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even though the new semester has already begun for university students, many high schoolers are just wrapping up their midterms ! and with a new era, its good to set your intentions and give your life that much-needed reset - so here's a mini checklist just for you !
💌 digital reset:
✦ delete any files you dont need anymore
✦ make a vision board for the new semester - what do you want to achieve this semester? what do you want to change?
✦ change wallpaper and layout (if you wish)
✦ go through pinterest boards (if you have it) and delete any old boards or pins that you dont align with anymore
✦ go through your phone and go through your camera roll - delete any photos you dont need !! its a tedious project, but so worth it
✦ give your devices a refresh ! i already mentioned the wallpaper, but giving it a new layout for the spring semester will be a nice reset ♡
💌 physical reset:
✦ clean !! your !! room !! my room got so messy during finals season and i dont want to carry that clutter with me into the new semester - so organize your desk, your bed, your floor - anything that need a bit of organizing !
✦ take an everything shower - cleanse yourself of that first semester energy. i sometimes like to imagine a dark energy going down my body and being replaced with a bright white light when im showering !! somethingi like to visualize to get that bad energy away <3
✦ do some self care !! after weeks of studying and preparing for your finals, you deserve some rest and comfort. do a face mask, eat some comfort food, watch your favourite show or movie, read that book thats been on your tbr for 3 months - make yourself happy !
💌 mental reset:
✦ journal a bit ! reset yourself for the new semester by writing down whats on your mind. you can ask yourself some questions like - what worked for you this semester? what didnt work? what are your goals for the next semester?
✦ what sort of mindset do you want to adopt going into this semester? make a pinterest board about your goals, mindset, and just general vibe that you want to achieve. pinterest always helps me w visualizing my intentions <3
✦ take a break from devices ! ironic, i know, since ive been telling you to sort out your digital space. but give your head a break from all the overstimulation that doomscrolling gives you. read a book, colour, partake in any hobbies that finals took you away from.
wow ! 2 posts in less than 2 days ! i just finished the last of my finals today, and i found that i didnt do as good as i had been hoping for this semester... so i wanted to make a checklist for myself and anyone else looking to reset themselves and give themselves a clean slate ! thank you so much for reading, and ill see you next time, angels ♡
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we made it through another year! be proud of yourself! for all of us i wish for many more blessings, great health, amazing opportunities, positivity, wonderful vibes, support in any area we may need it, peace and love. let’s start this new year with nothing holding us down or back. good vibes only for 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟔, positive energy only for 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟔, supportive friends and family only for 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟔, infinite love, pure hearts and good intentions only for 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟔! let’s make it a great year and let’s make the best memories yet!
i think the constant rhetoric of self development and rebranding bothers me because your highest self is not the only iteration of you that deserves the happy life. you deserve the things you desire with the extra five pounds, the old aesthetic, the familiarities. you deserve the peace, the fun, the money, the love. improvement is always good but don’t you think it’s toxic to forever be reaching for some version of yourself that you currently are not? think back to your younger self. i’m sure you wish you loved that person more don’t you? appreciate them more. was more understanding of where they were in life. rather than studying the next guide to become your dream self. it results in so much time spent trying to change and nearly no time spent to just be. can we just be? in this moment? please?
set goals and accomplish them, start a savings account, experiment in wardrobe choices, dial back the hello kitty and shit (don’t eliminate her but use her strategically, i literally prefer my aesthetic now bc that damn cat shows up seldomly but it’s super cute when she does), get a new car, wear a watch, take care of adult business. i know a lot of this may sound very mundane but i didn’t start to feel more adult until i took control of my adult life.
i do not relate to people that wanna keep their blogs a secret. like mine is just so integral to who i am. whenever i meet someone new that i actually like i’m sending my link so fast. like here’s a little part of me to get to know who i am! xoxo