Stay Home Bi

Julz. She/her. 33 year old grump.

[hermetically-unsealed]

y do you have a personality disorder?

not enough people are obsessed with me so I guess I'll just do it myself

if you want something done right and all that

[hermetically-unsealed]

are you getting stalked again is that why you're leaving this blog?

what a weird way to ask me a very sensitive thing

anyway no, im not

[hermetically-unsealed]

I think tumblrs doing that thing where it unfollows people at random again

anyway i might switch back to my original blog anyway which i don't think will change anything because im 90% sure everyone here still follows me over there and if we're not mutuals over there I'll message you or something if i think you like my presence

[tributary]

hook hand in unloveable car door

[electracraft]

say what you want about tumblr but they went off when they made it so that the background for your dms is the other person’s blog colour. absolutely nailed the task there

[997]

[swiminjello]

ooo…. lady gagita

[nobody-knose--archive]

evil fonts. HELL vetica. CRIMES new roman. IMPACT (fatal). MAL ibri. arial

[jess-abides]

This is it, this is the one

[theworsethingsgettheharderifight]

Oh mY GOD do I try

[mellointheory]

come to doom patrol we have:

a group of misfits

found family

1950s actress who turns into goop

a gay florist pilot

a shitty dad who's now a robot

the narrator is the villain (they can hear him narrate sometimes)

also cyborg. i had no idea cyborg was going to be in here

and i'm only on episode 2

[swarnpert]

*right clicks on you*

[swarnpert]

*views your properties*

[arowitharrows]

The single/taken binary is just so limited, I wish there were a term that conveyed "not in a relationship" as easily as single does and "not available for a relationship" as easily as taken does.

[mordcore]

"unavailable"?

[arowitharrows]

I mean yeah, that could work, and there are many other terms that could fit in theory. But in my experience any answer that doesn't fit the single/taken binary is immediately questioned, challenged, or dismissed.

[mordcore]

oh okay. in that case it might be helpful to refuse to explain or be defensive and just say "no" (i love saying yes or no to or questions. because it can be correct (mathematically) but not socially expected)

"are you single or taken?" "no <3"

[arowitharrows]

Oh you're right, no is a good answer when given both options. I'll try that next time ^^

[disasterdemi]

Actually wait hang on

So we've currently got:

And as a polyam aro I feel like we definitely need words for the other two boxes 😭

[disasterdemi]

Maybe this though

[arowitharrows]

I was wondering how polyam people feel about the single/taken binary, I'm sensing some more aro polyam solidarity here!

[araccoonthatlikesmurder]

What if

[louve-garoue]

What if :

[hermetically-unsealed]

compared myself to white women again last night and tanked my self esteem

[zandraart]

jellies!!

[tapireye-deactivated20220708]

‘Growing Metal’ Gloves by WeiRan.

[hermetically-unsealed]

I didn't get enough attention today because im self isolating a little bit and you gotta attend to be attend

[icaruskey]

YOU ARE OS HOT

[hermetically-unsealed]

I know, right? it's my burden to bear 😔 lmao

[hermetically-unsealed]

I didn't get enough attention today because im self isolating a little bit and you gotta attend to be attend

[kenstewdivorce]

People on tumblr are like "I'm handing all my mutuals a bowl of soup we are kissing with tongue we are the bestest of besties I am killing and dying for you" but sometimes me and the mutuals are posting completely different shit existing on the same blogging platform but really we're just standing in the alley going "ayup" at each other like fucking king of the hill.