How many times have you said āIām just tiredā like itās nothing? To downplay your illness because you donāt want to sound like youāre complaining too much.
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How many times have you said āIām just tiredā like itās nothing? To downplay your illness because you donāt want to sound like youāre complaining too much.
You know one of the shittiest parts of chronic pain?Ā
Sympathy has an expiration date.Ā
If youāre hurting because you broke your leg, people can sympathize with you, because thereās an end-date. Eventually your leg will heal and youāll be okay again. People will coo and coddle and bring you chocolates and sign your cast because they know thatās emotional labor that they will only have to perform temporarily.Ā
But if you have a chronic condition that causes you daily pain, after awhile, people get annoyed with having to deal with you. They ask you whatās wrong, and when you reply with the same thing that was wrong last week, or the week before, or the month before, you eventually get an incredulous,Ā āStill?āĀ
Or maybe theyāre not that overt. Maybe instead they go,Ā āOh, just that. Okay.ā As if todayās pain should somehow be fine for them to ignore because itās nothing new. No need to worry: itās just the same old same old.Ā
Let me tell you: Pain never gets easy to handle. Itās not like people with chronic pain develop an immunity to it, or that we stop feeling it. Sure, some of us get better at ignoring it, or better at living around it, but honestly? Most of us just get better at hidingĀ it, because we get tired of feeling like an emotional burden to everyone around us.
But that doesnāt mean that weāre not hurting, and it sort of sucks that long-term pain, in addition to all the other fun things it entails, also eventually comes with a revoked right to be sympathized with, or even just treated like something other than a whiny attention-grabbing faker (or worse: a drug-seeker).
Chronic pain is real. And it sucks. And one of the worst parts about it is knowing itās never going to end.Ā
It would just be cool if people could try understand that, I guess.
Person: I donāt really think your symptoms/illness/condition is actually as bad as you say it isā¦
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What a great time to remember disabled LGBT people exist and should be loved.
Iāve drawn too little lately and wanted to do another quick picture with this one, because I liked the colours. At least two heads seem to be hiding. Hm.
Sometimes I draw things in 300x500px to ease the pressure. Thereās only so much you can do within those limits, and itās really nice.
Iāve seen a few of these āLatino vs. Hispanicā diagrams on tumblr but none of them have been correct, so I decided to make my own.
Hispanic: relating to, characteristic of, or derived from Spain or Spanish-speaking countries that have a historical connection to Spain.
The word āHispanicā comes from the Latin word Hispania, which was the Roman name for the Iberian Peninsula and its provinces, now known as EspaƱa (Spain).
People from Spain and Spanish-speaking Latin American countries alike are Hispanic, since Spain colonized the Latin American countries that now speak Spanish.
Latino (Latina/Latine): relating to, characteristic of, or derived from Latin America. People from Latin America are Latine*.
These are countries that were (1:) colonized by European countries (i.e. Spain, Portugal, France) and where (2:) Latin-based languages (i.e. Spanish, Portuguese, French) were imposed upon colonization.
Many people from Latin America are both Latine and Hispanic, but not everyone from Latin America is also Hispanic.
Check your geography: Spain is in Europe, not Latin America; people from Spain are not Latine**.
BONUS: Spanish: relating to or characteristic of the Spanish language, or a person specifically from Spain.
Not everyone from Latin America that speaks Spanish is āSpanishā, unless they or their family are from Spain.
If you say āthat person is Spanishā, you are saying that they are from Spain, not that they speak Spanish. So it is only correct if that person is actually from Spain. Spanish-speaking person =/= Spanish person.
Notes:
Some of these terms are very U.S.-centric. āHispanicā was first adopted by the U.S. government during the Nixon administration and has been used in the U.S. Census since 1980. The U.S. government also adopted the term āLatinoā as a way to identify and segregate mixed white, black, and native āmestizoā or āmulattoā people of Latin America.
Most people in Latin America will refer to other Latine people based on their nationality, so the terms āHispanicā and āLatinoā are less often used in Latin America than in the United States or elsewhere.
Even though these terms have specific definitions and their differences should be understood and respected, this is a question of identity. This means that not everyone from Latin American countries want to identify as Latine for a number a reasons, but namely indigenous people who donāt want to identify with their White European colonizers (for obvious reasons).
In addition to the previous point, there are also places in the Americas/Caribbean that are not technically considered to be Latin America due to the non-Latin languages spoken there (i.e. Belize, Suriname, Guyana, Jamaica, etc.), but that does not mean people from those countries canāt identify as Latine. A lot of their cultures and traditions and histories overlap due to their geographical locations and the similarities in European Colonization that they endured.
Thus, it is important to understand these definitions, but move forward knowing that we - especially people outside of Latin America - do not get to decide these identities for everyone, because there are many factors that go into how people identify themselves, and sometimes they are more important than dictionary definitions of terminology. This also applies to U.S.-born people with Latin American family, but struggle with how to identify themselves: there is no right or wrong way to identify yourself. You are the deciding factor of your own identity.
*Why am I using the word āLatineā?
**Similarly, you can be from Spain and also be Latine if you were born/raised in Latin America, have direct family lineage from Latin America, etc.
The Original Meeting for The Prince and Snow White, from the original 1937 Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs comic strip, released weekly, beginning December 14, a week before the filmās premiere.
Look, everyone! He has a name.
Well it about time that we know what his fucking name was.
you: prince charming
me, an intellectual: PRINCE BUCKET HEAD
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So one of our new vocabulary words is āmalusā, meaning ābadā, and I asked my students if they could think of any English derivatives, telling them that just about any English word that begins with M-A-L is going to mean something ābadā.
Iām expecting stuff like: malice, malcontent, malnourished, or even malware or Maleficent.
Instead I get this one girl in the back of the room say āmaleā with the most dead-eyed expression.
This has the same energy as two years ago when another student said she remembered āvirā meant āmanā because āit looks like virus, and men are a virusā.
One of my Latin students, whenever Iād ask if they wanted a couple extra minutes to review before a test, would always say, āNo, we die like men.ā And so finally I asked her why it was always ālike menā. She said, āWe die like men, unprepared and useless.ā
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First of all, Iām in love with that fall dress/ cloak. And second, that metalā¦corsetā¦armor? Thingā¦.
Itā¦.well, ā¦.itās good. I like it
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hey guys just wanted you to know that i just found the absolute worst car in existence
This is my car Iām crying Iām so happy to finally see it as a post tho I really thot it would be on shitty-car-mods lmfao
He didnāt get a picture of the cursed images door tho so hereās that, also the hood of my car