Guide #9: Don't get upset just because he's now your ex.
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Guide #9: Don't get upset just because he's now your ex.
There's plenty of fish in the sea
So you've just endured your first breakup in college? Well why don't you go cry about it? No seriously, cry about it! If i have learned anything in college it is that when something bothers you, whether it's a breakup or too much stress, sometimes the best thing to do is just let it all out.
Now if you find yourself crying over every guy you date you may be getting too invested in them and the guy probably isn't worth the tears. However, dating can be difficult in college so don't go rushing into it. Most guys I've come to find are scared of commitment and who can blame them? We are twenty years old we have our whole lives ahead of us there is no need to get tied down right away.
Guide #9: Don't get upset just because he's now your ex.
If you are one of those people who finds love in a hopeless place like Rihanna and Chris Brown, and then some tragic event occurs which causes your undying love to well die, make sure you let all of your emotions out. If you don't you might end up being that girl who is too intoxicated and bawling about her ex to some random guy at a bar. Trust me, it is not a good reputation to have.
Get your best friends together, turn on some John Mayer, grab the Ben & Jerrys and let it all out. And like my mom always says, "Boys are scum girls, boys are scum."
2009.09.26 - IMG_0066 by rramphal on Flickr.
Guide #8: Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.
Eating Habits
"I hate these dryers they are seriously shrinking my clothes." My roommate last year used to complain all the time about the "horrible dryers" but what she didn't realize was that it wasn't the dryer it was her. She, like almost every other kid on campus, had an unlimited meal plan and she was putting it to use.
Guide #8: Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.
Almost every college campus offers meal plans, aside from state schools, and they will make the plans seem necessary so that you buy one. However, I quickly found that this is far from the truth. After spending 1600 dollars on a meal plan I soon found myself going to the grocery store to buy food because I was not interested in what the dining hall served.
During finals week life can become quite stressful but that doesn't give you a get-out-of-jail-free card. You still have to make sure that you are eating right and not downing 3 bags of goldfish every hour. And don't forget that alcohol has a ton of calories so be smart about your drinking habits. You may realize that all your hard work at the gym becomes irrelevant every time you take a sip of that beer.
Now that you are on your own you have to take responsibility for your health and what you are putting into your body. You cannot sit around and eat junk food every day unless diabetes and obesity seem cool to you. Find a health food site and try out different ways to eat yummy food that is better for you! For more healthy eating tips visit this site:
http://www.myoptumhealth.com/portal/Information/item/Healthy+Eating+Tips+for+College+Students?archiveChannel=Home%2FArticle&clicked=true
Just a phone call away..
We've all been through our teenage angst years where hating our parents was "cool" but you will soon find yourself missing mom and dad more than you imagined.
Guide #7: Its always ok to call mom and dad!
There are times when school will become very stressful. Between exams, projects, and new relationships (both romantic and platonic) you find yourself needing that supportive voice telling you it will all be ok. Although you may think college is supposed to be about growing up and being on your own there's no shame in admitting that you need your moms help.
Photo by Nicole Howlett.
When I first got caught up in the rush of being at school I forgot to call home at all, even to just check in. My mom ended up emailing me while I was in class one day and I began to cry (not like an ugly sob but a flustered teary-eyed I miss my parents cry). I did not even realize I missed the old routine of seeing my parents every day and being able to ask them for money if I needed it.
Now I find myself calling my mom at least once a week whether its just to check in and see how my family is or to tell her of things happening at school. Parents are embarrassing and annoying and sometimes you wish yours were different, but you will miss them. Make sure you stay in touch!
shower tote by [email protected] on Flickr.
Guide #6: Personal hygiene will never be the same.
Rain drops keep falling on my head...
Most kids get to college and think things will be just as good as, maybe even better than, living at home. However, they fail to focus on the most important item on their back-to-school shopping list...shower shoes.
Guide #6: Personal hygiene will never be the same.
All students are told of sharing showers with the entire floor but most don't realize that this is not your typical shower from home. UF freshman public relations major, Carly Michaels, describes her floor's showers as "beyond gross." Michaels went on to tell me of her struggle to remember her shower shoes every time she goes to shower in the morning. "It's hard to create a sort of new habit with remembering to grab my shower caddy with all of my stuff (shampoos etc) and my shoes."
Don't let the stories frighten you though, there is nothing harmful about communal showers as long as you remember to bring everything with you. Trust me you don't want to make a second trip down the hall because you forgot your razor! "I'm sure I'll get the hang of it soon until then I'll keep my sticky note by the door that reminds me to grab my stuff," said Michaels.
For some useful tips on good hygiene check out this site:
http://www.eduinreview.com/blog/2009/09/five-must-do-dorm-room-hygiene-tips/
This video is a highlight of the fraternity Delta Chi's annual philanthropy called "Earthball" in which students are encouraged to come out and play the game. Each team pays an entry fee and all the money goes to the Jimmy V Foundation for Cancer Research. This is just one way students at the University of Florida get involved.
Get involved!
Just because you're in a different town doesn't mean all those volunteer hours from high school has to go to waste.
Guide #5: Dont be selfish, help someone!
