The Ever-Changing Pinned Post
Old friends: You're not hallucinating! This is a new account on a different email since the old account was cursed. I'm letting everyone find me because I don't want to assume any of my old mutuals are still interested in being connected to me (a feeling that feels more and more valid as time goes on...😔).
New followers: If you add me and don't interact with a single bit of content (OC or reblogs, basically anything on here) then we're probably not going to be mutuals. I'm not a "follow for follow" type of person, I'm not chasing clout or follower count; I'm interested in vibing with genuine folks who actually seem interested in me and what I'm about. There are other tips on how to pass the vibe check but that's honestly the easiest one to pass.
I have seen too much anger and hatred in my short life, so I want to spend the rest of it striving for balance and peace. I'll never be perfect but I can *always* be better, so I'm here to learn and grow and share. "As our capacity for compassion grows, it widens the field of the sorrow which we feel as our own."
Though I’m trying to be less guarded about my personal details, there’s only so much that I’ll ever post here. If you really want to know anything about me, messaging or asking is probably the most direct way of finding that info out. It doesn't mean I have to answer lol.
At this time, I am only following accounts that follow me first. It definitely means I’ll miss out on some wonderful connections, but hopefully it means I won’t bother anyone.
I am an amab nonbinary person, but since I'm still largely masc-presenting, I assume I'll still be perceived as a man (especially since I'm only out to a few people IRL); it won't hurt my feelings, hence my inclusion of he/him along with they/them as preferred pronouns. However, I fully expect certain members of the LGBTQ+ community to view me as some sort of "male intruder" which I do take full offense to, as my nonbinary identifier is genuine.
I don’t send outbound messages because I don’t want to be a bother to anyone. However, if you want to chat, feel free to send me a message!
I'm actively polyam/ENM so now's your chance to shoot your shot in the DMs! 😉 Fair warning, though: we can be flirty but I'm only interested in local connections for serious relationships.
If you have a blank blog or your age isn't in your bio or pinned post, I'll block you. "18+" is not an age.
If you are bigoted in any way, shape, or form (including but not limited to white supremacists/N*zis/Tr*mp supporters/TERFs/radfems, etc), I'll block you.
If I get a weird vibe from you, I’ll block you.





















