Failure Actually Is an Option— But School Won’t Tell you That
"Why are we learning this?" A question that we have all heard, or asked ourselves, at one point in our academic careers. Having just graduated high school, I've heard that question many times. And while the question is almost always delivered in a whiny tone, and it is always answered with an annoyed air from the teacher who feels that their subject’s importance has been insulted, I started to think that maybe we shouldn't just dismiss this question as a way of stereotypical teenage laziness.
I am fully appreciative of the education I've received. And I understand how important it is to be educated wholistically in Math, English, History and Science. However, I think that students going into the 21st century workforce are lacking essential 21st century occupational skills. And I think the "Why are we learning this?" question may be a sign of exasperation— students are frustrated not by what they're learning, but by what their education lacks.
We are missing life skills. Life skills like collaboration, innovation and creativity are not woven enough into our schools' curriculum. But how can we teach these skills to kids when the system that’s doing the educating does not put value in them?
In school, collaboration is known as cheating. Ask a person next to you for advice on an assignment and it’s distracting.
Creativity is seen as a waste of time. Because it can't be measured on a standardized test.
Innovation is not allowed. Standardized tests teach us that there is only one right answer. And that failure is not an option.
Standardized testing is not only limiting what students can learn, it’s limiting teachers. Teachers have to teach to a curriculum that abides by the material that is going to be tested on. That leaves little time for activities that teach students how to problem solve and to be creative. And students are frustrated. And I think this is breeding a type of resentment among students that’s killing their curiosity and passion. I’ve heard plenty of times throughout any given day “I hate school,” or “This is stupid,” and “Why are we learning this?” And when you stop and look around at all the sadness within an institution filled with some of the most exciting information, you have to ask, what’s going on here?
However, my senior year of high school, I had an experience that made me rethink the way we should be learning.
I had the amazing opportunity to intern at a local newspaper, The Cape Cod Times. Going into the internship, I expected to learn a lot about journalism in the real world. What I really learned more was how to work in the real world. I was tested on my ability to problem solve with interviews, how to communicate effectively to get the information I needed, and how to be an innovative and helpful employee. And these are all skills that I aquired by failing at these tasks the first time, and then getting the chance to try again.
And I realized, as a high school student, that experiential learning is so refreshing compared to how we’re taught in a conventional classroom setting. Coming to Ithaca College as a journalism major, I’ve noticed that mostly everything is taught through experience. And looking back on my first semester of college, I feel like I’ve learned more here in this time period than I would have learned in a whole year of high school.
Christine Hafer, assistant professor in the department of education at Ithaca College, said she also agrees that experiential learning is vital to a student’s education and that it provides them with the skills to be accountable, take initiative and make their own decisions.
“By creating a designed learning experience that includes the possibility to learn from natural consequences, mistakes, and successes,” schools can create more experiential learning opportunities, Hafer said.
Don’t get me wrong, academic learning is just as essential to a student’s education, but it needs to be balanced with the soft skills that students need to be successful in the real world, and in college.
But one of the most important things I learned from my internship is that failure is essential to educating. Not only does failure encourage, it inspires a student to want to succeed. In secondary education, we're taught to fear failure, because failing only cripples us academically. We've created this culture of education based upon the fear of failure, and that's no way to educate.
In college, this lessens. There’s importance in the grade and maintaining a certain GPA, but many professors have told me already that when you go to interviews, they don’t ask you about your grades— they ask you about your experience. So why are high school students maniacally obsessing over their test scores just to get into an institution that really doesn't put that much importance in them itself?
There has even been talk that rising suicide rates among teens can be linked to the expectation of success that schools and families put on their students. Psychologist Robert Leahy said that present day high school students have the same anxiety levels as 1950s psychiatric patients.
We need to change the culture of the way we educate.
I’ve noticed that I feel so much healthier psychologically in the college setting. I’m not going to six classes a day back to back, and I’m learning what I actually want to learn. We need to incorporate more academic freedom into our teenagers’ lives, or else they will continue to hate learning if they're just boxed in all the time and not taught how to be learners who can survive in the real world.
Internships, even at the high school level, can monumentally boost a student's confidence in themselves, and in the security of their future career.
My favorite experience from my internship at the Times was being able to go over to Martha’s Vineyard by ferry to cover a film festival. Mind you that this was not an assignment given to me. I had done an earlier profile on the festival and asked my editor if I could potentially cover it as a freelance job. To my surprise, and delight, he agreed, knowing full well, that as an intern, I could screw it up and he’d end up with a massive hole on a page. But I just remember getting to the festival, meeting with the producers, talking to people about what they thought about the movies, and thinking-- this is it. This is real. And this is what I want to do. I wrote my story on deadline while heading back on the ferry and it was published the next day.
That experience validated for me that I mattered as a journalist. And that I was valuable and that I had a skill to offer to the world. You can’t learn that from a textbook. And the feeling of pride, and confidence that I know what I’m going to do for the rest of my life, certainly can not be measured by a standardized test.








