Wow your spouse: 1st year wedding anniversary gifts
Tis the season for weddings, which means it is also the season for wedding anniversaries. As my Facebook feed fills with friends marking theirs, one has asked me for some help for her 2nd wedding anniversary, which is traditionally marked with a cotton based gift (paper in the US). I can't start with second wedding anniversary gift ideas and skip the first so here we go...
Did you know wedding anniversaries have themes??
Yes, it's great. It helps the gift hunt by narrowing things down but also giving your search a focus.
First year's theme is PAPER and the flower is CARNATION*.
Just a little history first..the marking of wedding anniversaries with gifts dates back to Roman times when a husband would crown his wife with a silver wreath at their 25th wedding anniversary and gold if they made it to their 50th (fair enough when you appreciate life expectancy at the times was around 40.. I'd want some gold).
Since then commercialism has had its hand in developing named gifts for more anniversaries. But the symbolism behind each theme has meaning....and also it's a bit of fun. We all need more excuses to celebrate don't we?
The symbolism of paper is the 'clean sheet' you have as you start out your married life. A new beginning. Paper is also fragile, which suggests your marriage will grow stronger in each passing year. That's the theory...
*buying actual carnations for your wife (on an anniversary or any other occasion) is a dumpable offence.
Click on image for suggested retailers.
From left to right...
Gentleman or Ladies Writing Set by Chase & Wonder, £28
Personalised line drawing of your wedding photo by Sophie Morgan, price on application
Map of the World by James Wyld, 1861, £30
The Day We Caught The Train screen print on used train tickets by One Another, £25
Pepe Heykoop paper vase, £15.50
Purple Glass Jellyfish Paperweight by WESLEY-BARRELL, £50
Carnation iphone case from the Mess Project on Etsy, £10.50
Priti NYC Pink Jewel Carnation Nail Polish, £12.50
Ted Baker Brogue A5 Notebook, £13
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