I'm part boy part girl, boygirl, the protector and mayor of transgenders! Well. Not that last one, that's not an official position nor would I claim it in a non-joking manner. I'm just a silly t4t slut :P
If you see this blog in sfw areas or engaging with sfw blogs, I’m just there to shitpost and I cannot be bothered to do a main blog switch thing lmao. But if it makes you uncomfortable, that’s okay too! Feel free to block. I will also probably reblog sfw memes and such too. A laugh is a powerful thing.
Last Updated: Oct 22 2025 - new gender affirming surgery
My name is Prim or Eden (switch 'em up when it's been a while). I'm 23, I am transfemmasc/transmascfem, transfem & transmasc, non-binary, and bigender (androgyne flavor), and I'm here to fuck and get fucked, at least in what ways are possible over the internet. I'm interested in all genders, but have far more fondness in my heart for my fellow trans folk. :P (I’m on the aroace spectrum but absolutely sex-favorable. It’s fun)
I'm a switch and vers in many things! I am 5'1" and a tad fragile. However due to mental health stuff, domming requires a Lot of trust in advance. I’m more likely to sub simply because it’s less stressful for me at this point.
My pronouns are fae/faer, they/them, and she/he (alternating). If you’re ever in doubt for what to call me, just slam both binary gendered words together until it sounds not terrible. Examples include guygal, boygirl, princessprince, etc.
I might use it/its for myself while in subspace being a toy, don’t change any of your language in response unless I ask or you get permission, please!
I strongly believe in trans joy and t4t joy. Transmasc transfem transneutral trans [fill in the blank] we are all so hot and cool. <3 It brings me joy to lend aid whenever and wherever I can. This blog is focused on trans 4 trans first and foremost. Cis people are an afterthought, almost always.
To this point, I am an Antigonist. If you are upset by this or my identification as transfem at all, block me.
Send me asks if you want! DMs even! I love meeting people! Don't be shy! Unless you're cis, then I have high standards so yes do be shy. And if you’re cis and heterosexual? …. Sorry, if you’re attracted to me, you absolutely cannot be both of those things! I have a discord available after I get dm'd because tumblr dms my behated.
Please don't interact if you're a minor or don't have your age in your bio. I will block you. Immediately. Be patient and you'll have a chance to explore when it doesn't endanger yourself or others.
More stuff under the readmore including limits, kinks, and other tidbits.
I also just block and unfollow liberally if you aren't firmly on the side of t4t solidarity and mutual support. We're all having a hard time out here. (I also will not hesitate break mutuals if you post content that damages my mental health that I can't filter for. This is my safe haven.) - if you support calling anyone theyfab or theymab without that being a thing they said they’re okay with I’m sorry but you’re getting fully blocked on here. I have moral OCD traits that are bad enough without me feeling like my very identity is fake to people I thought could be trusted. Thanks!
Top Surgery (No Nips!!!! Wahoo!!): 10/16/2024
Hysterectomy: 10/21/2025
Anatomical Terms:
clit, tdick, tcock, cock, cunt, pussy = GOOD!
boygirl + any term that's deemed good already= GREAT!!
hole = fine. a bit boring
vagina = BAD! too technical
If I'm dominant in your scenario, call me mastress, mixtress, or captain. Sir is on the table for those who earn it.
If I'm submissive in your scenario, call me toy, pet, diminuitive names, or kitten.
Let me know if you need anything tagged!
Due to me being bigender (androgyne edition), I try not to reblog posts with "men dni" or "women dni" on them as I feel like that's denying part of my identity. Also out of principle so maybe people will be less broad with those kinds of statements OR remember multigender folks like myself exist. Please don't binarize me, that sucks.
I call the rp/kink fiction/pretend element "kayfabe" because wrestling is y'know. somewhat analogous to kink in some ways!
I have a lot of posts I still have to queue and tag alas.
I did testosterone, didn’t like it, currently on estrogen and progestin.
