This is just a forewarning to my lovely fat fetish followers. I'm still new to Tumblr and y'all are exactly the type of wonderful weirdos I need in my life, and I never expected even a single reblog, let alone accruing over 100 300 followers! 😵💫
I have a bunch of amazing trans followers whom I adore, and I want to avoid triggering any gender dysphoria or body dismorphia. Feedism and gaining are some of my favorite kinks, but the belly obsession doesn't stop there. Breeding and preg stuff have always been a huge turn-on for me, and I will likely make posts about this stuff going forward, in addition to gaining, but I'll be sure to tag the posts accordingly. I love you all and only want to make you horny.
TL;DR: will start posting breeding/preg content, so mind your tag blacklist if you're only here for fatties. 💜
edit: forgot to mention i'm a shameless monsterfucker, so there will likely be some weird eldritch friendos appearing in some of my fictional drabbles.
As an occasional gay chick myself I lowkey really enjoyed the shitty way 2000s-2010s video games would like let you pick the main character’s gender but assumed everyone playing was straight and would play guys, so the story was written with women hitting on the main character left and right even if they were also a woman
See also the way Saints Row 2 would have the boss putting stripper poles in the HQ and talking about getting pussy even with the female voice lines like they just wrote the women identical to the macho men that moved copies back then so it was like an entire era where playing a girl meant playing a shithead fuckboy dyke.. it was beautiful even if it sucked and ended for very good reasons.
🖋️ You Don’t Need to “Write Every Day” to Be a Real Writer (and Other Guilt-Crushing Truths)
Let’s make this one loud:
📣 You are not a failed writer because you didn’t open your Google Doc today.
We’ve all heard the advice, write every day, build the habit, protect the streak, treat it like brushing your teeth or doing crunches or whatever metaphor productivity Twitter is pushing this week.
But here’s the thing:
You are not a factory.
Your brain is not a faucet.
And writing isn’t a moral behavior.
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🚫 Daily Writing is Not a Badge of Legitimacy
The "write every day" rule? It wasn’t invented for you. It came from a very specific kind of writer.... usually full-time, no kids, no chronic illness, no 60-hour day job, no executive dysfunction, that lives in a world made of schedules and uninterrupted mornings.
You? You’re probably doing your best between classes, during night shifts, after crying, before therapy, while microwaving pizza rolls.
If you’re writing at all, you’re already in the game.
No daily streak required. No blood oath to the Scrivener gods.
You don’t need to bleed ink to prove you’re real.
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🧠 Writing is Mental, Even When It’s Invisible
Plotting in the shower.
Thinking about your character’s tragic backstory at red lights.
Whispering fake arguments into your Notes app at 3am.
Staring at the ceiling replaying one scene until it rots.
It all counts.
Writing is thinking, not just typing. That mental compost pile? That’s how the good stuff grows.
You don’t owe your worth to a word count. Some days, the work looks like a blank page and a brain on fire.
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🔄 Rest Is Part of the Process, Not a Detour From It
Let me say this plainly: Burnout is not proof of effort.
You are allowed to pause.
You are allowed to stop mid-project.
You are allowed to write in bursts.
You are allowed to write for a week and disappear for a month.
Writing is a relationship. It has seasons. It expands and contracts. You are not a robot with a daily quota, you’re a person carrying a whole fictional world inside you. Let yourself be human.
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📆 Consistency Helps--But Define It For Yourself
Do some writers thrive with routines? Sure. But routine =/= daily.
Try this:
→ “I write every weekend morning when I can.”
→ “I jot down notes during my commute.”
→ “I commit to one hour a week, guilt-free.”
→ “I take two weeks off after every chapter.”
→ “I only write during November and spiral gloriously.”
Build a rhythm that actually matches your energy, not one that shames you for not vibing like a full-time author in a lakeside cabin with nothing to do but word vomit and sip tea.
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💌 You’re Still a Real Writer (Even When You’re Not Producing)
You don’t need:
a finished draft
a daily goal
a growing WIP
a thriving project
a clever new idea
…to be a writer.
You only need:
the drive to tell a story
the will to try again
the love of the craft, even when it doesn’t love you back
You’re a real writer if you write sometimes. You’re a real writer if you write badly. You’re a real writer if you wrote once and it changed you.
