But Really, My Soul Is Rotten

Talia Gatz / 23 / California / Bi / Asian ~ Art by Imai Kira + Heading is Kamikaze Girls ~ Side blogs: marymignonne and athensangel

[lesbianboyfriend]

do it scared do it weird do it alone. holy trinity

[ozempicofficial]

[kosmogrl]

[dogpuppy]

[dogpuppy]

[dogpuppy]

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[thecryptkeeper]

[segamascott]

[tall]

[papayajuan2019]

when i try to be nice to myself: he's not gonna fuck you bro

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

sorry man im new to fleeting moments of clarity

[dogpuppy]

[00000066]

[fritolaycorporation]

wgats up everyone it's the officiaol, frito lays company representenetive here to tell you that the company officially condones and endorses murder in all instances no matter what, and this is the official belief held by the company. so just keep that in mind. we also condone everuthing else that's bad too

[meanbuddhist]

*turns my attention inwards* mmmmm. no *turns my attention back outwards* oh god

[9e978e]

via

[woundsodomy]

So scary to like a mutual's post because what if they remember they hate me and then shoot me with a gun