Greetings, dear users ! Our name is Thy Heavenly Rose Garden. Our blog is mostly for personal use, although we do help with flag IDs / alt text, SNPT (System, name, pronoun, title suggestions), and we might participate in some graphic creations. We currently do not plan on doing any coining of genders. We ask if you make a request use manners (please and/or thank you), don't use a typing quirks + fonts at all it's a choice you can make so type nornally. suck it up for accessibility reasons. Also no we will not "gift" you a Hawai'ian name that's not how it fuckin works 💀
BYI : We are 19 but that doesn't mean you can be a freak in dms. We have low empathy and only really care for our partner. we are a polyfragmented DID system. We rarely use our 'true' names on this account, so many of us will sign off with emojis, not sign off, or use titles (which is a part of our culture). We have chronic illnesses that affect all parts of our lives. Also, we rarely use tonetag, and please avoid using the tonetags /nm /npa /nbr /lu as it's just a double negative for us. We support a free Palestine, Congo, and people stop visiting or moving to Hawai'i because it's a "tropical retreat."
DNI : basic dni + anti good faith labels, afab perisex "tfems" / amab perisex "/tmasc", endogenic + any non traumagenic "system", radqueer + harmful transID + proshipper / thinks fiction doesn't effect reality, use closed names including as an introject (if it's not apart of your culture or open origin don't fucking use it !!), pro "israel" + Zionist + anything but pro palestine, pro harmful contact paras (ie the big 3), RAMCOA deniers, uses language symbols for decoration, font users + typing quirks users who refuse to translate.
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I've noticed there's 2 types of anti endos which is the ones who are completely intolerant of any form of endo and understand the true harm it is if they co exist with trauma survivors. These anti endos are strong on their boundaries, block endos, and when harassed do their best to push past it till it's likely too much. This might lead to aggression often after attempting to keep space and be as respectful about their boundaries as possible. They get villainized, dog piled, and disrespected for simply trying to keep their boundaries up.
The other being anti endos who are more willing to let them overstep, be rude, and ignore former anti endos boundaries for the sake of "peace". They are tolerant of endos if it means I don't have to deal with the drama. They'd rather put others comfort and safety in danger if it means they don't deal with too much backlash. They don't defend the people they are so called allies with instead keep their mouths shut to be seen as better than this petty drama.
It bothers be so much because you're anti endo yet you so blatantly ignore them hurting others in the process of YOUR idea of peace. The Paradox of Tolerance is exactly what happens in some anti endo communities. It's sad to say that many are so willing to allow appropriation of cultures and abuse of disabled people for the sake of being seen as a "one of the good anti endos". I can block all day long in fact I have over 200 people blocked happily on my discord but that doesn't change how they can still talk using PK while in the same server. It doesn't stop the conversations that "I'm losing friends cause I'm pro endo" or "everyone blocks me because I'm pro endo."
There is this idea we as trauma survivors have to tolerate people who see our disorder as a joke, who's whole livelihood was build on the idea our disorder isn't real. Why am I expected to sit still, be nice and play pretend with these individuals. Maybe not all endos end up being fakers, many likely have CDDs however there are plenty who actively see my disorder as a fun act. Why must I treat that person anything but how they present a joke and a for fun act.
I'm tired of being this kind anti endo, I won't harass I think that's a waste of time but I'm done asking more than once to have my boundaries respected. I'm done pretending like endos aren't just another form of parasocial child and adults to disabled people. I'm most of all tired of other anti endos who perpetuate he Paradox of Tolerance. If you wouldn't want a bigot in your space why allow them into mine?
Written by: Lux - sh☆ it light
might make my own side blog who knows
I know this server saw it on disboard and its a walking red flag. Why must people force trauma survivors of any kind around endos let alone survivors who in some cases were forced to have CDDs. It will always disgust me.
