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The eye doctor is the most fun doctor you can go to. They never steal your blood. They never make you get naked and put on a paper dress. They're just like, "Can you see these letters? It's fine if you can't, we can fix that." And they don't even spell anything.

draconym

bitterfragile

Justice for Justice

#my time at sandrock #mtas justice #mtas dlc #DADDDDDYYYYYYYYY #HES ALWAYS DESERVED THIS

wonixiv-draws

claire!!!

jangb

Captain's Angels

(Lucy and the Civil Corps)

sugardood

Why there is still no eu release date for Story Of Seasons Friends of Mineral Town?? 😭 it freaks me out… want to marry my 1rst waifu Elli again

#storyofseasons #storyofseasonsfriendsofmineraltown #harvestmoon #mangadrawing https://www.instagram.com/p/B4bwW_mobOb/?igshid=9ysbb59sj1ck

color-palettes

summer sorbets - submitted by jellyrainboots

#C7B2F5 #E7B2F5 #F5B2CE #F6C1B8 #F5DBB2

Getting into Naruto and being stuck in a cycle of:

Getting far enough to reach a new intro and outro > thinking they're buns/not as good as the last ones > getting accustomed to em and thinking they're heat > repeat

#constant death and revival #the amount of times I have tried watching Naruto and stopped because I got into other things...#swearing to GOD I will finally finish it this time #met jiraiya a few episodes ago #I've gotten further than this but that was like. 10 years ago. whatever #although my memory has done a great job at forgetting everything that happens for some reason I remember bro's fate. damn

greelin

do you ever think of the fresno nightcrawler

greelin

because i do. god, i do

#this is terrifying bc I was literally on tiktok looking at fresno nightcrawlers 3 hours ago #why is Tumblr on me about them #I love em tho. pants....

secundati

While I did end up breaking things off with Arvio I found his clingy personality during the relationship very endearing lol. It’s kinda bizarre going on Reddit or Facebook and seeing how much he was disliked. I’ve seen people saying his masquerade quest was toxic and manipulative, and one comment went as far as to call his attempt to greet you with breakfast every morning ‘stalking’. Which was a bit much, seeing as he literally told you he’d be doing this AFTER you agree to enter a relationship with him.

All of those discussions are from like 2 years ago, but I get the general sense was that a lot of people likely chose him initially since he’s one of the more cuter bachelors, got the ick, and decided to perceive his displays of affection and bids for connection as harassment… lol

Arvio is immature and naive. Even though he’s no stranger to struggle, it’s kind of clear his parents and sister likely shielded him from some of the harsher repercussions of living in poverty. Also given the fact he used to be bullied, he seems to tie his survival to his reputation. He wants to be liked to avoid mistreatment, and if you don’t like him, he’ll try hard to attempt to change your perception of him, often through schemes.

He applies his work ethic to interpersonal relationships, thinking that if he keeps working hard he’ll get the outcome he wants. But people are too complex for that!

This influences his behavior in a relationship by making him excessively doting. He has a fear of disappointing you and will make attempts to appease even when you show no discontent towards him. He spent a whole week trying to greet you every morning and when his health started to deteriorate (losing sleep), he struggled to tell you he couldn’t stop by every morning anymore. And when he finally does, he follows it up with a bunch of sweet talk so you won’t be too upset about it.

All the while, he’ll probe you from time to time for confirmation that you like him just as much as he likes you. (“How come you never get jealous..?” “What do you love more, me or your workshop—? no wait, don’t answer that” “I had a nightmare you left me and a big bird took me away… you won’t leave me right?”) Even when he catches you cheating and you choose not to mend the relationship with the apology bear, he writes you saying that he’s disappointed in you not trying to explain yourself because he just wanted proof that you care.

It can be a bit much, but once you know where it’s all stemming from it’s difficult to hate, even if it’s still a little cringy. At least in my opinion. Also on a lighter note, I think his clingy nature is a funny contrast to some of the personalities of the other bachelors in the game. Like I think it’s cool you can have that excruciating slow burn romance with some of them and he’s over here being a total simp from the moment you agree to be with him.

#my time at sandrock #mtas #mtas arvio #Loooooove this analysis #fax no printer #thank you for your service

9093dotcom

the doctor realizes he's in love with his... nurse ?!

teaboot

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

teaboot

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

"I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"

"I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."

"It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"

"I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"

"I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."

"When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."

"I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"

"I'm burnt out and need help."

"I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."

"Do you notice this?"

"Are you bothered by this?"

"I am bothered when this happens."

"X habit of yours bothers me."

"When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

hug-your-face

decomposedmaw

Pixel post dividers for everyone! It's not much, but feel free to use them if you'd like. I don't know the ideal size for these, so let me know if they're too tall. I can make them a bit shorter next time.