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ATEEZ BAD M/V (2026)

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ATEEZ Being a Safe Haven for Queer Fans (more)

huge part of online fandom etiquette is to not spread other fandom people's bullshit online. seeing a take of some rando that is upsetting you and will definitely upset your fandom friends too? bury it, don't bring it up publicly, don't make others see it. people online are being mean and stupid? say internal fuck you to them, block, post something purely nice about the same thing, nip it in the bud. there are fandom wars happening? ignore them, don't notify anyone on the dash of it no matter how much you want to complain, let them die out instead of fanning the flames to make them spread further on another person. if that's not possible, rant and whine a bit in dms of one cool friend who is easy going and will make fun of that bullshit with you for a few minutes and help you feel lighter. there will always be miserable people online. sometimes a lot of them will be miserable at once and it will be very loud and visible and hard to ignore. learn to and don't let it snowball effect itself by transmitting the bad vibes and the existence of bad opinions to a next person, who might at this moment be clueless about it and be in the middle of having the time of their life with whatever it is you both chose to love so much, and will probably get that beautiful special moment ruined if you drag the dirt around in front of them. have fun with fandom. keep it cleaner from dirt. let your friends have fun with it carefreely and joyfully. the only way to fight this kind of hate is by loving louder

#fandom #mine #also i'm really really sorry i unfollowed pretty much everyone else i was mutuals with #i hope we can still be friends and talk sometimes i'm very sorry if i upset you #i'm really very exhausted i want to make it easier for myself #i was having fun and then it stopped #ateez are so precious to me too but the feeling of resentment grows and grows with every tiny moment of this

months i was doing especially bad. depression sucked, grief sucked. and on a random day one fandom person got upset at a pretty harmless post of mine, and made a whole public post of their own about how terrible of a person i am and how i should kill myself. the way seeing that felt fucking sucked. i was already at a very low point and got a nasty bonus punch in the gut. it was cruel of them since they followed me for a while and simply couldn't not have seen on the dash that i was very suicidal and depressed. because i talked about being that, a lot. and it's not my first day on the internet, people online are mean, younger people are even meaner, shit happens, i would have gotten over it. except i really really couldn't, because that person is a popular blogger in the fandom spaces i inhabit and i would see their name all over the dash, everyday, from every single mutual of mine without exceptions, even after blocking. so that dirty slimey feeling stayed and kept growing and slapping me in the face in random moments, and i couldn't get over it because that person just was there all the time, reminding me. i am doing my best not to be miserable anymore and it's stupid to be so affected by an unkind stranger on the internet. so i'm sorry but i unfollowed many people because i don't want to deal with the trace of that person on the dash anymore, so that i can get my shit together and be more carefree. but i hope we can stay friends

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