After a lot of work (and a lot of wanting to punch notion because tell me why are figuring out button automations so gosh damn hard TwT) i have a finished system notion template folks can use!! just duplicate it into your own notion and thats you!
I have added tutorials where i felt they were needed so hopefully things are a little better explained with them! As usual feel free to adjust it how you want! and if you have any questions feel free to shoot me an ask.
EDIT: Forgot to add, there is also a way to add previous front logs in the fronting history page at the very bottom! Just for anyone who wants to keep their Simply plural front history (This needs to be done manually unfortunately)
A tool that connects everyday work into one space. It gives you and your teams AI tools—search, writing, note-taking—inside an all-in-one, f
The progress to the notion template is slow however I am a decorator by heart. Currently the biggest struggle is finding all the things I'm going to need to add to the coping section in order for it to fit my desired vision. I don't want to just give people a resource without well resources. Thus far the DBT section is the most finished seeing as I have a lot of those resources.. wonder why the BHPD system would have those. Of course any screenshots are considered just a progress photo and might not be the end result as I am a perfectionist.
Currently there is a distraction tab, DBT, CBT and grounding tab. I should have done them in alphabetical order however I like DBT + distractions and I'm left handed so they go on the left. when the templates out you can always change things to fit your own desired liking. As for the PDFs they are free ones I've just grabbed off the internet seeing as well they exist there for a reason. I'm doing my best to avoid any and all AI images related to therapy which is sadly repent when it comes to graphics and charts.
Under the keep reading is a personal rant about this whole SP + Octocon situation. As well as why I took this project on and why I'm personally so passionate about it.
We've known about our system for a good chunk of our life and so has our current therapist. One of the first meeting with him while being 12~ was telling him about the voices in our head and how we've heard them for a few years. Slowly we learned about CDDs and later on began tracking our disorder. The years have been up and down however we've done our best to keep track of who's shown themselves let parts be themselves. We hated a lot of who we were for years and are currently dealing with a lot of denial again because of the EMDR we have started.
Simply plural has been a huge part of our systems stability when it comes to communicating knowledge, when splits happen and who holds what. It's been one of the most helpful tools and it saddens us that it's going away while we understand the reasoning we don't do well with change. Octocon has always been an app we've been iffy on using and just kept getting worse. It's honestly laughable the way they handled the situation and again I don't blame them a 2 week period is honestly pathetic. Even SP is giving users till around July which is as long as they can.
This notion is for my own love for the CDD community and those who need resources. I've been there wondering what roles are, how to track parts, if my experiences are valid. I'm still dealing with denial after having symptoms of this disorder for over half my life including much of it in therapy. Just know you are allowed to question things, to explore, and to be wrong about certain things. You're allowed to be human and there's nothing wrong with that.
Not my normal content however I'm actively making a notion template for other disordered systems who are looking into notion. With the anxiety around Simply Plural and my own dislike for octocon I wanted to take this time to work on a template I was already planning on making. For now I'll share a few screenshots of what I have and any suggestions on what people would like to see is more than welcome. I'll start off by saying I am a part time worker and I do have a life as well as currently starting a lengthy therapy process. I can't promise when this template will be out by however I will do my best to make it as accessible as possible.
Currently the main notion you will be met with will have 3 sections, one for parts to do bios each leading to their own page. The second being different areas inside the system if that's applicable for you. The 3rd section will have things such as general coping skills (the template will have some already written in), an area to journal, information about other disorders whether it's physical and / or mental. I also hope to add an area to help with tracking switches.
Other additions might include a calendar for important dates, to do lists related to mental health, affirmations / self care, and crisis hotline numbers.
It is currently almost 3 in the morning as I'm wrapping up this first chunk of the notion so if the grammar is bad that's why. Please remember I am an anti endo and do not wish to have endogenics or supporters interacting.
Update I've added the area template it's pretty bare as I have no idea what would even be good here. This is just what I thought was good. I might try to do a template you fill out like the about me however I think people would rather fill this part with however they think works best without that restriction. Yet again I am writing this very early in the morning due to my messed up sleep schedule.
