Dearest.

He/him/his. New blog, still being set up. Not our main.

[heartlikeanember]

Warning for stamps with flashing text at the very bottom.

Yes, hello. We are a couple different subsystems, but as a whole, you can call us Ember.

We are a magnifragmented HC-DID system and collectively are gay and transmasculine.

Opinions may vary slightly between alters, but each and every one of us who runs this blog is anti-endo and anti-radqueer. Endos/radqueer do not interact.

💌 INTRODUCTIONS 💌

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🌹 INTRODUCTIONS 🌹

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DNI:

Anti LGBTQIA+

Anti Xenogender

(Pro/Neutral) Endogenics

(Pro/Neutral) Willogenics

(Pro/Neutral) Radqueer

(Pro/Neutral) Trans-abled

(Pro/Neutral) Trans-harm(ed/ful)

(Pro/Neutral) Trans-race

Other DNI can vary between alters, but this is what we've all agreed on.

This is not our main. We have no problem if you discover our main (although it is ran by only one alter) but we do request you keep it low-key.

[angelsofchaos]

dn, prns, role, desc, custom front for plural space

copy & paste in comments. 👍 info fake

[heartlikeanember]

Does anyone know how to add the custom roles , ,, I can't figure it out ><

[c1rcus-of-the-stars]

🌈🌈🌈NON-INVASIVE SYSTEM ASK GAME YIPPEEEEE 🌈🌈🌈

❤️ - What is your system name? How did you choose it?

🧡 - Do different alters have different favorite games? What would you say is the most popular game among your system?

💛- Pick one (or more) alter(s). If they were a cereal, which one would they be and why?

💚 - Do you associate your system with any colors? Why those colors?

🩵 - What’s one thing your grateful to your system for?

💙 - If you had a million dollars, how would each alter spend it?

💜 - what’s something you thought was normal pre-syscovery that you have since realized does not happen to most people? (Can be as silly or deep as you want)

🩷 - Does your system play any sports? Are any alters better at that sport than others?

🌈 Bonus, non system related: Do you have any pets? What’s their name? Show a picture!!

[lokilysolbitch]

y'all know when someone keeps talking about their "quirky" childhood and adult habits but it's just like. textbook examples of a complex dissociative disorder. but you can't just be like "maybe you're a system" bc that could freak them out way too much all at once.

or you'll offhandedly mention a Uniquely System Specific Experience and they go "wait i relate to that lol. it must be from my depression/anxiety/etc" like. uhmmmm. not quite, not quite. time loss and seeing people in your head that grow and change independently of you is not uh,,,,,,,,,i don't think that's anxiety uh,,,,,,,,

[heartlikeanember]

Maybe not a ' textbook example ' but I used to dissociate as a flex

I'd be like, " look what I can do! " and then stare at a wall for three hours until someone came and physically moved me, or ' turn off my emotions ' ( and I don't remember much of this one because. You know. Dissociation ) but I do remember one time I did it for like three years.

[heartlikeanember]

30 days of DID: Day 2

Who knows about your system? Who do you want to know? What do you feel like it’s like coming out as multiple?

IRL, nobody. We used to have friends who did, but they turned out to not be the best people to confide in. We are also homeschooled and still in an abusive environment, so there's not many people to tell anyway. Online, many people know. I don't exactly keep it private.

Sometimes I feel like I want everyone to know, and sometimes nobody. It depends.

We haven't had to "come out" (hate that phrasing) as a system in a while, but last time was rather scary, so I suppose it's not a pleasant thing for us.

[neo-pilled]

Common things in DID that no one likes to talk about

- switches that feel like you’re turning into someone else rather than them taking control (non-possessive switching)

- being unable to recognize amnesia until something requires you to remember something you forgot

- staying in the front for weeks at a time

- being unable to communicate with alters internally (this is so common why does everyone act like this is weird?)

- feeling like you don’t have any problems because you feel disconnected from them

- constant denial

- rapid identity, label, and appearance changes

- comorbidities, particularly personality disorders, anxiety disorders, and the schizophrenia spectrum

- autism (there is science pointing towards autistic people being more susceptible to trauma)

- disliking your system

- wanting final fusion

[heartlikeanember]

I wanna do that 30 days of DID things so I guess this is day one!

— 💕🔪

Describe your system. What kind of system, how big, anything you feel is a good introduction.

I am the host of a polyfragmented C-DID system. We currently have 300 known members (mostly fragments) and are made up of several layers and subsystems.

[spiraling-system-flag-coins]

System Orientation Term ; Dissociagay (DissociaMLM)

ID - Top Row: Rainbow Flag, Bottom Row: MLM Left: Rainbow Stripe (Ampersand) , Center: Rainbow Stripe, Right: Rainbow Stripe (Cog)

A flag for systems that have a collective orientation and use the Gay or MLM label. Though it may fluctuate between alters, the system itself is Gay/MLM.

ID - Top Row: Rainbow Flag, Bottom Row: MLM Left: White Stripe (Ampersand) , Center: White Stripe, Right: White Stripe (Cog) ((MLM with no icon and white stripe omitted bc thats just.... the original flag....)

NOTICE! Some flags contain traumagenic only/anti-endo symbols, those being the rainbow stripe and the cog.

Other System Orientation Flags

[spiraling-system-flag-coins]

System Orientation Term ; Dissociaqueer

ID - Left: Rainbow Stripe (Ampersand) , Center: Rainbow Stripe, Right: Rainbow Stripe (Cog)

A flag for systems whose queerness and orientation is directly affected by their CDD. This term is more of an umbrella, but can also represent a system who's orientation collectively is very fluid and changes frequently and/or a system who has no collective orientation at all.

