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Chinese wushu technique, shuang-jie-gun. (CR 楚儿霸王)

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i wanted to install some language mods but the most popular ones were "adverb remover" and "sexy vowels" so i lost faith in the modding community instantly

ri5k

the replacement of websites with apps sounds so backwards when you actually describe it. like hmm you have to download an entire program onto your device each time you want access to a portal, where it takes up storage indefinitely. somebody should invent an app where you can "browse" any portal just by typing in its address... 🥴

liquidstar

sorry there was a mix up at the clinic and we neutered your golden retriever boyfriend by mistake. yeah he doesnt have balls now. sorry.

liquidstar

yeah hes taking it alright but it might be because hes high as hell on morphine or whatever they give those dogs. dont ask me im just the front desk guy. anyway we shoved him inside that dog carrier, can you just take him and leave?

liquidstar

oh the actual golden retriever got the extra nuts surgery your boyfriend was scheduled for. here at the combination plastic surgeon veterinarian building. yeah he has twice as many balls now, we really fucked this one up sorry. bye.

indouscurse

you have to consciously unlearn racism and continue to watch for it because it will come out without realizing. because so much of society is structured around it. shrugging and going "i dont care" or "i dont know how else to say it" means you are okay with being racist and hurting other people with how much you dont give a shit about them.

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The Netherlands - Author: SoftlyUnhingeddd

roseworth

thank uou for showing me your little white boy i do not like him can you put him away please

tarragonthedragon

idk i just feel like "it is more acceptable and in fact encouraged to mock anything enjoyed primarily by women" and "being enjoyed primarily by women does not make thing feminist and righteous" are thoughts that can and should coexist

tarragonthedragon

oh and also "even if the thing is bad your criticism of it can come from a place of patronising misogyny"

caspercryptid

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.