lowkey, the concept of a secret third thing when ppl talk about relationships pisses me off bc majority of the time, it is literally just a romantic relationship that is just a little unconventional. same goes for when qpr get introduced bc it just feels like ppl want to be woke and headcanon a character as aroace (let's be honest it is never canon) but don't actually respect the identity, so they use a qpr to ship them anyways. don't even get me started on the whole "aroace ppl can still date" thing. hey, how about we try and respect the umbrella term for the identity before where start messing with specifics? honestly, the definition of what it means to be aroace is so muddled by allos who don't give a fuck about us or our representation in media. if you are allo and want to even begin respecting the aroace community, stop putting every single aroace character into a fucking qpr bc you can't comprehend a person not being in a relationship.
happy pride to every aroace person ever.
