ID - Left: White Stripe (Ampersand) , Center: White Stripe, Right: White Stripe (Cog)

NOTICE! Some flags contain traumagenic only/anti-endo symbols, those being the rainbow stripe and the cog.

Other System Orientation Flags

[anti-willo-deku]

I have a love hate relationship with the system community.

I love it because noone has to feel alone with this disorder, but hate it because sometimes it becomes an echo chamber for infighting, discourse (that gets recycled once every 6 months) and misinformation

Don't get me wrong, it's a wonderful place (sometimes) but I can't help but wonder when the next argument or discourse will pop up, y'know?

Theres also how most systems seem to enable their dissociation via language they use in posts, saying things like "the body" which is separating themselves from their body. (I suggest "our body" if "my body" is still to difficult which is valid)

or "the hosts parents" do y'all know that they are your collective parents? Try grounding yourself and connecting with external relationships like your parents (trust me, it helps)

(This isnt a dig at anyone, just some things I notice. Nor am I saying you have to change the way you talk, it just helps with being grounded if you dont use language to separate yourself from your life)

[anti-willo-miku]

Ah, how pitiful. I fell for a pretender again. Can't have honest people on Tumblr anymore. Also, you should respect the elders. It's not "fuck off", it's "please delete my reblog", sweetie. I will not delete it until you ask for it nicely.

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[gardensofdeath]

The day people realise “facets” are a natural things humans have. switching between different ‘personalities’ between groups and people can be called three things; role switching, code switching, or mirroring.

I know everyone wants to be special but it is genuinely unhealthy to consciously divide moods.

[anti-endo-sleepover]

🦄🌙 Anti-endo System Ask Game 🌙🦄

Introduce yourself !

🎂⋆ Do you have a collective name or a system name ? How did you choose it ?

🍓⋆ What pronouns do you prefer to go by ? Are there exceptions in the system ?

🦋⋆ What do you like to do in your free time ?

🌺⋆ What's your dream job ?

🌞⋆ Do you play an instrument ? If not, is there one you would like to learn ?

🍨⋆ Do you speak multiple languages ? Which ones ?

🐇⋆ Do you have pets ? Would you like to introduce them ?

About your systemhood !

🌜⋆ What is your preferred term to refer to alters ?

🪻⋆ Do you prefer to be referred to as multiple people, a system, a person with a CDD or something else ?

💫⋆ When and how did you realize you had a CDD ?

⭐⋆ Do you have a lot of amnesia ? How do you deal with it in your day to day life ?

✨⋆ How do you experience switches ?

🌱⋆ Do you have grounding techniques that you like to use ?

☘️⋆ Do you have an inner world ? Would you like to share some fun facts about it ?

About favorites and comfort media !

🌈⋆ What's your favorite color ?

🦩⋆ What's your favorite animal ?

🌷⋆ What's your favorite plant or flower ?

🍬⋆ What's your favorite food ?

🍧⋆ Do you have a comfort show, book or game ? What is it and what do you like about it ?

🐝⋆ Who is your favorite character in media ? Why ?

🌻⋆ What genre of your music is your favorite ? Do you have a favorite song? If so, which is it ?

🍒⋆ What kind of themes do you like most in games, books and/or games ?

[sa1ntg0re]

the only reason I call myself a proshipper is because I don't want antis to interact with me. the meaning of proship has been twisted around so much that even if I am against harassment and against censorship and pro kink and pro para (pro consent or otherwise anti contact) and pro recovery, i don't think i can find people who understand what proship means on either side. A lot of pro contact paraphiles are in proship communities but I still think I'd rather not have people who tell children to get raped are "the good guys".

I don't want to be told to kill myself for thinking coping through fiction is better than hurting real people (or animals for that matter).

at this point i just think people don't know what fiction is for anymore.

I'm gonna keep the label on this account because I already use the tags, but I think on my alt I'll just block antis instead so I don't get targeted

[anny--ol]

Hey reminder to the (pro)endos that keep bringing up trans people in the topic of systems,

being trans and gay were removed from the DSM because there’s was no scientific evidence that either of them were actual disorders.

Forming alters has scientific evidence to constantly prove that it can only happen through forming a CDD which can only happen through trauma.

(Pro)endos try not to bring up queer and trans people in the topic of mental illness GO

[sysanamoly]

i heard some systems split from the whole build a headmate thing and um..

i really REALLY hope all the systems that split are doing at least slightly better now, stay safe everybody. 😓

[make-it-anti-endogen]

In case you need them, here are some gentle reminders:

• Your trauma is valid, no matter how "minor" others think it is.

• Persecutors are allowed to exist.

• Protectors are allowed to make mistakes.

• Caregivers are allowed to take breaks.

• Littles are allowed to swear.

• Hosts are allowed to step back.

• It's okay for the smart sysmates to not know something.

• It's okay for the tough ones to cry.

• It's okay for the nice ones to stand up for themselves.

• It's okay for the persecutors forgive.

• It's okay for the protectors to let down their guard.

• Anxiety holders are allowed to be calm.

• Depression holders are allowed to feel happiness.

• Mood boosters are allowed to be sad.

• Anger holders are allowed to be happy

• All of you are loved.

• All of you are accepted on this page.

• All of you deserve nice things.

• All of you deserve to have good days.

• You matter.

• We love you. (platonically)