[maxxie-or-smth]

it's very important that you're friends with furries and trannies and faggots and freaks and perverts it's good for your soul

[electronicpuppykryptonite]

reblorg if you're a furry, a tranny, a faggot, a freak and/or a pervert!

[that1passionatedyke]

I’m so fucking sick of the fake non-binary support when it comes to being a lesbian. “Only women and non-binary people can be lesbians” just fucking say it outright, you consider all non-binary people women, even the genderless ones. If I were to point out that there are many different types of non-binary people, including ones that are trans men and amab suddenly it’s “no they’re not non-binary, they have to be this specific type of non-binary.” Please stfu you know nothing about non-binary people.

This post is about lesbians from the perspective of a non-binary lesbian

[thecommunityoftrustworthysinks]

make more multigender characters. don’t know if you want a new oc to be a girl or a guy? both! she’s whichever whenever he wants to be! make them genderfluid! make them not genderfluid but still multiple genders! make them pangender and be all genders at all times! make them bigender for genders that aren’t just man or woman! make them genderqueer and a man! make them genderqueer and a woman! make them nonbinary and agender and xenogender! make multigender characters because multigender people exist!!

[sanguinewolves]

hello, tumblr!

are you aromantic or arospec? aplatonic or aplspec? asexual or acespec? are you looking for an understanding community of aspec people?

then aspec alcove might be the right place for you!

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this brand-new discord server is 16+ and made by and for aspec people. it features:

💜 queer/aspec specific channels, including restricted channels specifically for aro, apl, and ace identity

💙 useful bots, including pk and tupperbox for systems

💚 plenty of self-assignable roles

💜 a space free of amatonormativity and the idea that any kind of attraction is more inherently important than another

💙 a welcoming, understanding community of aspec people (yes, the server is aspec only. allies are important and great but not what we’re looking for with this server!)

💚 a simple verification system to deter trolls and prevent raids

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so if this all sounds good to you, go ahead and join! we’d love to have you <3

Check out the aspec alcove community on Discord - hang out with 14 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

[lamignonette]

[aroworlds]

Pride Bead Tutorial: Aro Flag Bracelets

My first tutorial for Aro Week is a craft inspired by my adventures in accessorising fashion dolls: a bead-stack pendant bracelet. While I’v

I'm kicking off our week of aromantic spectrum goodness with a tutorial for two bracelets using glass seed beads, chain, cord and assorted jewellery findings.

These bracelets are quick to make, customisable for any wrist (or ankle) size and will suit most striped pride flags!

[kaitopnqocy]

Lesboy Lore Explained!!

People worry too much about how others identify. I promise it will NOT kill you if someone identifies as a lesboy. If you genuinely feel invalidated by them then thats something you should work on. Now im not saying you cant have your own opinion, but let’s be open minded here and lets respect them rather than hating on them. 🤷

From a proud lesboy to you, you are all valid! 💜🩷🧡🤍💜💙

[tophats2o]

Aspec warning labels

[aroacearborvitae]

Helloo I mean no offense but how can your gender be connected to aromanticism?

No offense taken, it can seem a little odd to someone who hasn’t seen stuff like that before, and thank you for asking respectfully! It’s true that gender and sexual and/or romantic orientation are two different dimensions of a person, and operate independently of each other. Presuming someone’s sexuality because of their gender or vice versa is shitty and incorrect. However, because of the society we live in, which ties sexuality and gender together, there are many cases where gender can be affected by sexuality. Within those, it’s a different experience for everyone, fully on an individual basis.

A quick rundown on gender first: It’s how you express yourself, how you inwardly feel about societal norms, and the idea/concept of yourself that you have. It’s why gender questioning is such an exhausting process that has many twists and turns (but you come out of it knowing and expressing yourself so much better). Those are hard things to know, and no one can know them but you! So gender is an internal concept (and a societal construction at that, in that what is a “man” and what is a “woman” change over time with the culture). It’s also different for everyone. If you take two cisgender boys, they’re both going to have different ways of feeling/being their gender and how they feel like boys.

In addition, presentation doesn’t equal gender! Presentation can include your clothes, accessories, mannerisms, name, pronouns… basically what you “present” to the world. Is a transgender boy who wants to present masculine but presents feminine because they’re closeted any less trans? Nope! Is a trans boy who acts feminine that isn’t closeted any less trans, or any less a boy? Nope! This is because how a person presents is often an extension of their gender, but there is not necessarily a correlation. People who don’t present according to their typical gender role are called gender nonconforming (gnc), no matter their gender identity. A cis girl or a trans girl wearing tuxedos would both be gnc. Presentation is very important for many trans and nonbinary people, as it’s how they express themselves and their gender, and can be used to create gender euphoria and/or alleviate gender dysphoria.

Alright, now that we’ve had The Gender Crash Course, let’s get to the actual answer to your question. Continued under the cut.

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[shadowen]

This is an anti-despair checkpoint! You must share something you're looking forward to before scrolling on.

[blkaroculture]

“Black queer solidarity” banners made by me. for black people only, cred not needed. xx

(Don’t reblog with “I’m white, but…” because frankly, I do not gaf!)

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is knowing the things I value the things other peopple might pass on, will die with me. My sister has ferility issues and is child free by choice any way. I'm not close to any of the cousins ect. My freinds are all similar ages with presumably similar lifepans and not all my 'legacys' intersect their interests. When I die someonme will just throw out my sourdough culture, my hand written recipe book, break up my libary. scoety tells me I should have paired off and had kids to take these up, I cant, I wont, but I still feel sadness at the thought of all the work and time just vanishing.

all the same, isn't it so sweet that you are there to have done this? to have made sourdough culture, to have written a recipe book, to have a library? would an archeologist of a far out future not look at this with wonder, and exclaim that you lived, you created, you cooked, you read - you experienced?

[idonthaveaname-oops]

Redoing this blog (slowly bc change kinda stresses me out (autism)) as it's been abandoned for a while. Used so be a blog about maladaptive daydreaming but don't struggle with that as much anymore / don't really have any interest in it anymore so gonna remake this blog with a different topic. Unsure what topic it'll be yet but wanted to put update up anyway

Used to look like:

(I can't be bothered to crop the screenshot)

[idonthaveaname-oops]

Transformation is complete!! Yay!!! Genuinely thought it would take way longer than just ~5 days but ADHD won against the Autism

Username likely to change again at some point but probably not anytime soon

[ Pinning so easier to find the before photo & context for any followers who are confused about who I am ]