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✨ Guilt Kills Stories Faster Than “Laziness” Ever Will
You’re not lazy. You’re probably:
→ Overwhelmed
→ Tired
→ Burnt out
→ Depressed
→ Distracted by survival
→ Caught in perfectionism’s death grip
And the guilt? It doesn’t make you more productive. It just sinks its teeth into your confidence until you start to believe you’ve “fallen behind” on something that’s supposed to be yours.
The best thing you can do for your writing life? Protect your joy. That spark. That curiosity. That itch to build something from nothing.
That matters more than any streak.
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📣 Final Truths (Pin These to Your Soul):
Missing writing days is not failure.
Your process is not wrong just because it’s not loud.
You are not in a race.
You are not a fraud.
You are allowed to come back whenever.
Writing is not a productivity metric. It’s a craft. It’s a calling. It’s a weird little ritual.
And it’ll still be there when you’re ready.
See you on the page, whether that’s tomorrow, or next week, or next season.
—rin t.
// thewriteadviceforwriters
// chaotic writing realist. anti-guilt gremlin. your local plot ghost.
📜 prompts for gothic girlies, literary lads, and cursed creatives
🕯️ download the pack & write something cursed:
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it's been like 2 years. i havent touched it. never needed to. "you don't really have a choice," are you so swift to forget the recent past? Bitch i still use itunes to download mp3s to so i have them forever and any song i want, then my sister burns them to CDs. When boycotts rolled out my other sister got no thanks to scan what products we shouldn't buy. i still use corded headphones not because "its older" but because it's easier. a fool criticizes those who buy candles 200 years after the invention of the electric light until the power goes out. become ungovernable. you are not immune to propaganda. you've never had Chatgpt forced upon you, the only thing forced upon you is the idea that Chatgpt is forced upon you. why claim you need something today that you didn't need yesterday. little bitch.
I know you wrote a post about Nobara's "selfishness" (for lack of a better word) and I really enjoyed it! Though I'm a bit confused with how her interactions with Saori and Fumi play into the larger themes of the story? It feels like it contradicts her character a bit, since shes shown to be so caring towards them and not much anyone else. What are your thoughts? Also thanks for always taking the time and care for our asks. They're really cool analysis.
Instead of selfishness I’d use the word “Egocentric”, basically Nobara decides everything based on her own opinions and beliefs without ever bending to others. In other words, she’s a real headstrong gal. But yeah, it’s exactly as you said. Nobara contradicts herself in a way that doesn’t make sense, and that’s the point.
Nobara treats everybody else like they’re crazy and she’s the only normal sensible person on earth. Nobara, describes crazy people as “Loud, and stepping over others” and Nobara... is a loud person who loves to boss other people around. Her entire character is written under this contradiction of crazy / normal as Nobara herself sees it. I’ll explain more under the cut.
1. A Normal Girl, A Crazy Girl
So, Nobara’s introduction shows us these two contradictory ideas of her. Nobara is just a normal girl from the country side, in fact how she tells it she’s the only sane one from her home village.
Nobara has this everybody else is crazy but me, mentality. Which makes sense as she saw everybody else turn against her friend that had done nothing wrong. They all persecuted Saori because they weren’t thinking for thmeselves. Therefore, in Nobara’s mind, her individualism trumps everything else. She doesn’t want to follow what the crowd says because the crowd will hurt people unfairly. Nobara’s not really motivated to save people at the same desparate way Yuji is, but she has a strong sense of justice.
She doesn’t like when Mai punishes Maki for what the Zen’in family did to Mai. She doesn’t like when people are treated unfairly, or people lash out blindly due to circumstances. So to her the worst result would be to become someone who hurts other blindly like the people in her village did.
However, Nobara’s response is to just shut out everybody else’s opinions all the time. Which is why Nobara is lacking in self awareness. She sees herself as the only normal person in the world, but literally right in her introduction chapter Gojo announces that she needs to be headstrong and crazy to survive in the world of curses.
So, Nobara’s bull-headedness means she tends to treat everyone like they’re enemy. Not that she’s incapable of being friendly with others, or cooperating with others. It’s just she tends to be defensive, which is why we see this Nobara flip.