In high school everyone was forced to do community service hours and although you pretend to dread it, it made you feel like a better person afterwards. And now that you're an "adult" you can decide for yourself to be a better person. So go do something! Get involved!
Photo by Sara Merson.
Alyssa Barron, a freshman business major at UF, volunteers at Metcalf Elementary school once a week. There she reads to the young kids and plays games outside. "It is so much fun volunteering there I always leave feeling like a little kid."
You don't have to volunteer to get involved, you can join a club on campus or participate in a 5k. My point is don't sit around on your butt, get up get out and get involved!
how to gain weight 4 by how to gain weight on Flickr.
Guide #4: Dont let the Freshman 15 eat you.
What's an extra 15 pounds?
Although you will come across many a white lie in college, the freshman 15 is not one of them.
Guide #4: Dont let the Freshman 15 eat you.
We've all experienced weight gain as we have grown up and buying bigger clothes was a sort of exciting right of passage. But once you get to college life begins to become much more stressful. And as you sit in the library for hours upon hours you begin to shove your face with snack foods and fast food that your roommate has brought to keep you alive. Days like this will become so routine that the people at Chipotle end up knowing you by name, and that is ok.
A few ways to avoid the freshman 15 is to decline the offer for a meal plan. A lot of students get an unlimited meal plan once they get to school but you end up saving a lot of money and a lot of tears by buying healthier foods from the grocery store. On top of that you should take advantage of the gymnasium on campus. Our school has two huge gyms that are packed with equipment and trainers that are always willing to help.
Yes, when we were in high school bragging about only being 100 pounds was the greatest feeling of life and the boys were always showing off their 6 packs during those summer beach days. But a part of growing up means gaining curves just don't let those curves turn into fat.
For some good cardio, strength training and stretching exercises to do in your dorm room check out this website:
http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/fitness_articles.asp?id=629
My sports media teacher played this for us before our final exam, could be motivational when you're going to your first exam with butterflies in your belly!
the first exam..
That dreadful first exam rolls around about a month into each semester and everyone begins to freak out. But I am here to tell you not to let it worry you!
Guide #3: Dont stress the first test
The first test for each class is not something to blow off completely but you shouldn't make yourself anxious over it. Definitely study and go over everything you have for the class but when it comes to taking the test don't let your nerves get the best of you. A lot of people stress so much about trying to get 100 percent on the first exam when in reality its more of a jumping off point for you to see how that professor asks questions and how the grading system works. Try asking someone who has been in that class before for advice on how to study for each exam or go to websites like ratemyprofessor.com to see what other people have to say about them!
Living on your own..
Now that you have picked your schedule the next big step in your collegiate career is to choose whom you are going to live with.
Guide #2: Who you live with is kind of a BIG deal.
Photo taken by: Allison Mosca.
Do not take this step lightly. When choosing a roommate most people automatically assume that picking their best friend is the best idea. However from experience I have found this to be the worst decision not only for my personal wellbeing but also for my friendship. If you do plan to live with your best friend be careful to not set expectations for one another, especially if they plan to rush. After two years of roommates I have found that random roommates are a great thing.
Just remember that who you live with is not always the person you want to do everything with, and if your roommate starts to bother you you're going to want to be able to run to your BFF and vent to them about it.
Welcome to college! Make sure you meet lots of new people, learn all the rules, and above all have a great time!
Congrats you're in college now!
Once you get to your new school, be it a University or state school, the first thing you will have to do is pick your schedule. A lot of times when freshman arrive on campus they already have an idea of what they want their major to be. The school will send them towards the college within the University that holds their desired major. After waiting many hours in an office with a bunch of other eager new students an advisor will call them into a smaller room to discuss their first semester of classes.
But becareful not to confuse the advisor with your high school guidance counselor.
The academic advisors on collegiate campuses are nothing like guidance counselors, they are not there to empathize for you when classes get difficult, they are not there to talk to when you realize your major is nothing like what you want to do, they are simply there to convince you to take classes. And hard classes at that.
I learned quickly that my advisor did not understand me at all by the fact that she wanted me to take 3 extremely difficult courses my first semester of college. I went along with what she told me and eventually had to drop a course because I was so overwhelmed.
Guide Number 1: Sometimes the advice isn't always right.
Just because your advisor may tell you to pick certain classes because they have available spots does not necessarily mean you should. Try talking to older students, go online and see what sites like ratemyprofessor.com says, and think hard about how your personal work ethic is. If taking more than two core classes causes you to have anxiety then you should probably sit down with someone more understanding of your academic capabilities, like your mom or your classmate from high school, and have them help you decide your classes.
Remember college is supposed to be difficult but it's not supposed to stress you out. Make your first semester more enjoyable, after all you do have to get acclimated to the new campus, new friends, and being away from home.
Hey new friends!
Welcome to my blog! Well it's more of a survival guide for the average college freshman than a blog really.
My name is Maggie McCall and I am a sophomore advertising major at the University of Florida. When I first got to UF I had no idea what was going on, if only there had been someone to give me helpful tips on how to get through my first year.
From changing majors, to bodily changes (freshman 15), to your first collegiate heartbreak, this blog will cover everything that you as a newbie will encounter.
Hope its helpful!!