Life and Shit Posts

"Ginger"; 36; she/her; white cis hetro; feminist; animal enthusiast; mommy of 3 kids. Navigating motherhood with PTSD, anxiety, depression. Pretty much just gonna post a bunch of random junk. ☆☆☆DNI if MAP/Pedo, racist, homophobe, transphobe, anti-equality (for all).☆☆☆ 

[thehavenmh]

[hotdemonicangel]

"Friends" with Benefits (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/story/363934655-friends-with-benefits?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_myworks&wp_uname=Gingermommaof3 Based on a true story. Shannon is a woman unsatisfied in her relationship, Sai is a man willing to help satisfy her. They make an arrangement, but Shannon never expected that what was going to happen with him would turn her world upside down. ⚠️ Content warning ⚠️ Mature language and situations Emotional abuse Recommended for 18+

[thetroublesofbeingtrans]

I recently came out to my mother's side of the family who are majority conservative christians and it went much better than I expected. Like, they were weirdly supportive. I only got one comment insinuating that I might possibly be going to hell but it came from my aunt and she's dying soon anyway so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Anyway, I'm telling them how shocked I am and that I honestly thought that they'd have more of a problem with it when my grandma is like "Well you know we've been through this before with your uncle Nicky" and I'm like "what" and so it turns out that my uncle Nick was born a Natalie, came out as a boy at 19, and my great grandma proceeded to pay for his top surgery and hormone therapy. In 1974. And I just had to process for a bit because my entire life no one has referred to him as anything other than he/him and his chosen name. I ask why no one ever thought to mention this and they're just like "tbh we forgot. It's been so long that he's been a man" This man is married. He has a wife and three kids. I ask my relatives how they went about having kids, whether through adoption or sperm donor or what and none of them know. Apparently he just told everyone that they were gonna be parents and then one day showed up at my grandma's house with a baby. No questions were asked. Just. He and his wife had a baby now and that was that. Three times. Weeks later when I finally talk to my aunt Sarah (Nick's wife) all she tells me is that neither of them have ever been pregnant and, I quote, "sometimes you just come into children". She phrased it like people use the phrase "come into money". Like children are something that just happens to you. I ask my relatives if any of them had a problem with Nick being trans at the time, saying I'd understand if they had negative feelings about it, as it was the 1970s after all. They were like "nope" and i was just like "you didn't think anything of it?" And my grandfather was like "these things happen" while the other adults nodded sagely. So I guess the moral here is that if my conservative christian relatives could accept my uncle as trans in the 1970s then there really isn't any excuse for anyone. And also my family needs to ask more questions because I'm fairly sure my aunt and uncle stole their kids.

I’m laughing my ass off at that last sentence- But I’m so glad your coming out went well! That’s one heck of a way to find out you have LGBT relatives.

[ampervadasz]

[a-for-effort-f-for-execution]

[seymour-butz-stuff]

[rosalarian]

I went on a date with a guy on vacation from Switzerland a couple years ago, and had almost this exact conversation with him when it came time to pay for the meal. He knew tipping was part of our culture and always left a few dollars because, as he said, “your minimum wage is so low compared to everywhere else” and I informed him that servers make less than half of minimum wage and the rest comes from tips, and he was horrified. Like he had just witnessed a murder. He about emptied his wallet out on the table and vowed to tip 25% anytime he was in America. As someone who has worked as a server/bartender, I know a lot of folks in our industry don’t like serving foreign customers because they don’t tip well/at all, but it’s because we’re the only country that does things in this fucked up way, and they truly don’t know that in many places, people are making $2/hr. Like, yes, sometimes you can get enough tips to be making $30+/hr, but then there’s all the side work you have to do that nobody tips you for, the hour before open/after close where you are prepping and cleaning, the complete lack of breaks despite it being illegal. The best industry job I ever had paid me the full minimum wage instead of the server min. That’s extremely rare. I wore the soles completely off my shoes and destroyed my knees and had no social life for an industry that considers $10/hr to be a crazy high wage.

[hotdemonicangel]

And to top it all off, wait staff is expected to divide their tips with kitchen staff.

[xvi-memes]

[sweaterspoons]

[video description: a comically tiny kitten stands on the floor in a large kitchen. it mews with great determination and makes a valiant attempt to leap up onto the counter… but only makes it a couple inches off the ground before flopping back to its feet. the person taking the video giggles. end description]

[temporalkingdom]

[riot-dog]

Queen shit

[chilewithcarnage]

First name: Fuck around

Last name: Find out

[hotdemonicangel]

She's such a badass! That's so cool!!

[thenatsdorf]

Cat loves showers. (via)

[queenqueso]

[blackpyrefly]

[hotdemonicangel]

I wish I could get my cat to do that

[iamtheocean-deactivated20211023]

There’s math that can really put something plainly and clearly in most people’s mind.

[cookingwithroxy]

Just remember, this is all because in the US, only three companies are allowed to make Insulin, and Biden removed an executive order that allowed people to buy insulin out of Canada, which has a fucking price cap on critical life saving medications.

