divinity on earth is trans women

29 she\her, Renne, White, Am girl? Am transfem? wow! am the transfeminism reader. 18+ Lets hear it for Communism

[glowing-iris-deer]

girlllllllllllllllllll incest shit still makes me extremely uncomfortable and i dont want to interact with it, fuck!

im not interested in persecuting ppl or harassing trans women over it, i dont participate in callouts or any of that shit i understand how these things are used to hurt my transfem siblings and i understand how certain mindsets make the world less safe for victims

and its kind of glaring how its so normalized that half the shit on the front page of pornhub will be step-relative shit made for cis ppl but trans women get burned at the stake for it

i even understand why some girls might be drawn to it but im still like nope! makes me sooo so so uncomfortable, i don't wana hear abt it i dont wana interact with it.

[glowing-iris-deer]

same for ageplay like, nope, nope nope, nope nope nope, am i allowed to like want to not hear abt this stuff???

i say allowed of course one is allowed to do anything but like, i dont think its unreasonable for my to be uncomfortable with this kinda thing

again i dont participate in stalking or harassing my sisters and siblings over this because of course i fucking don't and I dont think i ever have

i just dont want to really engage with it or hear about it at all because of personal reasons.

[glowing-iris-deer]

okay im no longer going to be active

[cutecipher]

She will be sniffing your dash politely

[emil]

reblog to let her sniff

[passionpeachy]

I thought Togore was just a funny meme about Toriel's and Asgore's bullshit child-naming conventions, but it kinda seems like people genuinely want him to be "real" to the point of getting Toby to acknowledge it and I don't really understand what this shitpost OC can possibly add that doesn't already exist within the canon characters......I got nothing against self-inserts or anything but I do wonder if people just crave for a generic monster character to safely project onto since the actual protagonist of this story literally beats your ass for trying to live through them?

[passionpeachy]

Kris "Toy Horns" Deltarune seeing the Player invent a secret cisgender brother that's a goat monster like the rest of their family and he's got an identical outfit too:

[glowing-iris-deer]

at this point i think i have more trust in cis women compared to trans men which is insane

[glowing-iris-deer]

when you meet new people remember to say something unhinged but harmless to set the tone for all future interactions

[glowing-iris-deer]

one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me was my friend who said she wished she could give me a new childhood where i could be a happy little girl and also get lots of Halloween candy

[juniper-petunia]

does anyone else have to cry once a week when they think about missing out on their girlhood and like…. how incredibly unfair it is that i- i mean they never got to be a little girl… how you didn’t get to have the experience of realizing you were a lesbian… you didn’t get to be the weird girl who played 3ds at her own table with the other nerds… you didn’t get to have greasy hair and chipped nails and go shopping for your prom dress with your mom… shit woulda sucked but it should have been mine… my sucky girlhood

[glowing-iris-deer]

i really gotta log out of tumblr idk can ask for my discord if u rly want

[glowing-iris-deer]

uhhhhhh ask me for, my discord, and uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh flirt with my bpd ass in dms idk

[glowing-iris-deer]

i really gotta log out of tumblr idk can ask for my discord if u rly want

[bunnygirlpaws]

people on twitter are trying to cancel sadie liath (the trans woman who went viral not too long ago for wearing blue body paint) because she tweeted "done with trans men forever sorry." the post literally feels like the sort of thing you'd post after a really shitty date or a breakup and isn't targeted at anyone.

i don't know her at all but i really hope this doesn't hurt her too badly, and i haven't seen anyone here talk about it.

[bunnygirlpaws]

turns out i was right and she did just get out of an 8 year long abusive relationship with a trans man. not sure why people decided to add getting her run off of twitter to the pain of that, but congrats. you made it worse.

