis entering vagina, a penis penetrating, or a man[...].
I'm not going to go onto a whole rant citing numerous studies that are over a decade old that have obviously shown us for a while that men's sexual victimization and exploitation experiences are more common than society tries to lead us to believe. I just wanted to share this.
Researchers have gathered data "suggesting that not measuring this type of victimization may dramatically underestimate the extent of menâs sexual victimization"
The "data also suggest[s] womenâs perpetration of forced penetration is fairly common and in need of specific preventative efforts"
From: The Assessment of Forced Penetration: A Necessary and Further Step Toward Understanding Menâs Sexual Victimization and Womenâs Perpetration (link)
TRFs: You guys always assume intersex people are AFAB
Also TRFs: What a bunch of freak theyfabs who think they can tell me not to call myself a f*ta herm baeddel
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