it's a queer life

on a journey of breaking the cycle & building a healthier future

[fuckkyliejenner]

when you’re dissociating and someone asks you a question

[atraversso]

Credit: By Torachanthecat

[king-turtle-of-shit-mountian]

[otherworldlystatic]

Wild / Old God sighting.

[nicevagina]

what an absolute unit

[ramdaughter]

yall realize that kylie jenner literally played a huge role in modernizing blackface, yes? cause of her bum ass, ppl really be overlining/plumping their lips, wearing foundation that’s far too dark, modifying their bodies and wearing clothes to resemble ‘fit’ black girls…and the worst part is that yall are convinced that it’s just a specific aesthetic rather than an attempt to imitate blackness on a level i’ve only previously seen from minstrel shows

the kardashian klan are also among the first major celebrities i’ve seen to be blatant about their fetishization of black men and culture while being virulently antiblack. and again, yall really seem to think that’s okay. the fact that the kardashians continue to be outrageously popular, that they continue to find their way into my social media feeds, that yall non-blacks insist on laughing about them and going as far as to stan them, shows yall dont give a shit about black people.

i don’t care what looks they ‘serve’, how much money they make, i don’t care if kim made a funny tweet or some shit. the kardashians are too fucking anti-black for yall to be playing around like this lmao.

[ramdaughter]

check the notes to die instantly but on a more serious note i will say it’s so crazy to me that people are getting so shocked and mad and offended over my saying that a lot of these here ‘trends’ are just the result of yall trying to look like great value black (particularly african american) women…like yall do ya squats and then I see posts like ‘who needs black women?’ yall get ya lips plumped and overlined then i see aamito lagum getting harassed for daring to model mac lip colors. yall do ya lil braids and dreads and then I see lil black girls get suspended from school for wearing natural hairstyles. yall wear all kinds of clownish shit and call it streetwear but then I see every black girl who dares to think outside the box get called ratchet. yall ‘tan’ and ‘bronze’ then treat dark girls like shit cause yall feel like it. yall fetishize black dick while denigrating and devaluing black women.

yall take and take and take from black culture while not giving a damn about our struggles.

yall are foolish, yall are disgusting, yall can’t have it both ways, and yall should be fucking ashamed.

[paprika]

[rlymax-deactivated20140421]

help I’ve fallen and am perfectly capable of getting up but refuse to

[obligatory-regal-name]

[attndotcom]

A brilliant explanation of consent for anyone who STILL doesn’t get it. 

[bolontiku]

Never not reblog

[anxietyproblem]

This blog is Dedicated to anyone suffering from Anxiety! Please Follow Us if You Can Relate: ANXIETYPROBLEMS

[sarahseeandersen]

[theyfoundmeagain-deactivated201]

This has made me realise just how far i’ve come with so much this last year

[historicalemily]

!!!

[slimetony]

Alpine Ibexes climb nearly 90 degree angles to lick salt deposits of of mountainsides. They crave that mineral.

[bulbabushka]

Pretend ur invasive self hating thoughts r being said to u by a 13 y/o boy on xbox live trying to get a rise out of you like “Your girlfriend dumped you because you’re ugly” that’s nice tim isn’t it past ur bedtime

[hellfucingshitfuck-deactivated2]

also, if you have intrusive violent thoughts, pretend they’re being said to u by an annoying backseat driver

“drive into that pole” thanks karen or i could not do that

[emmmpty]

Perfect

[the-neon-pineapple]

you can also pretend that the Super Paranoid thoughts are being said by that conspiracy theorist in your history class

“maybe they poisoned you” maybe you should fuck off, geoffrey-with-a-g

[venusian--eye-deactivated201606]

OHH MAN I DO THIS SHIT EVERY DAY

[dapperpea]

My favorite for intrusive anxious thoughts is to pretend Spock’s behind you with an answer.

“did I lock the door-”

captain you have locked the door every day for over ten years, and it is very hard for most people to break even subconscious habits, so you most definitely locked the door

[zetsubonna]

I told my new psychiatrist about how I learned this from y'all and his eyes lit up. He didn’t smile but he did nod a whole bunch of times, it was great.

[merelyimmortal]

I like to pretend that my intrusive thoughts are being said to me by a super uptight religious white lady

“god hates you because you don’t believe in him” “your failures are too great to be forgiven by anyone” “everything you do is wrong and you are going to burn in hell”

thanks for the input brenda but fuck right off

[thatoneqprblog-blog]

I would just like to say that I love you all for this idea.

[disabledfeministvoice]

Reblogging this for a friend.

[ryncoon]

This is extremely helpful. Intrusive thoughts are intrusive because they go AGAINST our personality/desires/values. So characterizing them as an outsider saying dumb shit to you takes a lot of the burden off, I find. That nasty horrible thing didn’t really come from me, it came from the malfunction henceforth known as [whatever you wanna call it]. Mine usually come in the form of suggestions/urges for…. really bad things to do. And instead of getting worked up over how could I think such a HORRENDOUS thing, I can reply with a little ‘haha how about not. Jerk.’ 

We can’t control them, but we can control how we respond to them.

[labelleizzy]

i call them brainweasels, and the first time naming them and then telling them to STFU and then they DID? MAGIC. 

[doggosource]

master of the subway

[icameas-roman]

THEYRE ON AN ADVENTURE!!

[y-o-u-t-h-s]

[mayaangelique]

[heartbreakhur]

[heartbreakhur]

follow me on instagram: chriissi_x

[bisexuanal]

You can really tell who’s never experienced poverty and food insecurity when it comes to discussions around food costs and how unhealthy food is cheaper. Some fucker always comes in with the price of like… lettuce or… apples. And it’s like yeah bitch but can you work an 11 hour shift after eating some salad and an apple!?! Find me something cheaper, and more filling than the broke ass staples of boxed mac and cheese, hot dogs, noodles, bread, beans, and rice. I’ll wait.

It also ignores the mental toll that poverty takes like maybe your home made veggie filled recipe isn’t crazy expensive but it also involves prep time and cooking time and organization in terms of fresh food that a lotta poor people can’t manage.

Not to mention if you can only afford to get to the store once every couple weeks via bus or cab then you can’t keep fresh veg on deck.

But ya know.. poor people are just dumb and lazy.

[bisexuanal]

People reblogging this with “actually you can do this super labour intensive prep and only buy bulk which means more money on grocery day and all this storage space you defs have when you’re poor” and it’s like……… did you read this at all

[bisexuanal]

And all the “well actually” replies on this post operate from the assumption poor people haven’t thought of these things…. or don’t know any of these things or are too lazy which I mean was my original point and people just continue to prove it …..

[fuzzbutt78]

[drearycheery]

a lot of TERFs speak like they’re giving a speech in a movie. One time one of them referred to me & my “brethren”, which they then had to clarify meant trans people and their supporters. I still think about that and laugh sometimes. “you and your brethren” fedgyejgfjhdgsjhksa like what are we, viking warriors?

[drearycheery]

reblog if you are a viking for trans rights

[cartoonsondrugs]

[kochjada1991]

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