im just a kid and my life is a nightmare

dylan | 30 🔞 | they/he | 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💞🇯🇵🇺🇸 queerscreaming on ao3 | AFTG blog: bipolykevintruther 🦊 🥍 🌼

[mi11ieh]

Drew Ronan to get out of a slump

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[theconcealedweapon]

[fillher-url]

the crazy thing about this place called “grocery store” is that you always need to go there. especially if you like, just went.

[beardedmrbean]

[blogofex]

These guys would be the biggest hit at any Renaissance fair they went to.

[therobotmonster]

An envoy from a kingdom in the far East comes to your hamlet and of course you give them a warm welcome!

Do you have any idea what access to the spice road would do for the tiny Dukedom of Fairground By the Budget Hilton?

[bignugget34]

saw this meme and thought of chainsaw

[halondrus]

[cutecipher]

can you put that thing on a leash?

[halondrus]

ok

[wulleooo]

happy birthday perona

[currysideplate]

Just making use of my free will

Inspo🖼:The Meeting on the Turret Stairs

[theconcealedweapon]

[bipolykevintruther]

This is exactly how I picture Neil when he’s described “wearing his father’s smile”

[bees-reads]

I’m obsessed with the idea of Shane figuring out he can use his big beautiful doe eyes to get anything he wants.

He just widens his eyes, makes them a bit glassy and Ilya folds like a damn chair.

After a while Ilya figures out what he’s doing and screws his eyes shut to avoid looking at Shane.

Ilya: no Shane no I know what you’re doing, put your eyes away. You will not use your wicked spells on me today

Shane: Ilya will you just look at me please

Ilya always ends up looking at Shane because he can’t resist him and Shane gets his way every single darn time.

[bipolykevintruther]

I truly believe Neil Josten is plural and every identity he’s held still exists as separate entities in his head that all interact with and influence each other. His canonical killing of Nathaniel to be Neil is proof enough but I’m positive there’s more.

[notspecialbabe]

leave me alone no 😘

[shaneposting]

anyway good morning a crucial tenet of hollanov’s relationship is that they’re equals and they’re the only people in the world who could ever be each other’s equal. they were supposed to stand alone at the top but they’re there together. shane does not view ilya as a lazy useless inconvenience. ilya does not view shane as a nagging killjoy. they are equals and they both think the other is the best thing since sliced bread and they love each other but more importantly they LIKE each other. stop making them not like each other!

[catrxdora]

do you ever think about how much of an impact she-ra is gonna have on little kids? do you know how many fat kids are gonna see spinnerella, a beautiful princess in a loving relationship and feel like they can be that too? do you know how many little girls are gonna see spinnetossa and realize they can like girls too? do you know how many black and brown kids are gonna see all these diverse characters with skin like theirs and realize how wonderful they are? do you know how many little boys are gonna see bow and realize they can be more open with their emotions and show love and kindness? do you know how many little boys are gonna see bow’s dads and realize it’s possible for them to love boys and one day when they’re grown-ups become dads together? anyways thanks she-ra for my life

[thisfeebleheart]