[I use tcock and tdick with the t meaning trans or t4t, not testosterone <3]
List time!!!!
g = giving, r = receiving
BIG YESES!!
body worship [g+r]
praise [g+r]
tentacles & monsters [...g+r] (used to be this blog's main theme, but I'm revamping! might still post/rb it though)
bondage & restraint & shibari [g+r]
hypnosis [g+r]
bimbofication & dumbification genre [g+r]
creampies [r+g but that requires a strap and/or imagination] - I hate this word I need a new word!! The stuff with breeding is good but pregnancy is such a no go for me…. 🤔
overstim [g+r]
edging [g+r]
Objectification in the sense of being a toy, a tool, something with a function that does a job [r, unsure about g]
petplay [g+r I am a kitten thank you not a puppy sadly]
size kink [I'm so damn short I gotta sexualize it]
DEFINITELY MORE I DON'T REMEMBER OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD
CONTEXT DEPENDENT (not always a big yes but the version eithout context is a no)
anal [giving ONLY, and only with gloves or a strap. I do not stuff in my ass or touching that hole]
intox [giving/domming ONLY]
Consensual non-consent but ONLY if it's clearly established as such with the post/fiction (I know I'm rare in that I find the prep and negotiation hot but hey, I love communication and trust!)
Painplay [giving/domming ONLY]
Breathplay [giving/domming ONLY] (picky about this one because safety but also I got asthma so I need to breathe normally)
NOS!!!!
Any kind of pregnancy or pregnancy focused kink
Any sort of inflation (cumflation is case by case)
Breeding with the INTENT of pregnancy (see creampies above, I do love the raw sex and being cum in but pregnancy still makes me dysphoric)
Nipple/breast focused content and/or kink (don't have those anymore and they gave me dysphoria) [except if you want to do like. breast theft. then we can talk about it but I'm super picky it's basically a no] {okay I’m cool doing it for others tits but not Mine}
Detrans kink and misgendering kink (I respect you but not my thing and usually makes me dysphoric. More power to ya though!)
Kinks involving urine, scat [shit], or filth [literal] in any large capacity
Consensual Non-Consent when it's in-universe just non-con
I respect y’all but no f4uxc3st and please tag it!!!! I have it blocked because my brain goes “you want ocd symptoms abt this? Okay!” I don’t even have full ocd just traits n trauma 😔
Nudes. Not without my express and enthusiastic agreement (rare). I might send but I do not like to receive.
[all of this is subject to changes and updates when I remember things not listed here or I learn more about my tastes!]
Tags:
#Prim Speaks = non-horny posts/writing/updates (that's what this is tagged as)
#Prim Whimpers = horny writing (submissive focus)
#Prim Smirks = horny writing (dominant focus)
#Prim Moans = horny writing (generally)
#Prim Reveals = if I ever do post suggestive pics this is the tag for that. we'll see how I feel.
#it's the little things you queue together = queued posts, if you know what song and musical that's from, kiss me on the mouth.
There are two sideblogs off this blog but they’re both secret. Thank you <3
cock warming but they press a vibrator to your clit, making you cum over and over and over again until they end up cumming from the sensation of your muscles pulsing and spasming around them alone.
So the bureaucratic weasels, in all their infinite wisdom, recently canceled our food stamps, and my temporary job expired at the end of may, so any/all assistance to help me keep the lights on around here would be greatly appreciated
Oh, how I ache to be a doll tonight. To be dressed up beautifully, ribbons tied just right and lace smoothed over my skin. To be lifted and posed with gentle hands, arranged just so. To have my hair brushed again and again with slow strokes that soften me until my limbs grow loose and pliant.
Until my thoughts turn to cotton and cloud, light and airy inside my head. Until all that's left of me is a shy little giggle and a blooming blush. Until the tiny key in my back is wound up and setting me into motion: sweet, smiling are ready to fulfill my purpose like a very good doll.
Making someone mindless is hot and all, but what about making someone dumb? Hypnotizing them to drool their brains out and mercilessly gaslight them, because they’re just so stupid and naive they believe everything you say. You tell them their name is Pretty Bunny and they’re your personal sex doll? Duh, of COURSE they are! The fact that they can’t remember doesn’t mean anything with their brain so melted~
twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.
Me and the bad bitch I pulled through making mistakes, communicating with honesty, humility, and integrity about them, and allowing grace to deepen the vulnerability required to live this lifestyle, furthering the love, joy, and fulfillment that is to be found
