About me pinned post
I compared my primary blog to my living room. To continue the metaphor, I first thought to call this blog my bedroom, but that wouldn’t really catch the vibe. It’s more like a relaxed and unconstrained atmosphere where I talk about more personal things with near-strangers in a very trusting setting.
Therefore: Welcome to my ✨basement party room✨!
You can find more general things about me in my linked post.
I consider every aspect of myself queer and use labels not to define myself, but more for convenience. When I say I use any pronouns, what I mean is that pronouns are just words to me, and I don’t identify with any of them. If you need some kind of visual guidance, this is what I more or less look like:
I prefer to look androgynous, but if you gave me a form about my gender that said “male”, “female”, “both”, and “other”, I’d select all of these options. Important: Not “neither”. I’m all the gender there is and at once 😅 I have a very loving, sensitive, and, if we were to use binary boxes, “feminine” side that is all fluffy and kind of cutesy, but I also love to be a bastion of genuine calm to others. Then, of course, I’m a goofy class clown others roll their eyes at, so … good luck 😅
As my bio reads, I’m pan (pansexual and panromantic) and polyamorous. Poly is an inherent thing for me—if I were in a relationship with one person only and would never ever date or see anyone else and be totally happy with that, I still would not want that relationship to be classified as monogamous because “having the option” is important to me. I call myself pan because in the 2000s I was told “Bi means two and pan means everyone”, so I leapt at pan and, even though the definitions have shifted, I stuck with it because now I’m simply used to that label 🤷 As I said, labels are for convenience, not to define myself 🤷
Yeah, that’s more or less it. Have fun and be queer! 🏳️🌈