(🪢) Mimi > hy/they/sleep . current decorator + other roles ig
Not my normal content however I'm actively making a notion template for other disordered systems who are looking into notion. With the anxiety around Simply Plural and my own dislike for octocon I wanted to take this time to work on a template I was already planning on making. For now I'll share a few screenshots of what I have and any suggestions on what people would like to see is more than welcome. I'll start off by saying I am a part time worker and I do have a life as well as currently starting a lengthy therapy process. I can't promise when this template will be out by however I will do my best to make it as accessible as possible.
Currently the main notion you will be met with will have 3 sections, one for parts to do bios each leading to their own page. The second being different areas inside the system if that's applicable for you. The 3rd section will have things such as general coping skills (the template will have some already written in), an area to journal, information about other disorders whether it's physical and / or mental. I also hope to add an area to help with tracking switches.
Other additions might include a calendar for important dates, to do lists related to mental health, affirmations / self care, and crisis hotline numbers.
It is currently almost 3 in the morning as I'm wrapping up this first chunk of the notion so if the grammar is bad that's why. Please remember I am an anti endo and do not wish to have endogenics or supporters interacting.
So, when you say you're anti-endo, do you mean you don't believe in endos but support them existing if they stay separate from CDD community, or do you not support them at all? I don't really believe in endos but i support them having their community, so i just want to know if i'm breaking any boundaries by interacting :)
(you don't have to answer tho if you don't want to!)
Generally, I don't really care who interacts with me, so long as they don't try to change my mind on my stances (including about endos). Outside of that, if you want to interact with me, you can. I make my stances public so people can just block if they're uncomfortable, and so I don't have to debate people on these things because it can be very exhausting.
On endos specifically, I have developed my beliefs after years of living with DID, reading the actual scientific literature, and witnessing the discourse in online system communities. I have heard every pro-endo argument under the sun and none of them have even come close to convincing me.
I'm anti-endo because the science has proven completely that alters and systemhood are a trauma-based phenomenon and are inextricably linked to PTSD on a psychological, neurobiological and behavioural level. No "evidence" to the contrary has ever come close to the decades of research we have proving this fact, and as time goes on we find more and more evidence that proves this.
In my opinion, "endos" are either just paying closer attention to the different integrated parts that naturally make up a person's self and choosing to view those parts as separate when they aren't, or are mislabelling symptoms from another disorder (psychosis, BPD, OCD, maladaptive daydreaming, etc) as alters.
As to whether I support them having their own community, I'm undecided. Generally, if someone is choosing to label themself in an unscientific way, but they aren't openly spreading misinformation or inserting themselves into DID/OSDD spaces, I take a live and let live approach, even if I disagree with them. However, there are so many severely harmful issues that permeate endogenic communities and are interwoven with their history that I don't think I can ever support them. I don't hold any ill will towards individuals who label themselves that way, but I absolutely do hold resentment towards the endogenic community as a whole.
Below the cut I'm going to list and briefly elaborate on all of my gripes (that I can think of at this moment) with "endogenic systems". Do not try to change my mind on any of these, you will not succeed and if you try I will block you. Again, I've heard it all. I'm putting this here so people can know my stance and block me if they so wish, and so I can speak my piece and then hopefully never have to address this issue again.
Complete and utter scientific illiteracy
Endogenics and their supporters routinely prove that they have no idea how scientific research actually works and do not understand even just the fundamentals of the things they argue about. Not having scientific literacy doesn't make you a bad person, but you should not be participating in scientific debates if you cannot understand the basics of scientific research and theory.
An example of this: there are a few studies that endos say prove their existence. But when you read the studies, all the researchers did is interview a few people who claim to be "non-disordered plurals" and found that they seemed to be functioning well enough that a psychiatric diagnosis is probably not necessary. That does not prove that endos exist. If a study does not outline an actual psychological/neurobiological process in which alters and systemhood can form without trauma, accompanied by actual hard proof with a large sample size, it does not prove the existence of "endogenic systems".