Nobara acts bossy and short tempered with Yuji when he’s at a distance. When Yuji closes that distance a little bit, she starts to act sweet, and then immediately she snaps back to her usual bossy and difficult to please personality.
The entire point of Nobara is this behavior is inconsistent. Nobara sees herself as a normal girl, but she’s a loud and obnoctious crazy person at the same time and because of lack of self awareness she tends to just flip between the two unevenly. As I said above, it’s mainly a mechanism for keeping others at a distance. Nobara really only lets people with like-minded views or those she respects up close.
Are Yuji, Megumi and Nobara friends? Are they just teammates? Are they accomplices? One point of the Origin of Obedience Arc is to show that while Megumi, Yuji and Nobara are close they’re not /that/ close. Nobara and Yuji know almost nothing about Megumi’s past. Megumi and Yuji deliberately decide to keep secrets from each other. It’s a fact that people in the Jujutsu World avoid closeness because they can die at any moment, and Nobara and Megumi have even experienced the loss of Yuji once already.
So, part of Nobara avoids the vulernability of letting people get too close. The point of showing the flashback from Fumi’s perspective is to remind us once again that like. If instead of a reader, you were just a person in Nobara’s life, she’d be really difficult to understand because Nobara just flips like this all the time.
It’s hard for Fumi to understand and keep up with Nobara, because Nobara never really lets Fumi in to the same extent she did with Saori, and so Fumi really only has what she can observe from the outside to go off of with Nobara’s behavior.
So we don’t know why yet exactly, but we know even before Saori, Nobara shut people out. I mean probably part of the reason Fumi and Nobara got along as friends besides growing up together is that Fumi is someone who will quietly watch from a distance because she’s too shy to speak up, and that’s more comfortable to Nobara.
What happens in the flashback is also, kind of normal. It’s not some big secret or tragic backstory, but it did shape Nobara’s views of the world. As I said, part of Nobara’s character is that she acts crazy, but she is also kind of just a normal girl from the country side. That’s part of the fun of it, she has the ego of Gojo, without being the magical chosen one bodhivista.
Nobara found someone she really opened up to in that village, after believing she couldn’t open up to anybody else in the village, and when she lost that person Nobara cried for the only time that Fumi can remember in their entire childhood. Nobara doesn’t let people in easy, and when she loses them after letting them in, it hurts a lot, hence why she avoids that vulnerability.
So the twist is Saori wasn’t anyone special. She was just a normal girl that Nobara liked. But also, she didn’t need to be anyone special. Nobara just kind of put Saori up on a pedestal because she was the first person she let in that close.
Fumi wanted Nobara to cry when Nobara left the village because they’ve been friends for all that time, and friends are vulnerable in front of each other, but Nobara is really kind of bad at showing that vulnerability. It’s obviously there, she’s just hiding it.
So Nobara’s tendency was to treat everybody else in the world like they were crazy and she was the only sane one, as a means to avoid getting close, and she also put Saori up on a pedestal as some super special friend. Except, this is just Nobara’s weird contraidction. Nobara actually fits in with other people, especially other crazy people quite well. Saori was just a normal person that Nobara happened to get close to, and Nobara in her time in the Jujutsu Academy has gotten close to other people as well.
What Nobara needs to learn is to let her barriers down and just be more open around other people, listen to other people besides herself, because they’re not going to stomp all over her. She can remain a strong willed individual and also accept other people at the same time, people are complex like that yo. What she regrets as she thinks she’s about to die is that she didn’t get as close as she could have been, because she really liked all of those people, she was just putting up a front .
Those people in her life made her happy. She had been avoiding the pain of being close all that time and in her last few moments Nobara thinks that getting close to those people, getting to know them, didn’t hurt after all.
This one goes out to a cutie in my Dms requesting me picking up and dropping my belly for the jiggles 🫨🤰🏼
I am currently sooo stuffed. It’s national burger day and naturally… I’ve got 3 in me, plus 1/2 a bag a fries, and 40oz water, oh and many many Oreos. Idk how many Oreos tbh
this bloat.. i ate way too much last night and couldn’t help myself this morning, my belly was already so swollen i had to funnel chug my favorite diet coke and mentos.. now my poor belly is tight as a drum and as heavy as a bag of sand 😵💫😵💫😵💫 just look at the skin stretching around my fat belly fuck
