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the first marker drawing i made in my new sketchbook. idk why i decided to post it last 🤔#copicmarkers #stylizedart #characterdesign #sketchbook #markerdrawing #redraw https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs_jvjthIZc/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ux0sepn5xbi6

#copicmarkers #stylizedart #characterdesign #sketchbook #markerdrawing #redraw

the only thing i like about this one is the face 🙃 #copicmarkers #markerart #stylizedart #androgynous #nonbinary #sketchbook #traditionalmedia #fashionillustration #painterly #mixedmedia https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs8vm7HhPoQ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=8tcih81jqfva

#copicmarkers #markerart #stylizedart #androgynous #nonbinary #sketchbook #traditionalmedia #fashionillustration #painterly #mixedmedia

notglacier

you know this fucking tune

stuffmikeclicked

They made it into a ringtone because it was old enough to be public domain, and Nokia (I think?) didn’t want to have to pay royalties.

… I like the full version.

camdamage

Friendly reminders;

-Mental illness isn’t an excuse for abusing people, nor is it a “get out of jail free” card in terms of abusive actions.

-If you’re an abusive asshole you’re an abusive asshole, mental illness or no.

-Forgive yourself if you were driven deeper into your own mental illness by an abusive mentally ill partner.

-It’s ok to leave relationships with an abusive mentally ill person in order to save yourself - no matter how they try to spin the story or guilty you.

-It takes time to heal after long term abuse. It’s ok to be angry - it’s ok to not forgive them.

#self care

zelldas

no other person on this planet was made for you, they were made for themselves. love is all about choices. no one is going to be perfect for you, and i think we need to stop raising everyone on the belief that someone out there, just one other person in the whole world, was “made for you” because it isn’t true. no one is made for you, besides you. other people belong to themselves. if you want to make it work with someone, it’s about hard work, understanding, compassion, communication, and choice

https://youtu.be/X4bAiICYwlo

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i only accept apologies from men like this from now on

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Ed Skrein Exits ‘Hellboy’ Reboot After Whitewashing Outcry

prideprejudce

GOOD THINGS ARE HAPPENING

gorgonsach

sattickate

I am not a straight people.

Reblog if you are also not a straight people.

amatara

I’m pretending all the time to be, kinder, stronger, funnier, more sociable than I am. I guess we’re all like that but it just feels so inadequate.

animate-mush

What’s the difference?

I know it sounds flippant but… certain things are fundamentally performative. And other things are so close as makes no difference.

Kindness is performative. Actions are kind, and people are kind by performing those actions. You can’t “pretend” to be kinder than you are, you can only perform kindness or not perform kindness, and choosing to perform kindness is always worthwhile, no matter how much you may second-guess your motivations.

Strength is so many things. It takes strength to pretend a strength you don’t feel. And the way to achieve strength is to exercise it, so long as you do it in enough moderation to not strain or break anything. Being able to affect strength when necessary while being able to put it down again when that in turn is necessary is healthy. Everyone starts weight training with the littlest weights. It’s not fake or pretending to do what you gotta do in any given situation.

Funniness lives in the interlocutor, not in the speaker. It doesn’t matter how funny you think you are (or think you are pretending to be) - that’s not how it’s measured. At what point are you “pretending” to be a musician if the music still gets made? And often what it’s tempting to describe in first person as “pretending” is more accurately described in the third person as “practicing” - which is of course the way you cause things to Be.

Sociability is also performative. Pretending to be sociable is just…being sociable, despite a disinclination towards it. It’s making an effort towards something you value. So long as the effort is not so great that it backfires into resentment, there’s no practical difference.

Qualities or activities or whatever are no less worthy because you have to actively choose to perform them. If anything, the worthiness lies in the act of choosing. It’s not “pretending” - it’s agency.

tl;dr: ain’t nothing wrong with “fake it till you make it.” A plastic spoon* holds just as much soup as a “real” one

* I keep wanting to talk about semantic domains! Artifacts are defined by their utility, whereas living things are defined by their identity. So plastic forks are still forks, but plastic flowers aren’t flowers. So there’s two pep-talk messages to take away from this: (1) for certain things, the distinction between “fake” and “real” isn’t a relevant one so long as they still get the job done, and (2) the purpose of a living thing is to be the thing that it is. The idea of a “useless person” is as semantically nonsensical as the idea of “pretend kindness” (or fake cutlery).

#self positivity #self care