You can believe something that isn't true without that belief being caused by a mental illness, but that doesn't mean that belief is correct. The idea that someone who believes something that is scientifically untrue must be delusional or mentally ill in some way is ableist and inaccurate.
Again, this is extremely basic knowledge of how research works. A couple studies where a researcher interviewed "non disordered plurals" and found they were mostly functioning okay does not prove anything, and it certainly doesn't trump decades of scientific research proving that systemhood is purely post-traumatic in nature.
Same thing as when endos say "that source is about DID so it doesn't count!" Dissociative identity disorder is the scientific name for the presence of a system, any creditable research about systemhood will use the term DID. They're not studying the label, they're studying systemhood. Under that logic, research about DID wouldn't apply to OSDD or P-DID either. Making that argument just proves you have no idea how any of this works.
So many other examples are coming to mind but I'll just stick with those two so I don't ramble forever.
Endos just fucking lie all the time
Endos will very often say things that are so blatantly untrue, they're either intentionally lying or just making things up without checking anything.
Examples: when endos claim that non-disordered plurals coined "system" in the 90s when Pierre Janet was writing about dissociative personality systems in fucking 1907, when endos claim that the theory of structural dissociation was made by intentionally abusing children into developing DID, when endos claim that the DSM supports endogenic systems, etc.
Endos promote the fantasy and sociocognitive models of DID which are not scientifically valid and are literally anti-DID propaganda
It's common for endos to cite the fantasy and sociocognitive models of DID when trying to prove their claims. This also ties into scientific illiteracy, because those sources aren't claiming systems can form without trauma, they're claiming systems don't exist at all. These models were created by professionals who were making an organized effort to get DID removed from the DSM, and who also supported demonstrably false ideas designed to silence trauma survivors, such as false memory syndrome. Not only are these sources not scientifically valid, they are part of a disgusting movement against trauma survivors and they should never be treated as actual evidence.
Trying to convince someone they're an "endo system" can be extremely dangerous and the risk should never be taken
There have been so many incidents of endos trying to convince people they were an endo system when they actually just had psychosis, BPD, maladaptive daydreaming or actual DID.
Fixating on disconnecting yourself from the natural parts that make up your self, convincing yourself there are other beings inside your head that can control you, etc can be extremely dangerous and many people have suffered psychotic breaks because of this. Psychotic breaks are even common in non-endo tulpamancy communities. Believing your BPD mood swings or maladaptive daydreams are "headmates" causes further disconnection from yourself which makes those issues harder to treat, and can cause severe dissociative or psychotic episodes. And of course, interacting with your DID symptoms when you are convinced you don't have trauma leads to worsened dissociation, flooding of trauma flashbacks, and suicidal ideation.
If an online endogenic community has to exist, it should be incredibly niche and confined to a part of the internet that you are only likely to reach after you have already been evaluated for psychosis, BPD, MaDD and actual DID and found to have none of them. It is way more likely that the explanation for feeling like multiple people or hearing voices inside your head will be some kind of psychiatric disorder, and convincing yourself you're an endo system when you actually have an untreated disorder could literally get you killed.
In addition to that, there have been many instances in which a person has openly said that their experiences are caused by psychosis and endos have tried to convince them they're just plural, and even gone as far to tell people not to take antipsychotics because "they're just trying to get rid of your alters!" See above for why this is literally unforgiveable behaviour. Encouraging psychosis, especially to such an extreme degree, is incredibly dangerous and again, can literally get people killed.
Promoting misinformation
A lot of harmful misinfo in system communities (i.e. you can split alters without trauma, fusion is alter death, alters are entirely separate people) is prominently spread by endos and their supporters. Not exclusively, but very commonly.
