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bitches hate me for my earnest whimsy and my pathological degree of avoidant behavior
I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said āmight as well see if it works.ā I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if youāre a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.
dude.
$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.
This is huge. Sharing for my US friendos.
Hospitals like to hide these policies under a lot of successive links in obscure places, so if you don't see anything right away, keep looking! Get friends to help! Make it a scavenger hunt. A game where you're assassins sent to slit capitalism's throat
straight men enduring 24/7 sexual assault each other in order to not be labeled faggots is honestly the best example of how masculinity operates. the other day before work a coworker fr shoved a finger in another coworker's ass (above pants) as one of their little "ha ha you're gay" jokes. fuck is wrong with them. equal parts disgusted and fascinated by their behaviour.
of course these people are fucked up and unable to hold healthy relationships grounded in mutual respect! they're constantly assaulting and being assaulted by their friends just to Not Be Gay/Like A Girl!!!
the biggest reason men refuse to recognize a lot of what they do to women as sexual harassment/assault is bc of their misogyny and wanting to maintain our power over women, 100%. BUT can i just point out that maybe a smaller but not-insignificant reason might also be that they can't even recognize sexual assault when other men do it to them???? i didn't tell that coworker bc he's an asshole, but i have had to tell other guys at work "hey what they're doing to you is terrible and you shouldn't have to put up with it you know" which most of them hadn't ever been told before because """""roughhousing""""" is part of that "boys will be boys" thing that makes everyone ignore our abuse
"boys will be boys" okay well maybe boys should be shot
āThis is specially for the back of your neck.ā - Love letter of Frida Kahlo sent to Nickolas Muray, 1931 ā Fanni KaszĆ”s
Friends, we don't care about food right now... all we want is to save my grandmother. šš
It has been 4 days without any support or donations !? while my grandmother urgently needs her daily medication, which costs ā¬60 per dayāā¬420 every week.ššš
Please don't let her reach the point where the treatment is no longer effective and her condition becomes critical.š
My grandmother means the world to me. Along with my mother, my child, and my family, they are the most precious people in my life. We have given up our own basic needs, even food, because keeping my grandmother alive is our only priority.
If you can't donate, please consider sharing my campaign. It may reach someone who can help.šš
Every euro makes a difference, and every share could help save my grandmother's life.
Hildaššš
Donation link š¢ Multiple vetted ā @/gazavetter ā List Number #14 ā @/90-ghost ā @/gaza-evacuation-funds ā List Number #451 ā @/Bilal-sala7 ā Vetted Gaza Fundraiser List Number #20
Friends, I don't even know what to write anymore.ā¼ļø
It feels like no one hears my calls for help or sees how much my grandmother is sufferingš„
š“We ask for only one thing: that my grandmother can stay alive.š
We've reduced our meals to just one a day so we can afford her medication. My mother goes without, and even my little child has less food because every euro we have goes toward keeping my grandmother alive.
I don't know when you'll stand by my side.
Will it be only after I lose someone I loveā¼ļøā
Please don't leave my family alone. This campaign is our only source of hope and income after we lost everything in the war.šš
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In case anyone hasn't heard, the cyclospora outbreak affecting tons of people in the US right now is coming from Taylor Farms produce. Best to stay away from bagged lettuce and prepared salads completely right now, but especially the ones mentioned in the screenshot:
Taylor Farms Earthbound Farms Little Salad Bar (Aldi) Marketside (Walmart) Kroger House Brand Target private label greens Costco salads and greens etc Trader Joe's chopped salad kits and fresh produce Fast food: McDonalds, Taco Bell, (Yum! Brands), Chipotle, Subway, Pizza Hut, KFC, Olive Garden, Top Golf, Red Lobster, Burger King, etc.
This is not the first time I've heard about a Taylor Farms foodborne illness outbreak. I stopped eating their salads after reading a description of the conditions in their facilities. Doesn't sound like they've improved anything.
We need a fully funded and staffed FDA, and regulations with teeth - and that's exactly what we don't have under Trump. To make things worse, the CDC is no longer tracking these outbreaks. We're on our own.
seeing news about the fallout remaster announcement feels like cruel irony to me
microsoft games are a bds boycott target, and because both bethesda + obsidian are owned by microsoft, this includes the games published by them.
microsoft is gonna further profit from a new virtual playground of ~post-apocalyptic bombed out towns in the desert~ while contributing to creating bombed out apocalyptic conditions in gazan towns, by collaborating with israel on so many fronts that bds calls microsoft the most complicit company in palestinian genocide.
