©CLOWNWORK. SEBASTIAN , HEADCANONS. ( n/ sfw edition. )
surprise surprise ! he's a very dominant partner and very much wants to be in control during almost every situation. that includes in the bedroom. ( or whatever filthy space he finds himself in when the opportunity strikes. ) in any occasion where the roles are reversed , it won't be done without a fight ! which he thinks can be fun in and of itself. but anyone who wants to take control will have to earn it. and even then , it's only under the illusion or guise of being in control. he can never fully submit and will almost always find ways of taking at least some of it back.
he often uses his height and strength to his advantage and is very into manhandling others. especially with partners that are exceptionally smaller than him. it tickles something in his brain. whether that be lifting them up , pushing them against things , tossing them around wherever he wants or switching positions without warning , etc. i'll never let his intimidatingly large stature be forgotten , and it unfortunately goes hand in hand with his desire to use it against others in order to overpower them.
being a very - and perhaps overtly - prideful creature , having a vocal partner goes a long way for him. praise , compliments , whining , begging , moaning or screaming or crying to the point that a third party overhearing might grow concerned. . . . he wants to hear it all. someone who is quiet is a major mood killer and it's a quick way to make him lose interest.
and for those who also enjoy a vocal partner , you're in luck ! given that never shutting the fuck up is his job , it's something that often translates over during sex. they're the two times he seemingly always has something to say. and it's usually in the form of praise and / or possessive degradation. " my " is almost always in his vocabulary.
it's easy to assume he's selfish in bed because he's very selfish in every other aspect of his life. and to a point , he absolutely is. there's no " as long as his partner gets off , he's happy " here , and he can't wrap his mind around that mindset. while he does enjoy making sure the other person is taken care of , his own pleasure is still his main goal and priority lmao.
on the topic of that , his head game is strong. one of his most notable features is his tongue because it's almost unnaturally long ( it's fitting for his huge mouth lets be real ) and he enjoys sticking it out to get a reaction out of people on the regular. he knows how to use it behind closed doors.
it's safe to assume he's very rough. being marked and marking others is in his possessive nature , but it's also inevitable because he doesn't know how to fuck without leaving something behind. from hickeys on any piece of them that specifically called to him in that moment , or bruising on their thighs or hips from him holding them so tightly ; to entire teeth marks that are so deeply imprinted that it could easily identify him if you were to take a mold of his mouth. he wants to spit in their face and pull their hair and have his pulled in return. he's a head grabber , a head pusher during oral , and a face grabber. scratch him. choke him. and let him do it back. being as animalistic as he is , gentle is difficult for him already , but it's tenfold during sex. anything gentle is solely reserved for those he is incredibly soft for. which can be an even more incredibly rare occurrence.
even further then that , he enjoys pain almost as much as he enjoys inflicting it. which means knives and other weapons that can cut are usually welcomed. i'm afraid he loves having blood on him :/
