Hunting For My Gender

Hunter/ Trans Demiboy/ hu/hum/ love me please/ I am a great human/pronoun crisis

[my-gender-is]

my gender is a raccoon, an opossum, a housecat, and a crow in an oversized black hoodie.

[sidestepup2thestreets]

why does every social interaction with someone new feel like taking a test i didn’t study for

[just-shower-thoughts]

Asking a depressed person why they are depressed when life is so beautiful is like asking an asthma patient why they have asthma when there is so much air

[studentlifeproblems]

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: text on a dark pink background says “vote and support trans rights”. End image description.)

[fybam]

Four Seasons With Agase - BamBam Teaser

[fixedyourmeme]

[kingcamdallas]

reblog if it's okay if i put a cute message in your inbox

[starlettc-blog]

Little Witch Academia - Familiars Collection

Combined animations of lots of witches and their animal friends!

[theintrovertnation]

[theintrovertnation]

Follow Introvert Nation @introvertproblems

[jellies-moved-deactivated202006]

OH I FORGOT. I SAW THE GREATEST CAR IN THE WORLD WHEN I WAS COMING BACK FROM THE JOB INTERVIEW I DID TODAY

[jellies-moved-deactivated202006]

[jellies-moved-deactivated202006]

I got the job I had interviewed for in this post and they started me at $13/hr and a guaranteed 20 hours a week thanks everyone for their support in the notes abt the job interview itself and no thanks to the people who said it was cursed

[commandtower-solring-go-deactiv]

Reblog the X3 HEWWO car of career success. Reblog for a decent job

[beejars]

how do I unsubscribe from anxiety

[anxietyproblem]

@anxietyproblem​

aesthetic themed ask list

flower crown: when did you last sing to yourself?

fairy lights: if a crystal ball could tell you the truth about anything, what would you want to know?

daisies: what is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

1975: what is the first happy memory that comes to mind, recent or otherwise?

matte: if you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living?

black nail polish: do you have a bucket list? if so, what are the top three things?

pantone: describe a person close to your life in detail.

moodboard: do you feel you had a happy childhood?

stars: when did you last cry in front of another person?

plants: pick a person to stargaze with you and explain why you picked them.

converse: would you ever have a deep conversation with a stranger and open up to them?

lace: when was your last 3am conversation with someone, and who were they to you?

handwriting: if you were about to die, and you could only say one more sentence to one person, what would you say and to whom?

cactus: what is your opinion on brown eyes?

sunrise: pick a quote and describe what it means to you personally.

oil paints: what would you title the autobiography of your life so far?

overalls: what would you do with one billion dollars?

combat boots: are you a very forgiving person? do you like being this way?

winged eyeliner: write a hundred word letter to your twelve year old self.

pastel: would you describe yourself as more punk or pastel?

tattoos: how do you feel about tattoos and piercings? explain.

piercings: do you wear a lot of makeup? why/why not?

bands: talk about a song/band/lyric that has affected your life in some way.

messy bun: the world is listening. pick one sentence you would tell them.

cry baby: list the concerts you have been to and talk about how they make you feel.

grunge: who in the world would you most like to receive a letter from and what would you want it to say?

space: do you have a desk/workspace and how is it organised/not organised?

white bed sheets: what is your night time routine?

old books: what’s one thing you don’t want your parents to know?

beaches: if you had to dye your hair how would you dye/style it and why?

eyes: pick five people to go on an excursion with you. who would you pick and where would you go/what would you do?

11:11: name three wishes and why you wish for them.

painting: what is the best halloween costume you have ever put together? if none, make one up.

lightning: what’s the worst thing you’ve ever done while drunk or high?

thunder: what’s one thing you would never do for one million dollars?

storms: you on only listen to one song for the rest of your life, or only see one person for the rest of your life. which and why?

love: have you ever fallen in love? describe what it feels like to realise you’re in love.

clouds: if you’re a boy, would you ever rock black nail polish? if you’re a girl, would you ever rock really really short hair?

coffee: what’s your starbucks order, and who would you trust to order for you, if anyone?

marble: what is the most important thing to you in your life right now?

fin.

[reassuring-suggestion-deactivat]

Wahoo ask away!!

[shitposting-theshitmosting]

MTF trans tips

I see lot of ftm trans tips and not a lot of mtf trans

Walking: Try to walk with your hips more than your shoulders. Take smaller strides. (If your in school try carrying a book or your binder by your side or to your chest. It tends to be a more feminine action.)

Speaking: Try to talk softer and more often. Women tend to talk with their whole mouth rather than just the bottom of their mouth (if that makes any sense). Voice Pitch Analyzer is a really great app to find out how your voice is perceived as far as gender goes.

Sitting: Don’t slouch. Cross your legs. If you don’t feel comfortable crossing your legs, try to not have such a huge space between your knees. Sitting up straight and/or leaning into a conversation normally come off as feminine.

Clothes: If you can try shopping in the womens section because womens clothing is cut to show off a figure while most mens clothing is cut to be comfortable. If you can’t shop in the womens section, then try to buy jeans that are designed to be more form fitting. Shirts are normally very unisex, but womens shirts tend to be more colorful and/or saturated. (Sorry, I don’t know how the sizing changes!)

Shoes: Depending on your shoe size, you probably can’t shop for womens shoes so try and pick up on what kinds of shoes women around you wear and find something similar. Most women (that i know!) don’t wear high heels or flats. Normally, a simple pair of sneakers will do.

Hair: If you can’t get your hair cut in a feminine way or grow it out long, don’t put gel in it! Even if its cut short in the average f-boy hair cut. Most hair cuts will come off more feminine if you don’t put gel in them.

If you go to school:

Name: If you’re unsure if your teacher would use your preferred name, I’ve found that just asking them to use a unisex name similar to your preferred one. If it’s unisex, they probably won’t ask questions or refuse to use it, especially if you can come up with an excuse.

Locker Rooms/Physical Education: If you don’t enjoy changing in the locker room and you’re out, try talking to the gym coach in charge of your locker room. Normally something can be worked out. If you don’t enjoy changing and your not out, wearing your p.e. clothes under your school clothes helps (depending on how early/late in the day you have p.e.). However, after p.e. is over, you will need to change out of your p.e. clothes. If you’re fast at changing, try doing it real quick when the bell rings because people will be focused on getting out of the locker room. If you’re doing this then getting out of your shirt is a priority because it smells the most because of the type of fabric. Or if you don’t want to wear your p.e. clothes under your school clothes than try wearing school clothes that are easy to get on that way you can change quickly.

Toiletries: If you have a sister or mom, normally you can swipe some or their deodorant and/or body spray without them noticing. For deodorant, if you have a cupboard where you keep bathroom essentials, they’ll probably have extra deodorants in there. If keeping one of them in your room would be too noticeable, try keeping it in your locker at school or your backpack. For body spray, if taking on of their bottles of body spray would be too noticeable, try buying an empty spray bottles (like travel spray bottles. Not cleaning spray bottles) and putting some of their body spray in the empty bottle. If all of these would be too noticeable or you don’t feel comfortable doing any of these, depending on where you live, there should be a local store. Whether its a target or dollar store or foods store, try seeing if you could go there one day (if its nearby your school run in there before or after school real quick) and pick up these things yourself.

Hope these can help y'all! If there’s anything I missed or you guys wanna add please do!

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