I wholeheartedly support the concept of just existing with no labels, but I think that it's important to acknowledge the usefulness of them as a tool for experimentation.
I recently realised I might be gender fluid, which would explain how much my dysphoria and presentation fluctuates. And although I know if I told that to certain people in my life (after I've already come out as non-binary), they would be like "ok? doesn't matter you should just BE" (my parents would say something like that), to me this is a super useful development - it allows me to present more feminine sometimes, and be more open/aware of how my dysphoria increases and decreases on different days, without wondering if I'm not actually trans. What's more, it lets me really easily explain myself to people if they ask.
So I think if Just Being works for you, that's great, but that mentality doesn't work for everyone. Some people need to put words to their feelings in order to understand them better, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.













