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[brownsugar-dreams]

Top Questions I Ask a POT During the First Date

Sugaring can be exhausting in the beginning when you are trying to vet a suitable POT. I’ve come up with a list of topics/questions to talk with a POT about on the first date to hopefully save time because we all know time is money:

Check his pockets

Where do you work? What does your job role entail?

What’s the most exciting thing about your job?

How long have you worked in that position? What do you love most about it?

Have you always wanted to work in ____?

Understand his values

What turns you on? (Hopefully his answer is “spoiling” 🤣)

What makes you happy?

What are your passions? What do you enjoy doing? Pet peeves?

What are your desires? What do you desire most in life?

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? What excites you?

What are your thoughts/feelings about _________?

Understand his past relationships

What are you looking for/hoping to gain from your next relationship/arrangement?

What was your last relationship/arrangement like?

What did your last relationship lack? What did you not get from your last partner that you really wanted?

What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for your woman?

What do you think a mans role is in a relationship?

What do you think about spoiling your partner? What does it mean to you?

These questions are meant to be used as a guide to help you get a better idea of the type of POT you are dealing with so you can proceed however you need to. Just naturally throw them into the conversation. These questions can be used for POTs found on SD sites or vanilla apps. Depending on how he answers to the last 3 questions, I normally ask to go for a walk together after the date and just so happen to find ourselves inside of a shopping plaza 😌

[chisugarbabe-blog]

How to land a strictly platonic Sugar Daddy (or mostly non sexual!)

Okay a few have asked me about how I met a platonic SD and how it works.

I met him on SA and he messaged me first, I checked out his profile and this is what I thought: slightly awkward, not completely gorgeous, not totally ugly, rich enough to afford me, not rich enough to be super cocky. I was intrigued.

The first time we met I immediately could tell he was nervous and awkward around girls. This is what you want!

I know when we are looking for POT’s online, a lot of times we want a POT to be really good looking because hello if we are going to sleep with them, it would be nice if they were hot too. My advice: don’t automatically throw out the awkward looking POT or the guy who could lose a few pounds. These guys could be your PLATONIC SD’s, so why do you care how they look if you don’t have to sleep with them?

Take advantage of this guys inadequacy as a chance for YOU to run the show. If he’s not a perfect 10 (or 8, or 5…) chances are he is somewhat insecure. This gives you power over them. Meet with them for a first date, and at dinner say something like “I really enjoy the company/mentorship of those older than me. It’s refreshing to go out with intellectuals than guys my age. Guys my age just want sex right away, and I’m not into that.” This helps set the idea you are not an easy lay. Then, talk up how fascinating he is and how amazed you are by his success. This gives you the chance to kind of knock down their hopes and dreams of sleeping with you, but still keeps them liking you because you shower his inadequate ass with compliments. I almost prefer the guys online who are not as good looking because rich, hot, good body, confident = cocky. Those are the guys who expect sex right away. If a POT isn’t as good looking, he probably gets less messages from girls, letting him focus on you more.

How to find a platonic SD with a few reminders: 1. If a guy messages you right away and says something like, “hey baby I’m rich, have 3 homes, a plane…..I could offer you $5,000 a month, all the shopping you could want, and pay your bills….” Etc. THIS IS NOT YOUR PLATONIC SD. This guy is cocky, over confident, and do you really think you will get 5k for NO SEX? Get real.

2. Which brings me to #2. If you are in a platonic arrangement, you probably won’t get paid as much for an allowance. BUT you can still work this awkward SD out of extra gifts, expenses, and shopping trips later. A charming sweet girl can charm the pants off and under confident guy.

3. Make sure your online profiles show off YOU. Whether you’re looking for a platonic SD or not, show good pictures of yourself. Not skanky, not slutty, but sexy and hot! If you like your bikini photos from Hawaii last year, don’t be afraid to show them! 

4. Always respond even if they’re ugly! This process takes time, and you should be kind enough to respond. This could be your future platonic SD. Feel them out, if they aren’t overly suggestive or mention sex, if they aren’t all charming or lead with an allowance offering, respond. These are the awkward, under confident guys that makes AMAZING platonic’s. 

5. Once you think you have a POT platonic or land a platonic SD, you must do things to keep them interested since you aren’t giving up sex. Be the girl you think they want. This is where sugar babies are really actresses. Do they want teasing vixen with high heels and a smokey eye? Or do you think they want cute, sweet, laid back virgin type?

6. Spark their interests other ways. Offer a back massage. Bring him a bottle of wine. Suggest shopping for a new suit for HIM. Don’t always ask for shopping trips for you, if you ask to go shopping say, “didn’t you say you needed to get some new clothes? I could help you!” Chances are, once you are out shopping he will buy YOU THINGS, but make it seem like it is about HIM. Keeping things platonic means offering him things in place of sex to fill the void.

