NO: underage, resus, dark cardiophilia, necro, furry, scat, degradation, dumbification.
I don't share pictures of myself so don't ask and I don't want to see pictures of you without preamble, either. I don't share my heartbeat unless I choose to, either, so don't ask. If I want to listen to your heartbeat, I'll ask. I don't role play or engage in virtual exams unless I feel like it and I don't do so with complete strangers that I've never talked to before. Just because I'm a kink blog doesn't mean I'm here to fulfill your fantasies or be treated like an object. I'm lots of fun and love to chat but I don't put up with rude or gross behavior. Show a little respect and we'll get along just fine. ♥
Click through the read more for my preferences and feel free to send an ask or DM if you have questions or want to say hello!
XoXo
credit goes to @torture-steth-repeat for this template
Cardiophilia Basics
1. My heart being listened to: yes
2. Listening to others' hearts: sometimes
3. Fast heartbeats: sometimes
4. Slow heartbeats: yes
5. Naturally irregular heartbeats: yes
6. Deliberately irregular heartbeats: hard no
7. Heart via stethoscope: yes
8. Heart via EKG: yes
9. Heart via doppler: yes
10. Heart via ultrasound: yes
11. Carotid (throat) pulse: yes
12. Femoral (groin) pulse: yes
13. Radial (wrist) pulse: yes
Dark Cardiophilia
1. Shocking a healthy heart: hard no
2. Pressure/crushing a healthy heart: hard no
3. Drowning + heart monitoring: only in fiction
4. Suffocation + heart monitoring: only in fiction
5. Choking + heart monitoring: only in fiction
6. Drugs used to affect the heart: nuance
7. Knifeplay + heart monitoring: nuance
8. Needle or injection into the heart: hard no
9. Gunplay (shooting the heart)*: hard no
10. Being dominated (in a cardiophilia way): yes
11. Dominating someone else (in a cardiophilia way): sometimes
12. Consensual non-consent (CNC) play: yes
13. Heart rips*: hard no
14. Fucked into cardiac arrest*: hard no
15. Heart being fucked*: hard no
16. Heart being licked or bitten*: hard no
17. Heart being eaten*: hard no
18. Hands squeezing the heart directly*: hard no
19. 'Unhappy endings' (RIP) for dark cardiophilia*: hard no
decided to treat myself for valentine's day the other week and finally ordered myself a set of hegar sounds and when i tell you that the orgasm i had with that sound inside me is the best one i've ever had, it still doesn't do what i experienced justice
Telling someone 'no' when you have a boundary is actually doing them a huge favor. Cool people will love you for this.
People who are angry or weird about this are not worth caring about at all, and they are the ones being rude to YOU no matter what anyone says.
There's never been a way to remove people's kinks and fetishes that isn't psychologically harmful. We can't know exactly how kinks and fetishes develop, but once they are there, they are not a moral choice or a moral failing.
Moral failings only happen when we hurt living things in the real world.
Don't sleep on giving your partner's pulses some affection.
Press your lips to their neck and feel their pulse beat against them.
Press your thumb against their wrist when you're kissing, feel their pulse race against it.
Press your tongue against their throat, bite down and feel their pulse between your teeth.
thinking about a doctor going further and further, getting more and more inappropriate with me, while maintaining a completely professional tone.
normal breast exam morphing to playing with them, squeezing and twisting my nipples all the while telling me its important to test both nipples sensitivity.
checking my mouth turning into their gloved fingers in it, touching every spot, moving with curiosity closer to my throat. while i drool and gag, they reassure me that feeling for abnormalities has always been done like this and i'm doing so well.
after a regular vaginal exam they start to play with my clit, fingers wandering inside me. before long they insist, its always been important for a doctor to make sure i can cum.
thinking about a doctor casually violating me, trying to see what they can get away with...