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shoutout to anyone who can’t look up shit about their identity without finding discourse posts we’ll get through this together
"tma/tme" "lesboys idk if it's valid tbh..." "idk if i can accept bi lesbian:/" "transandrophobia is it real or not?" "it's not possible to be gaybian!!" "transmisogyny/transandrophobia doesn't exist" "it's bad to be an afab trans woman" WHO FUCKING CARES. ALL QUEER PEOPLE ARE OPPRESSED EVERYWHERE. WE ARE BEING KILLED EVERYWHERE. IT IS NOT THE TIME FOR KINDERGARTEN ARGUING
“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities
this pride month, I'd like to thank intersex people, multigender people, nonbinary people, trans men, transmasculine people, a-spec people, those with 'contradictory' labels, and xenics for existing.
with all the bs discourse we have to deal with that often demonizes, erases, and belittles us, my hope is that everyone who belongs to these groups has at least one good experience this June.
oh, and happy pride to the rest of the community, too.
I am so tired of the idea that you need other people's consent to literally just exist in their presence, or to exist at all if you have a 'contradictory' queer identity. I'm sick of the idea that someone with a "normal" label is more qualified than you are to determine whether or not you belong.
If someone is not pushing boundaries, hurting people, saying insensitive shit, being offensive, etc, you have literally no right to exclude them from that space. And if they are doing those things? You exclude them for the harm they cause as an individual, not because they used the wrong words to explain how they feel about their gender/orientation.
If you see someone with a "confusing" identity, you assume good intentions until proven otherwise. It's better to show initial undeserved kindness to a cishet troll/chaser than vitriolic hostility towards an actual queer person looking for community.
If you are "uncomfortable" just because you don't agree with a person's labels/identity, you can kindly fuck off and hang out with the cishets who make a face when they see a visibly trans person in public.
✦・꒰ CONTRAQUEER ꒱ (alt flag and symbol)
pt: contraqueer (alt flag and symbol). end pt.
✶ DEFiNiTiON ꒱・❥・for queers who identify with "contradictory" labels and are proud of their contradiction . . .
for example: lesboy, turigirl, transmasc lesbian, bi-lesbian, gaybian, saphilean, cistrans, transfemasc, afab transfem, amab cisfem, butchbear and ect.
Emoji combo: 🌈💐🦋
About the flag (The flag was designed by @heinzeldarling):
Vivid pink — Queerness.
Soft pink — Passion and love.
Peach — Warmth and acceptance.
Cream — Inclusivity and diversity.
Pale mint — Going beyond "typicality"/"norms" and the binary. challenging established "rules" within the community.
Pistachio — Freedom.
Muted teal — Community.
Symbols (the symbol was designed differently):
The butterfly symbolizes the transition to one’s true self and is also a trans symbol.
The flowers — different flowers are depicted to symbolize uniqueness and diversity within the queer community, and to show that labels do not conflict with one another but complement each other.
Plain texts:
pt: definition, for queers who identify with "contradictory" labels and are proud of their contradiction. end pt.
pt: for example. Lesboy, turigirl, transmasc lesbian, bi-lesbian, gaybian, saphilean, cistrans, transfemasc, afab transfem, amab cisfem, butchbear and ect. end pt.
pt: Emoji combo: rainbow, a bouquet of flowers, butterfly. end pt.
pt: About the flag (The flag was designed by @/heinzeldarling). Vivid pink — Queerness ; Soft pink — Passion and love ; Peach — Warmth and acceptance ; Cream — Inclusivity and diversity ; Pale mint — Going beyond "typicality"/"norms" and the binary. challenging established "rules" within the community ; Pistachio — Freedom ; Muted teal — Community.
pt: Symbols (the symbol was designed differently). The butterfly symbolizes the transition to one’s true self and is also a trans symbol ; The flowers — different flowers are depicted to symbolize uniqueness and diversity within the queer community, and to show that labels do not conflict with one another but complement each other. end pt.
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0.1 : english isn't my first language, so I'm using a translator. Sorry for any errors!
0.2 : if this has been coined previously, please consider this as an alt.
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I hate it when people hear "gender non-conforming" and think that just applies to like. Crossdressing.
Like no bitch I mean lesboys. Amab trans men. Afab trans women. Fagdykes. Gay women. Women with he/him pronouns and men with she/her pronouns. Any intersex person ever. Agender people. Multigender people. Genderfluid people. I can't remember what they're called rn but them newfangled genders with the unique flags. Demigirls and demiboys. Hell, bisexual lesbians and bisexual gays.
I love you all and you are valid. Gender is a social construct.