For example, does he love desserts? Make him cookies and bring them over next time you see him. Hell, if you can’t bake, BUY dessert from a bakery, put it on a plate and say you made it. I can’t stress this enough, do small things for him! At the end of the day, who gets paid? We do. If you aren’t giving him sex, you MUST give something else. Do things HE wants in order to get what YOU want: $$$$

At the end of the day, you tease, play, and hustle him. If he says he is okay with no sex, and then pressures you for sex, he is not the SD for you. DON’T let money get too much into your head you lose your standards or forget what some of you are really looking for: a platonic SD. 

[tinymintywolf]

took these suggestions from instagram! uma was definitely my favorite to draw but i had fun with all of them :^)

[goddessnikky]

Look at my toy today😍😍😍

[straightcockyfindom]

Before I get inside your wallet, I'm going to get inside your head

[babyy-girl616]

Adopt a bill

Dm me the one you will take care of 🐷🐄💸

[goddessnikky]

Mmm

[greedyfindom]

A tribute is not a payment

We need to get something straight. A tribute is a form of showing respect and admiration to your superior, it is not a payment for a session or even my time. Anything you get as a result of a tribute is a bonus. 

Tribute to please me. Tribute because your cash belongs in my wallet. Tribute because my needs, are more important than yours. Don’t tribute because you want to get off and disappear. You are not paying me to cum, you’re paying me to add some meaning to your pathetic life.

[goddess-isabel]

Hope more piggies will understand this.

[goddessnikky]

Need to understand

[pussyboy123]

Hurry up and clean up your mess after

[oriental-sugar]

For my queens asking for advice on requesting a gift from a pot. Stay elegant, have your words ready to explain yourselves with class and eloquence. Ask a friend, we are in this together.

This is straight from ho tactics, with asking for a small gift and gauging how generous they are with hwo cheap or extravagant that gift may be. Good luck sugaring my queens.

Reposting to fix a mistake!

[highvalueheaux]

Well worded 👏🏼

[introverted-sugar]

Requesting a gift

[hermajestyimher]

Elegant Summer: Part 1, Clothing

As the weather gets warmer and the sunlight extends we can start to take advantage of the newer temperatures by dressing with less layered outfits but incorporating more color. Summer is the perfect time of the year for a woman's beauty to be accentuated. As an elegant woman it's your duty to showcase the best and most out together version of yourself each time you leave the house, here's some tips on how to elevate your look during the warmer months of the year:

• Focus on light colors: baby blue, mustard yellow and whites are the perfect colors for the season as they are universally flattering on multiple skin tones. Light colors can appearance soft and delicate and add to your feminine charm. Due to their simplicity clothing with such colors can be easily styled up with accessories.

• Patterns are your best friend: floral or colorful patters that are carefully placed over a suited background are perfect for warmer temperatures. They can aide in giving a more "ethnic" vibe, and complement you by blending with the burst of colors summers brings with it.

• Oversize it up: t-shirt dresses, loose dresses and long blouses can be quite flattering and great alternative for a comfortable and modest look. Ideally you'd want the pieces to be rather blend in terms of design, the goal here too is to accessorize it up.

• Be mindful of accessories: this is the season to pair jewelry, shoes, hand bags, glasses and other ornaments. You want to give personality and an aura of sophistication to your appearance without overdoing and over accessorizing with large pieces or a high number of them. Make it look tasteful, go for gold jewelry if wearing an all black outfit, silver for more colorfully ones. Have a couple of staple sunglasses, hats and purses to elevate a look on a causal sunny day. Don't overlook the Importance of a good pair of open shoes like sandals and heels, they can amp up an outfit and be the staple piece.

[goddesssnow411]

[ownedpainslutslave-deactivated2]

Very happily 😍

[animal1959-blog]

Hell yeah

[lavishhxtoesxforxthexsoul]

I can’t wait to get my toes done again 🦶🏽 💅🏾

Who wants a video & pictures ??💰

[therealcandylady]

You have no purpose in mistress' day if you're not making her experience easier.

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[goddessnikky]

Know your place

[goddesforbitches]

Hmm there are so many things a boys can be

[marquis-de-la-rose-noire]

[justsomefemdom]

Look at me slave, want to be a good little foot bitch for me?? I assume that you really want, cause your little dick throbbing hard just from the simple look at my mesmerizing feet in this black high heels.. But I won’t allow you to touch yourself neither my precious feet but you are allowed to watch , maybe a little sniff and shoe sole licking for starters, now kneel down those perfect feet my new little foot slut…

[goddessnikky]

Doesn’t my little toy look so cute