and nostalgia-baited fans will still buy it bc playing pretend in a virtual world thats a knockoff of what real life people are currently facing ā a virtual world funded by that very suffering of those real life people ā is more important to them than simply playing a different game
anyway, to make this rant productive ā if you have the means to send donations to palestine, heres some community initiatives:
Monaās community aid initiative ā verified by el-shab-hussein
The Sameer Project ā has a british partner org, so UK folks can donate with gift aid here with no transfer fees
Revive Gaza Farmlands ā has a canadian partner org, so canadians can donate via direct bank transfers with no transfer fee
Crips for eSims for Gaza ā canda-based, so canadian e-transfers saves on transaction fees
Can anyone help me eat today pregnant black woman currently really struggling with the day to day
$Hopesoda
Venmo: Hope-soda
PayPal: [email protected]
Could use help still today is Monday I have a job interview on wed
Iām really struggling still my will to live is at an all time low I have no support nothing going on and no motivation I appreciate all the help so far itās July 16th words of encouragement are also welcome
I KNEW THAT DOOR HAD A LOCK ON IT
like clockwork you point out a womanās internalized misogyny and here comes someone saying the real misogynists were the feminists all along
Help our daughter not pee blood for her birthday?
Last post got long
We've been struggling to get our basic needs covered, we have no water, our daughter got her hair mutilated by her grandpa, we had to flee to a hotel 2 times during last month because he's been a danger for us, i lost my healthcare and im still in the paperwork to get it back and a couple days ago our trans daughter started peeing blood, is in pain and has shown signs of infection.
She already got checked by a Dr but he recommended an urologist very urgently. She already underwent surgery last year, there is a chance it was badly done or a new issue.
So, can we get help for her? Her birthday will be soon
We need $125 for the appointment with a trans friendly urologist, then we will have a diagnosis.
We were able to pay rent and fill our water tank, we hope the shortage ends and we don't have to get bottled water daily. We'll keep you posted.
I've been offering spanish conversation classes online, just taking time off until I can make sure my father-in-law won't sabotage those with his shouting.
A friend and mutual is offering commissions to help us if you're interested.
Also check our throne, we have some urgent lists of needs for our chronic pain/illnesses if someone can help us with that too.
$85/$800
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THIS IS URGENT PLEASE!!!!
UPDATE JULY 10TH
Finally got the prescriptions scanned, forgot the 3rd one with the labs but this should be better than nothing, we debated a lot on how much information should be censored so i hope you understand we covered all we thought could put our daughter in danger.
We could agree on sharing the uncensored one through dm“s but only to trusted mutuals so they can corroborate its legit, we need to get her the surgery as urgently as possible cause the pain from the balanitis is hindering her ability to go to the bathroom or even just exist.
of course they are in spanish tho, we voted against translating them for accuracy“s sake.
The total cost of surgery through the only trans friendly clinic we could find goes over $52,000 pesos, which is over $3,100 usd, not even taking into account if she needs to stay overnight under their care.
She wouldn't have to go through another surgery if the previous dr had identified the symptoms better, we cant put her through another transphobic clinic, she was miserable and shouldn“t have gone through all that.
If it helps at all it's going to be her birthday on July 14, it would be great if she didn't have to be in pain and going to the bathroom meant a crying session and a constant infection.
We also had hoped the phones would have arrived by now but we got an email saying there was a problem but we hope to get a positive reply by july 11th, we“ll keep you posted.
so yeah, we need so much help not even considering that grandpa is still a danger, we will need food by saturday and i hurt myself handwashing the clothes we needed most urgently.
help please
$230/$3,500
Please, anything helps!!!! š
Today's my birthday, I just want to afford our daughter's surgery please!!!
https://www.reuters.com/legal/litigation/muslim-man-stabbed-multiple-times-utah-over-his-religion-police-say-2026-07-15/
I had to do a little digging for this. The article leaves the victims name out but mentions a go fund me.
I was able to find an article mentioning his name that directly linked to his gofundme https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/larsen-sohail-muslim-utah-stabbing-b3015105.html his name is Sohail if you have any money to help his recovery
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-sohails-recovery-after-hate-crime-attack please keep him in your thoughts and donate if you are able
Sohail is a devoted husband and father who has always worked hard to supp⦠Luna Nunez needs your support for Support Sohailās Recovery After
Thank you! I am kinda pissed off that the news outlet leave out the gfm link but i guess that's their SOP over there
The man accused of stabbing a mall employee after allegedly targeting the victim because of their religion previously served time in prison
I live a very balanced life of noticing things nobody else does and not noticing the things that literally everybody notices
Getting down on my knees and thanking the humans who invented dishwashers and washing machines.
InsNe that dishwashers are more efficient and easier than just washing them manually but they also use less water. Itās a win win situation
They ALSO sterilize dishes, due to operating at a far higher temperature than human hands could ever tolerate. It's a win every way.
Made this post about 15 minutes after the repair guy who fixed the pump on my dishwasher packed up his tools and left, as the dishwasher was whirring along doing my dishes from that morning.
