{ The Very Frozen Crow }

[LGBTQIA+ Adult] Artist creature, creaturing away! Probably will have a pinned post eventually. [Adults only blog but not a nsfw specific blog, explicit imagery or detailed content will be tagged, discussions of adult topics are just gonna be here though]

[possessable]

i like when characters have weird inexplicable intimate bonds but i don't understand romantic or sexual attraction so it's just weird bullshit instead #myweirdbullshit #ilovemyweirdbullshit #secretthirdthing

[libraryfag]

hi my name is dark yagami and my goal is to give birth to billions of people

[luckyladylily]

So the thing is boobs really do be jiggling. If having breasts has taught me anything it is that the ladies frolic. I don't even have that large of boobs but every time I go down some stairs all I can think about is that stupid quote about boobing breastily down the stairs or whatever it is because God Damn.

But anime and video game boob jiggling is like. The most uncanny valley shit I've ever seen nine times out of ten. You would think people this horny about tits would have actually looked at some but I guess not.

What we really need is some pervert to compile the ultimate visual guide to boob bouncing physics that's just like 500 hours of meticulously organized videos of breasts of different size and shape and under different fabrics bouncing around from a wide variety of physical movements so horny game devs can finally get it right and I don't have to be creeped out by women who appear to have surgically implanted softballs in their chest under skin made of rubber bands.

[comikbook]

thinking about egregious dykery deltarune tweet

[thewindowofthesummerhouse]

Esteban Maroto

[hppjmxrgosg]

"going out to get milk" is a common turn of phrase used to describe a man abandoning his family.

the "milkman" is a common figure in stories depicting a woman's infidelity and adulterous affair.

this implies that the ability to provide milk would both decrease the likelihood of a man abandoning his wife and children, as it would eliminate the need for leaving to get milk AND would secure that man's marriage, as his wife would have no need to seek milk from an extraneous source.

therefore, all men should produce milk, through various means such as:

- being a cow

- being an almond

- being a woman

- being a coconut

- being in the omegaverse

- being an oat

(list is exemplary and not finite)

in this essay, i will redefine the nuclear family and explain the seductive and inflammatory nature of the 1993 "Got Milk?" commercials.

[8ft]

we still like these right

[what-even-is-thiss]

I think a lot of people were raised being told that things are bad with no explanation as to why they’re bad and I don’t think I know enough about psychology to make any big statements about that

but anyways I think a lot of people see cheating on your partner as bad because they were just told that sex outside of your partner is bad or something but really cheating on your partner is bad because you had an agreement based on trust with them and you broke that trust so like why should they trust you with anything else now

[homunculus-argument]

A three-circle venn-diagram where the circles are "sex workers", "the furry community", and "people working in morgues". I don't know what the overlap parts are.

[hunny--hunny]

>finds a fic that looks cool

>mc is/is dating a trans man

>gets excited and starts to read

>the only reason the character is a trans man is so that later in the fic they can have PIV sex and mpreg

>the author clearly is just fetishizing the idea of "man with pussy"

>sighs

[plumpmaggot]

[radio-jupotter]

we are kind of in "fetish world where everyone does my fetish" but the fetish is heteromonogamy

[sigmund-freud-offical]

I'm always saying this

[radio-jupotter]

Possibly the worst thing anyones ever said to me. I need to go reconsider some things

[imjunebitch]

if you assume a trans woman is going to top because of her genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

[imjunebitch]

if you assume a trans man is going to bottom because of his genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

[imjunebitch]

if you assume a nonbinary person is going to fill some sexual role because of their genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

[starrihart]

istg they’re always doing smthn freaky whenever they’re on screen together 😭😭 I don’t make the rules

me @ me

[cheaphalloweencostume]

“be gay do crime! but sex is yucky and crime is wrong!” ass website

[cheaphalloweencostume]

i appreciate this, but in a world where your gay brothers and sisters are being actively punished if not outright killed for having sex—in a fascist society that is trying to make gay sex a crime and has successfully done so in the past, in ways that still harm us today—we have GOT to be there for gay sex and the people having it. it doesn’t make you any less gay not to have sex, but that’s not something bigots are going to take into account, and if they do, it only stands to make you “one of the good ones” and pit you against your siblings and loved ones. whether someone personally wants sex or not, i think we have a responsibility to defend the people who do just as much as the people who don’t.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

#know your fandom history

[omensofatimelord]

Now that pornhub released statistics showing that a significant number of cis women seek out porn of trans men under pretty fetishistic and transphobic names, can we finally admit that the rise in the amount of explicit gay fanfic/fan art/head cannons where the character popularly assigned the bottom is a trans man is fetishistic?

[omensofatimelord]

Cause every time it's brought up people defend it as being written/read by trans men. However fandom is a cis women dominant space, fics with trans men in it have become so much more mainstream in fandom recently, and there's a pretty obvious development from the older 'femanized bottom' trope to 'trans men'. Significantly as well, if it was primarily written by/for trans men, it wouldn't be exclusively trans men bottoming for cis men, and we would probably also expect a significant rise in trans male characters outside of porn and for a wider range of characters.

I think it's less 'trans men are the main readers/writers' and more 'trans men barely get to see ourselves represented and are drawn to deptions of trans men regardless of fetishization'. It's basically impossible to find trans porn that isn't fetishized! If there was porn which featured trans men topping I'd be reading it! (I'm already writing it). But there isnt, so trans men end up in spaces which are predominantly by and for cis women.