Cultural appropriation
This has been done to death, but the amount of (mainly white) people shoving words in the mouths of people who participate in closed practices (who do not experience anything close to systemhood and it's frankly offensive to even compare those things) is disgusting. Ethnic minorities are not a fucking pawn for you to use in your stupid internet discourse.
Endos routinely erase all of these issues to avoid criticism
In addition to everything I've listed, it's worth noting that many of the 90s "plural" groups that endos cite like gospel were anti-DID hate groups who wanted the disorder removed from the DSM. Endos like to erase that history (because there's really no defending that, especially now that they've changed their tune from "DID isn't medical, we have DID and we aren't disordered!" to "haha whaaaaat, we never claimed to have DID guys!"), in addition to erasing all of the other issues I've talked about. If you're going to stand behind a community with such a horrible history, the least you can do is have to the balls to actually admit your community's problems instead of lying about it. Especially when the proof is easy to find.
The fact that this is something people with DID even have to deal with this in the first place is horrible
There's just...no equivalent to this for other mental illnesses. No-one claims to have "non-disordered schizophrenia" or "non-disordered OCD" or ""non-disordered PTSD". And like it or not, this movement started from, or at the very least was popularized by, people who romanticize DID and want to have it. It's so ridiculous that people who just want to exist with DID online are basically forced to develop and voice an opinion on something so blatantly pseudoscientific. People shouldn't have to go out of their way to use every tag imaginable telling people they don't want supporters of ableist bullshit to hijack their posts just for it to happen anyways. If you spend enough time in online system communities, you might just think of endo bullshit as normal. It's not fucking normal. And it only exists for DID because people love the fantasy of "multiple people in one body".
In conclusion
There are too many issues with endos for me to ever support them as a movement, and I'm tired of dealing with their shit. I don't want to debate and I don't want to get involved in syscourse. If you don't like my stance on this, block me. If you personally identify as some kind of "non-disordered plural", you don't participate in any of the things I've listed and you want to interact with me, go ahead. I have no issues with you even if I disagree with you.
And hopefully I can go on with my blog without having to talk about these things again. Fingers crossed.
Thanks for reading if you actually made it this far. Go have a cookie or something.
/pt: void themed ast + sp inspo (alternate system terms, simply plural). end pt/
GENERAL /pt: general. end pt/
system : supervoid, collective void, cosmic void
alter/headmate : void, voidmate, void matter
sisasystem : void cluster, supercluster
body : galaxy
headspace : outerspace, cosmic web
sectioned-off headspaces : filament
switching : falling into the abyss
fronting : in the abyss
fronter : abyss
fragment : stardust, voiddust
dormant : lost in the blackhole
fused : fallen into the backhole
ROLES /pt: roles. end pt/
host : (main) matter
co-host / freq fronter : co-matter, gas
ex-host / non fronter : ex-matter / non-matter
gatekeeper : hard matter
protector : dense matter
caretaker : light matter
holder : deep matter
persecutor : dark matter
little : shallow matter, minivoid
no role : empty matter
other roles : names of planets + sun / star / moon / etc.. names of space gear such as satellite, space shuttle, rocket, etc.
MISCELLANEOUS /pt: miscellaneous. end pt/
system origin / alter split date/reason : big bang
introject source : universe
dissociation (level) : gravity [low gravity, high gravity]
amnesia (level) : density [low density, high density]
SIMPLY PLURAL INSPO /pt. simply plural inspo. end pt/
collective info profile : local void, void navigation
usernames (all currently available) : voiids, vo1ds, darkvoid, supervoid, limitlessvoid, bottomlessvoid, expandingvoid, collapsingvoid, sysabyss, localvoids, cosmicvoiid
color scheme : dark purpley colours, black / dark gray, pops of darker blues, lighter accents of gray or yellow
profile showing privacy bucket : type of void
privacy bucket, restricted : triangular void
privacy bucket, general : tetrahedral void
privacy bucket, friend : octahedral void
privacy bucket, close/partner : cubical void
+ profile info sections can go "deeper into the void" ie. start with basic information and go into more personal the further down it goes, perhaps with color dividers that get darker with every new section. custom fronts, similarly, can have a gradient colour scheme that gets darker with each one / with each new section.
