Rama

[heavenwh0r]

I dont know y people treat men as the naturally unattractive gender and women as the naturally attractive gender like no I’ve seen so many attractive men and i think all of them should try to be like that, that mentality got men so comfortable with being overweight ugly unhygienic and unattractive because “they are like that naturally” while women constantly try to be more attractive, the same women that romanticize bigger men ,men with big noses, men with acne scars men with scars in general “when hes kinda ugly” when they will treat like dog shit if they don’t think you are attractive and im not saying that u r the problem if ur okay with them not being conventionally, attractive u js have to accept that they will never do the same for u, everything about women is not accepted but fetishized like body hair u never hear them say leg hair is attractive but a bush is because its a fetish also stretch marks eye bags being fat or skinny being promiscuous or “innocent” experienced “untouched” being dirty or messy even having a mental illness is fetishized being from a certain country is also fetishized having a style being alt is never accepted but fetishized, so no men can be really attractive they just choose not to.

[heavenwh0r]

Men will only say that women r better than them in the stuff that they dont want to do “no ur so much better than me in this” and its washing the dishes “no they listen to u better they love u more” and its getting the kids dressed or disciplining them “your cooking is better than mine” and if u dare to ask them to do something or at least try they do a terrible job on purpose so u dont ask them to do anything again

[heavenwh0r]

Religious men especially in the muslim arab community love to tell their daughters to cover up and be modest and its all for the sake of god and their faith but as soon as that woman gets married they dont care what her husband “allows” her to wear bcs its not their responsibility anymore like they did their part of giving up this pure modest woman to this man and thats enough bcs covering up and being modest was never abt god or religion its just for the appeal of other men

[heavenwh0r]

Its so funny how ppl use “thats not a man that a boy” or “he’s definitely gay” “hes a dl” “thats a woman” like any of these things are insulting why r we using the word women as an insult or being gay like it has anything to do with u being a bad person, women find it so hard accepting that men can be terrible ppl to the point where they try to call horrible men anything but a horrible man like no that 30y old man is not a boy lol

[metanarrates]

the argument that women read m/m as a way of escaping misogyny in romance fiction becomes a ridiculously flimsy one when you consider how many m/m stories include a woman side character for the sole purpose of being misogynistic towards her

[heavenwh0r]

“Its the culture not religion” but the culture is influenced by the religion

[heavenwh0r]

“Oh you want equality dose that mean i get to hit women now bcs we r equal” “dose that mean i get to be in a 1v1 with a woman” is the dumbest thing men say like u dont rly need equality for that u do it anyway and why cant men form a single thought without it being abt violence when it comes to women

[veritablevent]

women have to live with the constant awareness of the possibility of getting raped even in the most innocuous of situations, and people still have the audacity to present this awareness as drama and fearmongering. if you help out an elderly man with getting his groceries into the house and he rapes you, you are the dummy for not thinking it through. but if an elderly man invites you into his house on the pretense of needing help with the groceries and you refuse, you are a paranoid (and heartless!) bitch. schrödinger's rapists: every man could be one, but also no man is, so how dare you think about it.

[heavenwh0r]

Unpopular opinion but there is no ethical way of using ai stop giving “eco-friendly” alternatives and just stop using it overall

[heavenwh0r]

“Men are animals” “every man cheats” is just as bad as “boys will be boys” btw it just normalizes horrible behavior from men and a lot of men use it as an excuse like how dare you expect basic human empathy and the bare minimum like i cant tell u how many times ive heard a man say “well he cant help it hes a man and all men cheat” its almost like an expectation if a man doesn’t cheat than hes gay or hes hiding it very well