He said the exact same thing, which I did not know before that, so spreading this knowledge.
Not getting a ton of reporting in US news, but the Trump administration is going after donors to Palestine, including going as far as international extradition under the guide of "counterterrorism"
Im taking the coldest bath possible rn holy fuck itās 86 degrees in my apartment.
God dammit I wish I had an air conditioner. I wish I had a job so I could earn enough money to buy us an air conditioner. I wish I didnāt get fired illegally after getting tricked into thinking I was going to have a guaranteed 40/hr week job with benefits and it was a job Iām GOOD AT I was a fast food manager and itās not glamorous but god dammit I was good at it and I lost my health insurance which has led me to paying high out of pocket costs for my medications that I CANT go without or Iām miserable and canāt do anything. I was planning to do commissions this summer but I canāt think let alone draw in this fucking heat. I escaped the newest addition to Erin in the Morningās ādo not travelā list back in January by chance. I just was so lucky to meet someone so amazing that lived in a place that I really love being. But Iāve lost a lot of the support I have, I donāt even have all of my belongings like for Christs sake I miss my cats. I miss them so much Iāve tried not to think about them because I just know Iād cry but Jesus I miss my cats I want my belongings back I want my car running again I want a phone that isnāt broken like holy fuck Iām just so distraught I donāt normally post about my life but holy fucking shit Iām so beyond stressed out.
Go to paypal.me/kaiahart and type in the amount. Since itās PayPal, it's easy and secure. Donāt have a PayPal account? No worries.
Fucking hell im really desperate if you can spare anything please I need an ac unit. I donāt know how weāll get one but please Iām a latine two spirit disabled lesbian who finally escaped their abusive father and ex who nearly killed them im desperate here. Had some really good luck today talking to some managers that might be able to get me a decent job but for now weāre so fucked please.
here's two articles about how JK Rowling just posted on X an upskirt photo of Freda Wallace, a transgender woman, after deadnaming her and misgendering her repeatedly online.
The wealthy author escalated a social media spat that resulted in posting a photo from a 2023 event at the Institute of Economic Affairs in
Rowling posted the picture taken from below because the trans woman, she said, was "refusing to debate me."
Thank you for posting without the fucking destiel meme
If anything happens to my nephew, please remember that I begged you to donate, even a small amount, or to share my post. I will not forgive anyone who sees this post and doesn't support me with a single word or a small donation, and ignores me.
My nephew urgently needs surgery, and we still need ā¬550 to cover the costs. It's become much more difficult since my main account was suspended, and I can no longer reach as many people as before. Therefore, I ask everyone who sees this post to help us by sharing or donating if they are able.
The operation was supposed to take place two days ago, and we had prepared everything. We were hoping that someone would help me gather the necessary funds, but unfortunately, we couldn't proceed. I desperately hope that every kind-hearted person here, with any humanity towards us, will save my nephew, who lost his father in this genocide and has no one to care for him but me. Please, save him and don't ignore me. šš
If you can donate, you're not just giving money... you're giving my nephew another chance at life, a chance to fight, a chance to live. Your donation will help us secure his surgery and alleviate his excruciating pain.Please... don't leave him to face this pain alone.Be a source of comfort for him, a helping hand during his darkest and most difficult days. Poor child.
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Someone has donated ā¬20, but we still need 530⬠to afford the surgery for my nephew. I swear we need your help; my nephew is suffering terribly right now. Please, every moment of delay could cost him his life. This is a life-or-deathsurgery-please don't let him die. You are our only hope. Please, please donate šš
Everyone, we still need just 300 euros for the surgery. Please, my nephew is in a very critical condition and needs the operation urgently. Please don't let us lose hope in youāyou are our only hope. Please donate; don't let us down. I don't want him to die. Please donate. ššš
Oh God, oh God... since yesterday, only one person has donated 10 euros, and we still need 290 euros for my nephew's surgery. Please, do not let us down; the surgery is scheduled for tomorrow. Please, please donateāI do not want him to die. He has lost both his mother and his father; please, do not let him die. Please donate, please donate. ššš
There are only 10 hours left until my nephew's scheduled surgery, and we still need just 250 euros. Please, I beg youāI don't want him to miss this appointment. To anyone with compassion in their heart: please help save my young nephew so he can undergo his surgery. Please donateājust 250 eurosāso we can make it happen. šš
Guys, we weren't able to go through with the surgery today, and we still need 230 euros. Please stop ignoring me; please don't let me down. Please donate, please donate. šš
Oh God, why is everyone ignoring me? My nephew is on his deathbed, and we still need just 200 euros for his surgery. Please, I don't want to lose my nephew the way I lost my mother. This is my final plea to you; I will not forgive anyone who sees my post and ignores me. Please donate whatever you canāplease, please donate. šš