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I’m basically a reblog blog that doesn’t know how to tag, sorry ! My name is Milk. Yeah, like the drink. Yeah, it lead to some pretty unfortunate wordings. Yeah, I think it’s funny. (btw I’m an adult)

[ibatomik]

Ok, pinned post time .

-pronouns are He/She/It/They/Flu(Flui/Fluis/Fluiself) Soi(Sois/Soiself) in any way

-Names are Ibatomik, or milk for short, mint, and Indigo (I have other names but you don’t have to know them all)

-I am happy to be asked questions at all time, be it any subject, though I will sometime refrain from answering

-I love board games.

-and pretty things

-and notebooks

-interaction open basically (including Dms), and you can spam like/reblog my posts, unless explicitly told otherwise.

I don’t have a DNI set because I can never remember exactly who I want to not see. So come and look ! Just watch out for the block hammer.

Yeah you can block me. Don't feel bad about it. Just do it !

That’s all you need to know

Other blogs are :

@ibatomiks-drawer as the art blog

@ibuttersik for my very random thoughts

@evil-ibatomik for funsies

@superdatethisghostkingvn for. Um. Something I’m doing

And @milkcursedideas as the blog where I put well. My Cursed Ideas

⚠️you have followed tumblr user Ibatomik. You must be aware that I will have 250 posts a day. They will come in heavy bursts. ⚠️

[redstonedust]

i do find the omegaverse kind of fascinating conceptually. adding an aditional trinary on to our already complex sex and gender dynamics could do so much to your worldbuilding if you lean into it and explore the evolutionary and societal implications of it all. unfortunately telling people "im interested in the sex universe for the worldbuilding potential" is not very convincing no matter how you phrase it.

[torsena123]

could i ask for a bit more Klee? Perhaps interacting with a Flee?

By all accounts, a flea does not have any capabilities that would help its survival. Klee is more than surprised to see such a fuzzball not even have fangs or spikes. How does it even live???

(ty for liking them a lot! ehehe, thanks for the cute interaction!)

[girlnextvore]

When you see a Prep in hottopic

[girlnextvore]

“This Prep is ready for war bring it you emo fuck”

[girlnextvore]

why are people reblogging this again

this post is like 11 years old

WHY AREYALL DOING THIS

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

We’re all having a midlife crisis leave us be

[girlnextvore]

hey

fuck you LOL

[paintedplum7]

Wonderful Sisters

[tiktoksthataregood-ish]

[deepfrieddeltarunememes]

alright but we can at least bring the Floradinns back with us right

asgore doesn't need his weed stash that badly right now does he

[deepfrieddeltarunememes]

Asgore's weed is Shit

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

Just want to add that if you're on the spectrum, you may also experience Autistic Rumination, which is distinct from the obsessive variety, despite the two having some overlapping characteristics!

[seldomseensideblog]

Genuinely how I eked out a victory against the Team Snakemouth hologram. If I hadn't knocked him out, he'd have brought back the others and it would have been a whole thing. It's not like Real Leif has anything to have nightmares about, right

see it's fine

[t00nyah]

releasing this idea into the wild:

among us oc challenge where you come up with unique ways your oc would enact every role in-game (for example, how they would do the noise if they were noisemaker, how would their vitals screen work, etc)

basically your oc as every role but what could be unique about them

[creatureactivist]

Erm... He's right behind me, isn't he.

[squeaksterr]

[mistermagomancy]

Freshened up my Shadow design for my AU, love him lots

[alchemillaatnight]

actually as a woman I still think misandry makes you an unpleasant person and if you’re just out there saying shit like “all men should die” or “men’s mental health doesn’t matter” then you’re the type of person I want nothing to do with. also this is not what feminism is about btw, you’re not being a strong girl boss with this ideology, you’re just a bully

[zombiemollusk]

remember:

-the idea that women are less capable of abuse than men is an extension of the idea that women are weaker than men.

-the refusal to acknowledge men's mental health and emotions as valid things worthy of support comes from the idea that emotions are inherently feminine in nature and having them is, again, a sign of weakness.

-the treatment of men as generic and expendable and women as special contributes to the idea that women should have less representation because we already "have enough" and "don't need more" and we gotta "even the playing field" or some dumb shit, so any need or want for more attention, regardless of reason, is attributed to "pointless attention-seeking".

-all of this puts trans men in an even more uncomfortable position, because either they're made an exception (because they ~aren't really men~ you see) or they're viewed as self-hating misogynists because why else would you "choose" to be the Trash Gender (tm)?

all of these seemingly pro-women anti-men sentiments stem from beliefs produced and enforced by toxic masculinity; as such, misandry is often really just misogyny in disguise.

[zombiemollusk]

adding more onto this:

-the idea that men are inherently terrible only serves to excuse men for being terrible. because, hey, they can't help it, so why bother trying, right? part of holding men accountable for their awful actions is believing they can in fact be better.

-the reason "not all men" is so frustrating to hear is because it's often used in poor faith to derail much needed conversations about toxic masculinity and how it manifests, not because the phrase itself is untrue.

-continuing from the trans men thing, misandry can and does make it harder for trans men to come out, for fear of the aforementioned responses.

-yes, misandry can stem from trauma at the hands of a man. that's understandable, but trauma can reinforce a lot of prejudices, and we all have a responsibility to understand how we come to believe things and mind ourselves accordingly. that doesn't mean you need to hang around men all the time, nor does it mean you're wrong to feel the way you do about what men did to you - it just means recognizing the objective line between fact and feelings, and recognizing that you don't need to conflate the two to validate your feelings. "i am uncomfortable around men because of past experiences shared by a lot of women" is different from "men are all horrible irredeemable pieces of shit and need to die".

[vexheart]

There is no amount of money, oil, or gold that is worth more than having bees, trees, and clean water.

[huffylemon]

ever since i was a little girl i’ve always known i’m a big fan of alone time

[chubbidust]

colored in with care