☆ Someone who has purple hair and uses it to express their gender, or someone who considers their purple hair a key point in expressing their gender identity/ in their gender presentation
☆ Someone who does not have purple hair, but desires it because they feel it would help with their transition, or give them gender euphoria can also use this term
☆ I coined this !! Please do not repost my terms anywhere, they are only on here and on reddit. Feel free to use them in hoards such as pronouns. cc-credit is always appreciated ! :) ☆
Could I please get a flag for worshipper of the infernal prince seere? With blue / silver being the more prominent colours if possible!! Thank you so much and i adore the flags
♡ Worshipper of Prince Seere
[pt. worshipper of prince seere. end pt]
A flag for when You are a Worshipper or Devotee of Prince Seere, be it because of Paganism, or something else, maybe special to You.
[pt. A flag for when You are a Worshipper or Devotee of Prince Seere, be it because of Paganism, or something else, maybe special to You. end pt]
Never seen a devotee of this guy or actually heard of them so this was new to me, so cool tho! Hope you like it and i hope i got it right 💔
BLACK CAT: A term to describe an intersex individual who presents themself in a gothic, punk, emo or otherwise alternative fashion. Anyone who is intersex and presents themself in a non-mainstream fashion can can describe themself or be described as a black cat, regardless of their specific intersex variation (pcos included).
HISTORY BEHIND THE TERM: Historically, intersex babies have been seen as a curse or a sign of bad luck. On the contrary, they have also been seen as descendants of the Greek god Hermaphroditus, and thusly, were seen as divine. Black cats have had a similar history. While often seen as a sign of bad luck, black cats can also be used as a symbol of magic.
FASHION: As stated previously, any intersex person who dresses alternately can use the term black cat to describe themself. These alternative fashion styles include, but are not limited to: Gothic, punk, grunge, emo, scene, and kinderwhore, along with all variations of the previously mentioned styles.
Being complex doesn't make you any less valid. Let me say that again, being complex in your identity does. not. make. you. any. less. valid. You are allowed to go by multiple names, as many pronouns as you like, collect as many genders, sexualities, terms, and identities as you want. You are allowed to be complex just as much as you are allowed to be simplistic.
I'm a transneutral, transfemflux, intersex, non binary, xenogender, gay, grey romantic, ace spec person. I use multiple names outside of being plural, my pronouns are it/its, they/them, kit/kits, shi/hir or she/her. I use to be a transmasculine, non binary, pansexual, who used all pronouns. My labels changed because I changed, grew as a person I learned more about myself. That does not make me any less valid then someone who's used the same label for their whole queer journey.
I use to flatten my (barely existent) chest, I'd hide my long hair, and attempt to deepen my voice. Then I began to feel less comfortable with masculinity yet at that same time being intersex caused me to be misgendered often. I'd be asked if I was a man dressing up as a girl, if i was a cross dresser by strangers. I'd be laughed at for wearing feminine clothes. But I didn't let that stop me from exploring my identity.
I let myself find new labels, it was scary trying to figure out who I was. I felt wrong being complex, I thought that I should be as "normal" as I could be. To many I'll still be a "cis straight girl" who's attention seeking but that's not who I am. I'm a complex indavidual whos selfhood can't be put into a nice little box with a red ribbon wrapped around it. I won't ever fit into western, perisex, cis, allorose, hetrosexual norms, or in many queer boxes either.
I can't say I don't struggle to feel valid or seen because that would be a lie. I won't lie about how hard it can be to find a place in a world that sees even the simplist differences as "wrong" or "unnatural". What I can tell you is it's never worth giving up on your own selfhood because it doesn't fit in. You are allowed to use 20 names, use 80 different sets of pronouns, collect 100 different genders, use 40 sexuality labels and modifiers, find 70 terms/identities you feel fit you.
