Love is 4 Walls

Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together.

[ohaio-art]

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“I feel like a failure because I’m struggling to become something and I don’t even know what it is.”

— Unknown

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“And even if we never talk again, please remember that I’m forever changed by who you are and what you meant to me.”

— Chasing Amy

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“Some people don’t like you because your strength reminds them of their weakness. Don’t let haters slow you down.”

— Thema Davis

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“Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.”

— Unknown

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“Once you realize there is life after mistakes, you gain a self-confidence that never goes away.”

— Bob Schieffer

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“Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it.”

— Unknown

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“Funny how your life improves when you surround yourself with positive, affirming, accepting and non-judgmental people.”

— Unknown

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“There’s really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don’t any more.”

— Unknown

[chibird]

This chibird charged the 2021 good luck charm by drinking warm tea, humming Animal Crossing music, and watching videos of baby corgis. ✨ There’s no way it’s not effective! I’m wishing you all a bright start to the new year. 💛

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Get Over Past Mistakes

1. Remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes, does things wrongs, and has moments of regret. There are no perfect people out there. In that sense, you are just the same as everybody else.

2. Remind yourself that “that was then, and this is now”. You can’t turn back the clocks and change what you did, but you can be a different person in the future.

3. Allow yourself to experience and name the feelings you are struggling with (regret, guilt, shame, disappointment, embarrassment, sadness, etc.) – then make the decision to let those feelings go. In the end, it’s unhealthy to become attached to them.

4. Ask yourself what you can learn from the situation. What would you do differently if you found yourself in that situation again? How can it change the person you are now (so that you feel better about yourself)?

5. Recognise that failings and mistakes are part of the growth process. It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter obstacles, challenges and failures throughout life. Don’t let that stop you from really living life.

6. Remind yourself that “it was what you did, it’s not who you are.” Don’t allow any single event or experience to define you. You are more than that – so don’t let it become your identity, or your destiny.

7. Give yourself the gift of a new day and a new start. Forgive yourself, let go of the past, and with confidence move on with your life.

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“Time will pass; this will pass; and I will eventually be myself again.”

— HPLYRIKZ.COM

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“Every night her thoughts weighed heavily on her soul, but every morning she would get up to fight another day. Every night she survived.”

— r.h.sin

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“Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and they will come forth, later, in uglier ways.”

— Sigmund Freud

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“You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.”

— Thich Nhat Hanh

[chibird]

2020 was a tough year for a lot of us. Don’t feel bad if it didn’t turn out how you expected- I don’t think anyone’s did. The sacrifices we made to protect each other were definitely worth it! Here’s to a better 2021! 💛 

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