And to be clear, its not fetishistic for cis women to write/read NSFW stories about trans men, and there's a vast variety in the quality of the representation between indervidual fics from fetishistic to well done. It is however undeniable that there is a fixation on PiV sex where trans men bottom to cis men (to the point where very very few fics don't involve it), and there are patterns in which men are popularly fancannoned as trans men.

[luckiestboy]

I think there's also this paradox in fandoms, you're meant to take "(character) has a vagina" as trans rep but also it's not trans rep it's a cis man with a pussy but that's only true if you point out the fetishization of trans men's bodies by claiming it's rep (or in general.)

It's always c4"t", always basically a perisex estrogenized vagina slapped on a man with nothing else, no term changes either. Always piv, always bottoming, often breeding kink. Never topping, never tdick, never anal anyway.

I don't think its representation in fandom to have a body "like" mine be considered a porn trope, quick fap material, whatever you wanna call it.

It also often leads to feminizing which is often untagged. Again, language is nearly never varied. Always "pussy", always "clit", and I'm meant to believe EVERY person writing "(C)waV" fics is not only a trans man, but also only ever uses those terms? Nah fuck this I'm done being charitable.

I need people who aren't a trans demographic to stop posting smut about said demographic until they learn. This applies to all smut with trans hcs though.

It got me so pissed I am writing myself. T4T, meta dick, intersex trans man if not multiple. Being the change I want to see and specifically writing not only for myself but for other guys like me.

Mind you, I hardly know anything about meta dicks. It took maybe 5-10 minutes of skimming the internet (mostly reddit) to learn what I needed to know.

[omensofatimelord]

100% hard agree on the perisex estrogenised vagina/vulva. The complete absence of any menton of the difference between a t-dick and a persex cis woman's clit is exhausting enough, but I feel like its more common for people to explicitly describe it as the same than it is to alluded to a t-dick looking different (let alone functions different). A lack of appropriate or sufficient lube in fan works is pretty well noted by now, but I've never seen it even mentioned in the context of piv sex with a trans man, despite the large proportion of trans men with vaginal atrophy or vaginismus. On the contrary, usually it's described as behaving the same as a fully estrogenised and typical cis perisex woman's vagina. And sure, a lot of it is porn logic (I for one would prefer not to be thinking about applying estradiol in general) but also idk. I've had to explain needing to be stretched out/having to work up to penetration to one too many people who assumed vaginas on t function the same as fully estrogenised vaginas- and I'm perisex! I assume that there are even more assumptions/discussions around being intersex (I couldn't speak for it cause I don't know a lot about how being intersex affects this).

There often seems to be this weird emphasis on how feminine the trans character is, and like. Zero emphasis on any masculine traits or effects of t. Like the character most often bottoming is usually the smaller more 'feminine' one at the best of times, and then it gets even more emphasis when theyre written as trans. Regardless of what the actual character is like too!

One of my favorites in fic is where the cis character will ask what terminology the trans character wants for their genitals, the trans character not replying, and the cis character going on to use pussy/clit/ect lol (Ive personally encountered that scenario more than i have ones where the trans character uses terms like dick and hole, and i hope that's not indicative of a wider trend lol).

And yeah, if you're gonna write trans people, at least know what their genitals look like. I had a pretty similar journey re:meta, where I knew nothing about it and started reaserching it for a fic I'm writing. Anyway now its one of my transition goals!

[luckiestboy]

shash-o; let's not hide this in the tags cuz it's also incredibly important. I'm also intersex (my variation is one often erased or ignored. So I not only found out very recently but I also can't speak for intersex people with different bodies besides saying it's fucked up how all our fandom "rep" is always just bigenital porn and intersexist tropes about ambiguous/mixed [idk If those are the right terms tho. I mean sex traits from both development pathways that are mixed and co exist.] genitalia, and even if it wasn't fandom "rep" of all intersex people I'd still say it's fucked up, it doesn't need to affect or include me to matter.) and the three times I saw hcs of intersex characters not written by me, they were obv all smut, one was close to an intersex variation, under-described but a possible one, and the author was respectful when given pointers. One was a genital swap mid smut tagged as intersex, author did remove the tag after my comment but my comment went with it (I find it more as an attempt to cover their ass and pretend the tag wasn't there but maybe I'm petty), the last one I didn't even skim to check because of the other tags included, with the assumption it was bigenital porn because of those tags.

For the record, that doesn't mean you can't have smut of intersex characters, but fandoms often don't actually write about an intersex body despite using the tag, and I assume it's written by a perisex person unless stated otherwise. Though I don't consider intersex people incapable of that same behavior, as we're still people, not as "rare" as the establishment thinks, and can still perpetuate harm about our own demographic, I just think most who are aware they're intersex, don't do that on account of their experiences.

There is very little respectful depictions of varsex people in smut, even in fandom. As much as fandom spaces like to act like they're progressive, there's unaddressed fetishism and other types of bigotry many authors still hold onto to the point it's "fandom culture" and calling it out is "yucking someone's yum"

And I'll also make it clear, we deserve to have bodies like ours described in smut, like any other demographic.

I'm taking steps to get the rep I always wanted out there because there's people like me who would probably feel really seen through it.

But smut shouldn't be the only means for fandoms to depict intersex bodies. There's means to meaningfully weave intersex people's experiences into a story. Medical abuse, harassment for simply having traits that pericis society scorns, confusion around ones body not developing or looking like everyone else's, impostor syndrome, internalized intersexism, ECT.

Many pretend they're normal about varsex people, but their normal is just fetishism.