[hotdemonicangel]

I couldn't find any information on allowing anyone to buy medication from Canada, but I did find this like saying that Biden did not end an order forcing community health centers to reduce drug prices

Fact check: Biden administration delays implementation of Trump rule on insulin, EpiPens

The Trump executive order on the cost of insulin and EpiPens at community health centers isn't being reversed, as some claim. The rule is on

[arsvenenum]

John Wayne Gacy’s Pogo the Clown suits and Ted Bundy’s real car which he removed the passenger seat to hide women’s bodies. On display at the True Crime museum in Pigeon Forge, TN

[hotdemonicangel]

New bucket list destination!!

[babiesarelazy]

[hotdemonicangel]

I actually just found a serial killer podcast that I'm going to binge today

[dontmeantobepoliticalbut]

[welovenappyhair]

[yahooanswerswtf]

[hotdemonicangel]

What the what?

[bathroomcube]

hey remember how awhile back i mentioned that tiktok has a whole trend where people mix cleaning supplies well i redownloaded tiktok so im finally able to show you what i mean

[diet-soap]

I put my bare hands in this sink and get a chemical burn so bad it oozes and bubbles nonstop for days

[bathroomcube]

i have GREAT news for you

[riseofthedruids]

potion of cough up blood

[hottiewitabloggie]

people are so fucking stupid oh my god

[tami-taylors-hair]

Cleaning TikTok: We’ve mixed the perfect cleaning solution! 

Everyone Else: You’ve created mustard gas is what you’ve done. Your lungs look like you’ve just returned from the Western Front. 

[ferrousferrule]

Jesus fucking christ. One time I accidentally mixed an ammonia scrub and a bleach spray and gave myself a migraine in 15 minutes how the fuck are they even still standing.

[thickness-protection-program]

[sunrisedespair]

Time for a health and safety lesson.

See below for a chart on what household cleaners to NEVER EVER MIX EVER OR YOU CAN (AND WILL PROBABLY) DIE OR OTHERWISE BECOME EXTREMELY FUCKED UP AND NOT IN A FUN WAY BUT IN THE HOSPITAL AND/OR GRAVEYARD WAY:

The above is not a complete list, but these are extremely common in most households and therefore are the most likely chemical fuck-ups to occur. 

DO NOT MIX HOUSEHOLD CHEMICALS. 

DO NOT MIX CLEANING AGENTS.

DO NOT MIX CERTAIN ASTRINGENTS. (HYDROGEN PEROXIDE IS OFTEN IN FIRST AID KITS OR WOUND SPRAYS AND CAN CAUSE A REACTION IN SMALL AMOUNTS IF MIXED WITH THINGS IT SHOULD NOT BE MIXED WITH EVEN ACCIDENTALLY ON A SURFACE ETC.) 

DO NOT MIX ANY CHEMICALS THAT YOU ARE NOT 100% SURE ARE SAFE TO MIX. (SPOILER: MOST THINGS ARE NOT REALLY SAFE TO MIX AND SOMETIMES COMBINING SAFE ONES ACTUALLY MAKES THEM LESS EFFECTIVE ANYWAY, SO JUST DON’T COMBINE THIS KIND OF SHIT!) 

YOU ARE PROBABLY NOT A CHEMIST. PLEASE DO NOT TURN YOUR KITCHEN/BATHROOM/HOME INTO A LAB ACCIDENT. 

IF YOU ARE A CHEMIST, YOU SHOULD STILL NOT FUCK AROUND. MANY OF YOU DO NOT RELIABLY USE YOUR SAFETY GOGGLES OR THE CORRECT TYPE OF SAFETY GOGGLES. (IF YOU’RE THE TYPE OF CHEMIST WHO DOESN’T ENSURE ADEQUATE VENTILATION IN YOUR WORK AREA, I WILL NOT TRUST YOU WITH BLEACH. COMPLACENCY KILLS.) 

CONCLUSION: STOP MIXING CHEMICALS! 

YOU ARE NOT PROFESSOR X, AND YOU WILL NOT END UP CREATING THE POWERPUFF GIRLS. 

YOU WILL ONLY CREATE A NEW INVOICE FOR YOUR LOCAL FUNERAL HOME. 

I AM YELLING AT YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND WANT YOU TO BE SAFE.

TO ANY DUMBASS TEENAGERS OUT THERE, I WANT YOU TO SURVIVE LONG ENOUGH TO BECOME DUMBASS ADULTS. 

PLEASE DO NOT DIE.

[wickedwonderlandd]

The fumes from this vid burned all the hair off my body,melted my skin, and then killed me t.f

[surdus-magus]

Bro I had to do a chem assignment why you shouldn’t fuckimg do this smh

[haiku-robot]

Bro I had to do a chem assignment why you shouldn’t fuckimg do this smh Haiku Bot v2021.1~beta I make mistakes. I am buggy too. Sorry! | HAIKU BOT NO! Paypal | Patreon

[hotdemonicangel]

I really just can't with some ppl

[filipinoprincefili]

[hotdemonicangel]

This is some absolute trickery and I can't get enough

[mysharona1987]

[scienceshenanigans]

I'm in this image and I don't like it