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How do you let people go? And leave the past behind?

I don’t think you let people go in one Mature moment tbh. You just stop feeding the version of them that lives in your head. Stop rehearsing what you’d say or treating every random song or street or shirt as evidence that the universe is still discussing them with you. Accept that some things were real and important and still cannot come with you. It always always sucks because we value holding on to others as a form of loyalty to ourselves... But yk eventually you have to admit that remembering something constantly is also a way of continuing to participate in it. You can’t value the loyalty more than you value your healing. Sometimes it is literally just over and your brain despises how undramatic that is. I think leaving it behind is mostly accepting that you will never get the version of it that finally makes perfect sense…They may never apologize correctly…and there’s also a very good chance you may never understand why you tolerated certain things or why they did what they did... But you kind of have to stop waiting for the past to become intelligent enough to explain itself to you. So I guess my answer is. You don’t (+ shouldn’t try to) leave it behind all at once. Your real goal should be to keep choosing the day you’re actually in until the old one doesn’t command so much of your attention

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victor alfaro spring summer 1999

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The worst thing you can do is ask someone who loves giving advice what you should do

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I don’t think I want a career exactly I just want somewhere to put my coats

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ONE muay thai champ stamp fairtex fighting at 8 years old

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william betts

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garage pictures / miles coolidge

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Y’all speak to people so crazily on anon but I kind of prefer it because I like people when they think there will be no consequences. Not even because I enjoy being insulted lol I just like hearing what somebody sounds like before they remember they have a face or mutuals or an archive of opinions they’re supposed to remain consistent with. I was never an omegle or forum person either so idk why this is the social environment I find most honest but even when an anon hates me there’s something sort of relaxing about knowing they’re not trying to be good in front of me. I constantly get the sense that people are editing themselves while they talk to me like I’m receiving the version they made sure is consistent enough with their own mental brand identity and it really makes me sad. My favorite people are always the ones who seem least interested in being seen being themselves