Be as complex as you want, embrace the fact you are who you are and not someone else. You don't need to hate yourself not fitting into labels that might change their meaning in another 50 years. Just as you are allowed to be complex you are allowed to also keep things simple. Only you are allowed to dictate your own selfhood. As long as you are not actively harming yourself, those around you, or claiming cultural/medical identities that don't fit you who fucking cares. Be a cistrans, bigaybian, catdoggender, who uses kit/kits, pup/pups, and he/her pronouns! Be a bearbutch, who doesn't fit into the trans cis binary and considers themselves queer in every direction. Be a cisgirl transmasc woman who's Achillean and dates butchboys.
Remember that our complex siblings are just as worthy of calling themselves queer as our siblings who prefer to use simplistic terms for themselves. We are a diverse group of people and we should love each other for that. You are loved, you are seen, you deserve to be celebrated at pride and enjoy it just as much as the next queer individual.
heyyyy everyone...... due to the overwhelming demand im gonna do an event for 500 followers. thank you all for the overwhelming support recently (and before this), as i feel really engraved and a big part of the mogaiblr community, even if i haven't been it for as long as some others. i think i've really made an impact on this community, especially when it comes to blackmogai + making more poc terms as a whole. im glad i can be apart of that :3
the event will run june 15th 2025 - june 21st 2025.
just remember some stuff:
tag @vampitsm AND @bossvamp
tag the post with "quinn500event"
you can have multiple entries for one day
you can join any time during the slotted dates and play catch-up with the prompts
terms (especially for day 2 & 4) you make doesn't have to be serious. an example of this is coining a sigma faggot flag for day four (feel free 2 steal this lmfao)
day 1 (06/15) - a vampire themed term. this can be loosely based on vampires including their vibes (i.e: blood, fangs, etc)
day 2 (06/16) a presentation term based on your favorite object, animal, etc
day 3 (06/17) - a term that may seem / is considered contradictory
day 4 (06/18) - a term that doesn't exist under pre-existing umbrella terms (credit: @chronicallyqueercoining2)
day 5 (06/19) - a term based on your ethnicity, culture, etc. if you do not know / not enough knowledge on your culture, you can do a term based on queer culture.
day 6 (06/20) - a themed flag based on your identity. (i.e: vampire intersex, igor lesboy, etc)
day 7 (06/21) - a term based on your favorite mogai coiner (this includes based on their profile, the type of flags they make, etc). alternatively, you can do a term based on your mogai terms, profile, etc
ATP these labels are just as harmful as transIDs regardless of their coiners intent. Ive seen this used for being Native hawai'ian (said person also used the state flag not the flag actual Native Hawai'ians use which shows their lack of respect or willingness to even learn our culture) but ones for intersex too. My question is why, why do you as though you want to be a POC, disabled, mentally ill, put in traumatic situations (ie in a ward) or any of these other cutesy terms you want to make. Instead of seeking actual help you your illness which is what these people have or at least some of them have (atypical dysphoria) they try and find alternatives into becoming whatever they are not. You can not safely or respectfully transition into a POC or literally any race regardless (including white races its just onto physically possible), you can not respectfully transition into an intersex body as it's a disorder that is created at birth, you can not healthy transition into becoming a ward patient in fact if you desire it so much please be my guest and go to one. Ive been in inpatient twice in my life at age 12 and 15 (iirc) and both were traumatic for me and my family. To say you desire to be disabled, a different race, a different illness is not healthy for you. Genuinely people like this need to talk about their dysphoria in a healthy way with trained professionals instead of attempting to force themselves into groups of people who do not want you in our spaces. I am all for sharing my culture but if you tell me you desire to be Native hawai'ian and your attempting to transition into my race id laugh in your face. This shows such a lack of respect for our culture and yourself.
