May I request a male matchup? Please and thank you.
Hi, I hope I did everything right, and if this is too long let me know and I can shorten it. Also, if this is too long, you can just tag me instead if that is more convenient for you.
I’m a female INFP/ISFP/HSP (highly sensitive person), Aquarius & ambivert, but more introverted, depression & OCD. Hufflepuff & Pukwudgie. Wears mask of happiness/human chameleon personality (sometimes I feel like I’m not really sure who the real me is at times because of that). I have a melancholy temperament, clumsy, more talkative/easily excitable if interested in something/comfortable with someone & more quirky, witty, playful, eccentric, sarcastic, curious & blunt at times, can be childish at times, banters back & forth & livelier. Doesn’t believe in love at 1st sight, prefer being friends 1st. Family is important, oblivious to romance/flirting towards me. I want us to accept each other for who we are (even if he’s overprotective, and/or clingy, etc). I’d also want us to able to be honest with each other. Loyal, caring, daydreamer, a bit of an idealist, open-minded, stubborn, tries to be a good listener/offer a shoulder to lean on, & easily embarrassed. I don’t have a type of person I’d like to be with, I’ve never dated, so I can’t really say what I like and don’t like, but I prefer somebody who will be honest and straightforward with me, even if it hurts, at least I know I can trust them and trust is very important to me, once broken it takes a long time to get it back depending on how severe it was.
I had to grow up quicker mentally when younger, since I had to keep my opinions to myself since I got yelled/reprimanded by friends of the family when I did when younger & it’s stuck with me ever since, unless I feel comfortable around the person I won’t be open to sharing my opinion (even if I want to). So, I might get jealous of other people who can express themselves freely I also feel like if I express myself, some might find me annoying or are only putting up with me to be nice (I’ve had ‘friends’ who did that) so it makes me question myself. Habit of apologizing even if it’s not my fault/says “I’m fine” even if I’m not. Though I don’t admit it out loud, I actually like the feeling of being protected & having somebody to lean on (even when I tell myself otherwise at times). I also feel that a good relationship is one where both people involved can bring out the best in each other, be there for each other and trust in each other. Even though I haven’t been in a relationship yet, I know that those are things I want in a relationship.. I’m not a morning person, and if I’m still really tired when I wake up (or am forced to wake up), I can be kind of rude (like just blankly staring and then turning around without saying anything), I usually get better within an hour or when I’ve had a nap.
Likes/hobbies: relaxing, music, reading, learning new things,language learning (Japanese, Korean & French), puzzles, cooking/baking, trying new foods, enjoys eating, video games, Disney, Pixar, anime, neuro (I’m at least interested in it), cooking/baking reality shows, yoga, animals, Japanese dramas & Korean dramas.
Dislikes: betrayal, cheaters in relationships, my laugh (I sometimes snort, so I try my best not to really laugh or at least if I laugh I try to hold back my laughter from being a full one in case I let out a snort) abuse (human & animal), mornings & hiding my true self/thoughts. Fears: Abandonment, spiders, heights, being rejected for who I really am & being trapped.
Dreams/Goals: I’d like to get married someday & maybe have a family (whether having children by birth, adoption, or them already having children, either way is fine with me. No matter what, they would be family, blood ties or no blood ties), or even having animals who we think of as children, but if my s/o didn’t want children, I would be alright with that too, I’d honestly be happy either way as long as we are happy.
i’m so sorry for the wait! life happened and my internet has been acting up. fun time- but in that time of staring at your request for god knows how long, i’d definitely say shiro.
◈ he’s highly attentive to how you’re feeling in a moment. if you need a moment to yourself, he’s understanding and makes himself scarce. if you need him to be there for any reason at all, he’s gotcha.
◈ just all around understanding of what you need at any time.
◈ would understand more if you were just blunt about it, though. he’s smart but unless you tell him, he’s going to constantly worry about you.
◈ knows how to get you going and having a good time. he’s willing to find whatever sort of activity you need to have fun and get your mind off of things if you need it.
◈ they might not be the most entertaining but they’ll do the job, he feels.
◈ when he first shows signs of interest, he somewhat shamelessly asks how to get your attention. but even he’s not sure how well it’s going to go, for both you and him (executing it vs. how you’re going to recieve it).
◈ eventually he ends up being the blunt one, going right for saying he likes you, “maybe i love you, but it’s a little soon for that.”
◈ he tries to make you feel safe and happy, always.
◈ never an exception in the moment.
◈ about 87% of the time can he detect you not being as alright as you say you are.
◈ always checking on your mood, your mental health, literally anything you need, he’s going to be ther efor you for.
◈ all in all, a good boy, cares about you a lot, you’re gonna be happy with him, for sure~
i hope this was okay!! thank you for requesting and being patient, and i hope you have a good day!
~ yellow paladin