[lilyhoshikawa]

Hopefully it's okay for me to add onto this (if not i'll delete it), but this situation has been bothering me all day as well

I essentially had to investigate to figure out what happened here after seeing nothing but replies to a now-deleted tweet of trans women i follow shading anecdotal stories about how trans men helped them in the past with shaming comments like "you could never make me hate our brothers"

eventually i saw a vague post about it and looked into the replies, somebody asked for context and the only reply to that said "the blue lady went transphobic." which was odd to me, seeing as how i primarily knew her from being trans!

the fact that i couldn't find additional context aside from this was pretty terrifying, all i could find was "she has a bigoted crash out" without anyone actually elaborating

the rest of the day all i could find were posts from prominent trans women (notably all white and relatively well-off, as they so often are) talking about how they love and support trans men, replies condemning division and "hating on oppressed groups of any kind right now"

the worst of it though was seeing people already speculating on her mental state- "a person trying to tattoo themselves blue was kinda insane?" (notably of course also degendering her). it's the tried and true way to cast aside women, to call them insane and write them off

and of course anybody pointing out the harassment of an abuse victim being fucked up is met with the old "you're just like TERFs"

when i FINALLY found the full context i was shocked that it was even more benign than i assumed it had to have been. all she really said was that she didn't like or trust trans men after a traumatic experience

as my girlfriend pointed out, it's a pretty universal experience for cis women to say "i hate men" or "fuck all men" especially after a bad relationship, so why on earth is this any different, why is it now a huge issue of bigotry?

I say all this as someone who didn't really follow her btw! i have no vested interest in defending her, i found the blue thing kind of annoying. if she kept posting as normal i likely would've never known or encountered her again

but this? it's terrifying, and it's enabled by the types of trans women who are allowed to have a platform. only those that are white, rich, conventionally attractive, and know which buttons not to press. it's horrifying to see them turn on their sister en masse as soon as she steps out of line

[gh0ulfr13nd-deactivated20260107]

[relientk]

It's just actually so crazy that ten years ago when the subject of birth control came up people would talk about how it's so nice to be able to take control of their bodies and how many different forms there are and how it's nice to be able to select one that works for you. To have that security and not be dependent on the honesty of a partner or random hook up or whatever. But also how many conditions it can help manage, and how it can be used to regulate pain and mood and the severity of menstrual cycles.

And now during a point where abortion is being limited and targeted and banned in some places, with talks about going after birth control next, and there's fear mongering around the declining birth rate, whenever birth control comes up people are tripping over themselves to talk about how evil it is and how the side effects are universally horrible and awful and unedurable. And it seems to go back to "actually the other person should be the one responsible for birth control" as if that's some feminist take to say "you should relinquish control and put your full trust in your partner in a time when we are losing access to abortion and there's increased fear around declining birth rates."

[verytiredrn]

girl failure became a girl success

[verytiredrn]

girl failure became a girl success

[glowing-iris-deer]

remember that any outfit choice a trans woman makes is automatically perfect uhhh unless she asks for advice with something she has in mind or whatever

in any case i think with any idea you have there is a way to pull it off, including wearing dresses or skirts with jeans : ) though i have no idea how to do this really.

[bogleech]

We don't talk enough about America's permanent ongoing saturation of "Stranger Danger" hysteria. It's like this country's whole social ecosystem teaches full grown adults to perceive an invisible army of rabid bogeymen lurking around every fucking corner. And it's everywhere. Absolutely fucking everywhere, top to bottom, from true crime media and urban legends like the old Poison Halloween Candy thing to our sadistically rage-fueled, revenge-based justice system and immigration policies. The NRA and the war on drugs and post 9/11 airport security and mccarthyism and satanic panic and just E V E R Y T H I N G in America, everything that has defined its history for 100+ years is constantly nothing but this fucking FEAR TERROR FEAR TERROR for positively no reason. None.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

Reasons I have found strangers in my yard at night (I'm not American):

Homeless woman, after a backyard party, starving and looking for any food we might've forgotten to take inside. We gave her some food.

Drunk man at wrong house. Not aggressive, just confused.

Lost guy trying to find the house of a family member he was supposed to be staying with. He was a few houses down.

Man with four tiny kittens who had escaped into my yard. He'd knocked on my door but I hadn't heard him. Couldn't leave the kittens in a stranger's yard all night so he slipped through the side gate to look for them. I helped him and we found the kittens. The idea of responding to strangers at your house with gunfire is bonkers.