this is about triggers not discourse. i do not care about fandom discourse. discoursers log off. expose me to a trigger you will be blocked
🎨: art tag
🗣: yap tag
🍑: nsfw tag
hey there! im in the process of re-learning how to draw after abandoning it for half a decade. using a lot of references and finally trying to beat a consistent art style into my own mind so if my art seems inconsistent, welcome to my struggle! the purpose of this blog is to develop past that lmao.
DNI
if your blog url or icon features things listed below I Will Block You and its not personal i just need you to fuck off for my own well being.
QUALIFIERS:
fat gay enby 30+ curmudgeonly more beast than (wo)man. poly. have a boyfriend and a girlfriend.
I am a tfem undergoing transition. I do not ascribe to tma/tme discourse. I believe in trans solidarity. defining trans femmes away from their other trans siblings does nothing but sew increasingly insular paranoid infighting and gives the terfs what they want. stop letting them define your boundaries.
ocd, cptsd, anxiety, depression, neurospicy. im a victim of intense religious trauma, abusive fatphobia and im a survivor. I block a lot of people based on if shit they do triggers my ocd or my cptsd so if you find yourself randomly blocked by me don't take it personal its probably just related to that.
PRO-FAT, PRO-KINK, PRO-FREAK:
i'm not gonna judge you for whatever you're into. let your freak flag fly etc etc this is a safe space for weirdos. I am fine with any kink as long as all the people participating are consenting adults and no definable harm is being done to real actual living things. yes even that one. yes even that one too.
i do not judge sexual activity based on personal cultural principles nor proto fascist "politics of disgust." I do not care about what your culturally christian (or otherwise) upbringing has instilled in you. I do not believe things are wrong "on principle." I do not ascribe to this kind of reactionary conservative thinking. I value actions based on if any real actual beings are being harmed in the act.
if you are incapable of doing the same I invite you to kill the catholic priest inside your head and set yourself free. I was raised in a very cult-like branch of the church and I refuse to continue participating in this way of thinking that so many of you who claim to be leftists gleefully continue to enforce on others.
i came up in the furry community and I do not tolerate to puritanical bullshit no matter who its from. nothing is off the table here. run away if you cant handle it!
TRIGGERING MATERIAL:
the biggest thing is keep religious content away from me. and by religious content I mean anything related to current spiritual practices including new age beliefs and mysticism. and especially anything related to various spiritual entities I will actually lose my shit in rage. keep good omens / helluva boss / devil may cry hazbin hotel and dungeon meshi the fuck away from me if I see any of it I will shoot first and ask questions later. this isn't about fandom wars. I do not care about anti/proship nonsense. it is about things that trigger me. get off my lawn. i have a long history of being raised in the really insane part of the evangelical church and I have a laundry list of opinions. I will post about them sometimes
daily affirmations: i am allowed to be weird on tumblr. i am allowed to post stuff that makes me seem crazy because it's fun to do that. no one is watching me panopticon style they are just following me normalstyle. i am allowed to be weird on tumblr.
Tumblr post 1: Stories are all too grimdark and such it is fash doomerism to assume reality is evil What we need in these times is stories that inspire hope that is truly revolutionary
Tumblr post 2: Stories are all too fluffy and happy and such it is fash revisionism to shy away from the darkness What we need in these times is stories that are cathartic and unsettling that is truly revolutionary
im gonna say it now so everyone in my notes stops arguing over this. meatballs menu is three dots side-by-side. kebab menu is three dots up and down. bento menu is an array of 9 dots in a square shape. hamburger menu is three lines horizontally. Yes there are others but none of them are nearly as prevalent so i dont care enough to list them. goot bye